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What's the attraction of a bull
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By *ister_EMan 50 weeks ago
Hayling Island |
I've asked this of every cuckold couple I've been involved in a relationship with. The answers have always varied. They seem to run from, a real or percieved sexual inadequacy (Size, performance, stamina etc.) To deeper underlying psychological issues like the need to be sexualy submissive or subjugated. And for others it's about some kind of escapism from the pressures of life/work/decision making or the surrender of controll.
But the answers are generally as varied as the individuals in the relationships and are often either not fully understood or evolving as they explore the lifestyle.
The only constant with all the couples I've ever cucked is love.... Both partners ultimately just seem to want the other to be happy, to satisfy their needs and and want to enjoy each others pleasure. |
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By *ickD80Man 50 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
‘To deeper underlying psychological issues like the need to be sexualy submissive or subjugated.’
Why have you phrased this in such a negative way? ‘Underlying psychological issues’ is something people normally say to explain the behaviour of someone which is antisocial and harms others and/or themselves. It is normally caused by a traumatic experience earlier in their life. The word ‘issue’ implies that it’s something unhealthy or problematic that needs to be resolved.
Saying they have a ‘need to be sexually submissive’ implies that they’re doing it because they can’t survive without it rather than because they choose to. Having a need to do something means that they have to do it to survive.
Why do you even feel that it’s necessary for you to try to explain the reasons why someone is submissive? Why do you think that there are controlling factors that have made someone submissive? Why do you feel that it’s necessary for you to ask every cuck you’ve been involved with why he’s a cuck?
Would you ask a Dom why he’s a Dom? Would you try to uncover what it is that causes a Dom to be dominant? If a man told you that he enjoys MFF threesomes would you ask him why he likes them? Would you try to evaluate his mental state to try to figure out what causes him to enjoy them?
Getting pleasure and satisfaction from being sexually submissive is not a psychological issue it’s a kink and a preference, it’s not a need it’s a desire and a choice. |
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By *oxy jWoman 50 weeks ago
taunton somerset |
most dont understand what cuckold is let alone the relationships love trust affects emotions of just the couple thats before you even get to the bull ... then split the cuckold scene in two as roleplay / fantasy (80 to 90% of cuckolds) and then those who live the lifestyle for real day in day out full time and for real reasons ....hell thier are cuckolds who dont understand other cuckolds ...porn being a major thorn ..
so when you have 2 types of cuckold roughly and then add in that every single couple will be different on top ... the the role of the so called bull will be different in every single way ... bearing in mind most cuckold couples dont look for bulls as 99% are bullshit .... its very very hard to find a 3rd person that fits any cuckold couple attraction regular on the same page trust friendship most just think porn..
we have 3 regular guys one know 30 years one 25 years and one about 13 years that are considered very good friends i call them boyfriends as i hate the bull tag like many others all 3 all what we want there has been others who think they want this lifestyle but they really dont some i see them as boyfriends who are genuine friends that has a massive sexual benifit for me / us /and him/them i think if you complicate it then it will fail and yes theres a line in the sand they do not cross ...
experienced bulls / guys = nothing ... your experience stopped with the last couple what you did with them will mean nothing to a new couple zero nah dah nothing |
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