There a few things i want some truths about from the site and seems that having fun and here fir what the site is, is just not working, so here goes.
Am i a ugly cunt?
Is it better to friend zone myself and say that sexual fun is dead?
Maybe sticking to wanking rest if my life is it?
Why is it proving so hard to find even some fun and flirty chats?
These are a few things that press in the mind and after years of trying or not there no change.  |
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By *ob.42Man 49 weeks ago
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Honestly? You're outnumbered at least 50:1 and 95% of the single blokes are utterly disrespectful which leaves the other 5% at a disadvantage to begin with.
Good you have photos bud, I suggest you consider smiling? You aren't an ugly cunt but you aren't exactly inviting conversation with your expressions... |
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Truth is, it’s actually harder than meeting people in social situations, where you can deploy some personality and humour & personal charisma to bolster any aesthetic shortcomings.
I just put myself in a woman’s place - would I go for me (and I ain’t too shabby), or a gym-built Adonis with a huge cock, a run of very positive verifications and a profile that announces a relaxed, confident vibe…? Just answered my own question, lol |
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"Honestly? You're outnumbered at least 50:1 and 95% of the single blokes are utterly disrespectful which leaves the other 5% at a disadvantage to begin with.
Good you have photos bud, I suggest you consider smiling? You aren't an ugly cunt but you aren't exactly inviting conversation with your expressions..."
Quite the opposite. The 5% of whatever the % is are at a massive advtange. It is like a breath of fresh air for many ladies finding somebody sensible and repspectulf to chat with. |
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By *ob.42Man 49 weeks ago
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"Honestly? You're outnumbered at least 50:1 and 95% of the single blokes are utterly disrespectful which leaves the other 5% at a disadvantage to begin with.
Good you have photos bud, I suggest you consider smiling? You aren't an ugly cunt but you aren't exactly inviting conversation with your expressions...
Quite the opposite. The 5% of whatever the % is are at a massive advtange. It is like a breath of fresh air for many ladies finding somebody sensible and repspectulf to chat with. "
The problem we face is having our initial message read in the first place, if we get as far as a second message then I am in agreement with you. |
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Yeah a smile goes a long way. Also people will look at anyone’s pictures and make judgements therefore think about that with the pictures you pose. Who are you trying to appeal to, what might they be attracted too (in terms of both your potential personality and sex appeal).
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By *rispyDuckMan 49 weeks ago
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"There a few things i want some truths about from the site and seems that having fun and here fir what the site is, is just not working, so here goes.
Am i a ugly cunt?
Is it better to friend zone myself and say that sexual fun is dead?
Maybe sticking to wanking rest if my life is it?
Why is it proving so hard to find even some fun and flirty chats?
These are a few things that press in the mind and after years of trying or not there no change. "
You just need to work on your self esteem mate  .
Try and figure out why you feel this way & why you might not be having luck getting some fun & address these issues. See what you can do about it, what can you change, what are others doing you could copy.
It’s normal to feel low sometimes but, self pity doesn’t help, doing something about it is what helps |
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As said above perhaps smile and make them a bit flirty. 