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By *ohoho OP Woman
over a year ago
Up North |
So which is your preference and why?
I have always preferred house meets but after a recent incident I am having to rethink my options.
To me clubs are not intimate enough and do not allow for through the night fun.
Hotels need to be prearranged, also who books it? What if they don't turn up?
Home meets I have the address so I know I will turn up. But what if they invite friends around? This could also be the same for the hotel?
I am still relatively new and really would appreciate some advice from my fellow forum members who have tried the different options and have more experience than me. Single ladies especially x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
When I was swinging on other sites I would meet at home, but my daughters lifestyle changed and, as I didn't think it fair to her I stopped accommodating. I would then only meet at the guys house, but after a couple of nights spent freezing my bottom off while knocking fruitlessly at front doors I stopped that. I then decided that if someone wanted to meet up enough they would be happy to go halves on a hotel and at least the place would be tidy and clean (something I can't always say about my house!) This seems to work OK, although it is hard work to get some guys to commit to a date.
Overall I prefer to go to clubs. I don't arrange to meet anyone there, I just go for the social side and a good hard shag is the bonus. At least it gets me out of the house. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i really dislike clubs more and more to be honest APART from if i'm wanting lots of guys and want to show off or i am with a dom guy who wants to lead me round deciding who i have to fuck and suck(its a kink of mine).
For actual meets with one person or a couple i love going to their place or a hotel,and having chat and cuddles and true intimacy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I played as a single I would always offer to accomodate.
As a couple, we tend to meet at clubs, though we have and will accomodate but normally only people that we have met before. |
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I prefer clubs, have no worries if I wanna use a private room, I still enjoy lots of fun.
But I do like to put on a show too. My last club visit, I had a huge audience whilst having some FF fun. Loved it 
I enjoy hotel meets, I've paid for in the past, but thats so I can stay overnight (on my own after play).
I would only accommodate somebody I really knew or go to somebodies house that I knew, after a bad experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Club, for me.
I don't arrange in advance to meet at a club (too much pressure to play!), but I've met lots of lovely people at clubs. I'm happy to invite a nice guy into my home (or go to his), but only after we've met at a club/social.
I did do a hotel meet once, but it is very expensive - especially since I was very clear that it was MY hotel room. i.e. I paid for the room, to protect my right to chuck him out, if I didn't fancy him LOL (fortunately, I did fancy him LOL) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer not to accommodate as I dislike housework with a vengeance.
I seldom play with anyone I do not know at clubs.
I prefer to meet at budget hotels either roughly equal distance between the gent and myself, or local to me.
I have a monthly entertainment budget that includes one night at a local budget hotel, as I prefer to pay my own way.
I feel safer booking the room myself as I feel I have more control in whom I let in etc...  |
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By *uschmanMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
I prefer hotel as I find clubs a little less intimate (unless that is the point )
I don't mind paying for the hotel, if a woman wants to pay her share, I'd rather she spend the money on something to enhance the event!
And I would never have a first meet at home. Just call me paranoid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whether hotel or in someones house , prefer private fun.
Never been to a club but dont like the idea of ppl watching.
Its personal choice where U have fun where ever it maybe...in house, hotel, car, outdoors or in a club.
Main thing is when having fun is that its safe sex, no STDs thanks!
Go enjoy ur fun |
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