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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need advice..again
Man asks me to meet, I say yes. I message to confirm meet to be now told if he can get time off work?
Why arrange when you don't even know your free or be upfront about it.
Feel like telling him I'm washing my hair. What would you do?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a bit non committal, but people do have lives and you have to understand that.
What if it were roles reversed, and someone got irritated with you when you were genuinely trying to find time for them?
I'd see what he does next, it will become obvious if he does want to meet, even if he can't this time around. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is a bit non committal, but people do have lives and you have to understand that.
What if it were roles reversed, and someone got irritated with you when you were genuinely trying to find time for them?
I'd see what he does next, it will become obvious if he does want to meet, even if he can't this time around."
I totally agree if he would of just said I may be able to meet. But he never so if he can't make it I'd just be cancelled last minute. |
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"Need advice..again
Man asks me to meet, I say yes. I message to confirm meet to be now told if he can get time off work?
Why arrange when you don't even know your free or be upfront about it.
Feel like telling him I'm washing my hair. What would you do? "
say you are washing your hair.  |
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