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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Hi guys is here someone who has premature ejaculation problems? I have 2 questions.
1 how you try to solve it.
2 how you women feel if you meet someone who comes fast??
Thanks for your support. |
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Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x |
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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x "
well after 10minutes I m fuck again btw..ah ah ah. and the 2nd time takes longer. foreplay are important too.well good to know that u ll be turn on if someone cum fast,we should meet then |
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"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x
well after 10minutes I m fuck again btw..ah ah ah. and the 2nd time takes longer. foreplay are important too.well good to know that u ll be turn on if someone cum fast,we should meet then"
If you're ready to go again after 10 minutes you have no problem to solve. Do some foreplay and you're good to go. |
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"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x "
Think you’d make most me cum quick!! You’re stunning |
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"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x "
I cum quick but happy to try again |
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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x
I cum quick but happy to try again"
What the girls thought about it?? |
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Whilst mentally you might feel embarrassed about it, if you continue to give the attention you would have done, and not just zip up and go home, then all is usually good. If you can be up and going again in 10 minutes then I wouldn't have thought for most it's too much of an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hubby has this often, I take it as a compliment that I get him that excited that he can't control it
Nothing to be ashamed of or embarrassed by, own it, you will find alot of women will take it as a compliment x |
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Someone posted on another thread that there is a prescription medication (a type of antidepressant I believe) that can slow you down. Can’t remember the name, probably needs a prescription, but you can get those using one of those “online gp” things, which I’m sure are bots these days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys is here someone who has premature ejaculation problems? I have 2 questions.
1 how you try to solve it.
2 how you women feel if you meet someone who comes fast??
Thanks for your support."
Do you cum too fast in the second, third and fourth time, or just the first? In which case, problem solved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as you make sure to satisfy me through foreplay I wouldn’t have much of an issue
Like above I’d be slightly turned on that I made you shoot quickly
Hopefully I can get you hard again |
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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago
edge of taunton |
ive always had this all my sexual life with women with men its always been lightnig quick a long tome for me is 60 seconds i can come without even touching my self my wife can make me cum with just a few words or a look and hence why im cuck.
but ive never let it get to me ive had every test going ive been to hospital appointment ive tried every treatment going and nothing for me worked tho i will add thats rare in itself most can be fixed.
for me its been a blessing ive had and still have an amazing sex life , with my wife we always have had others please her to my joy too and with guys there a lot of guys who like guys who have small cocks and cum quick as it make me a total bottom.
its how you deal with it that matters get help and as most women say they aint bothers as long as you dont run, dont let it dominate your mind as that will only make it worse good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are just very sensitive and it happens.
Practicing some edging techniques or "endurance" numbing condoms or creams may help.
Communication beforehand is best spare any awkward moments with a new partner.
I used to have a lover who would always cum fast the first round. We called it the warm up and I had fun playing with how and where it would happen. Second and third rounds always lasted much longer. And lots of foreplay in between meant I came multiple times too.
I think he had a better time than my ex who had a porn addiction and could only cum from his own hand so was hard for hours no matter what I did to/with him.
Personally I had a lot of fun with them both. |
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I have premature ejaculation problem. With penetration, I don't last more than 30 seconds. But I am personally submissive and voyeuristic. I enjoy giving oral to women and using toys on them. I like watching women with other men. In these kind of meets, my premature ejaculation issue has never been a problem.
But when I did try to fix the problem, masturbating once before the meet helped. I think trying kegel exercises helped a bit too. Also, try practicing with fleshlights to see how long you can hold. But if you find it really affecting you, definitely meet a doctor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only time I've felt shit after being with men who cum fast is when they have let their shame/embarrassment take over and have run out the door and never spoken to me again. That's the shit that hurts. If they'd only spoken to me I would have been able to show them all the other ways to make me cum that don't involve a penis at all. |
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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago
Birkenhead |
"Id personally be turned on if someone came quickly! Id see it as a confidence boost for myself haha! I’m complete honestly I’d be slightly let down but if you are good at foreplay it wouldn’t be much of an issue x "
Yes i cum quick, been told great at foreplay, 10 mins i then go better and longer x |
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By *TaR105Man
over a year ago
Birkenhead |
"The only time I've felt shit after being with men who cum fast is when they have let their shame/embarrassment take over and have run out the door and never spoken to me again. That's the shit that hurts. If they'd only spoken to me I would have been able to show them all the other ways to make me cum that don't involve a penis at all."
Now i would deffo stick around if i got the chance x |
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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"As long as you make sure to satisfy me through foreplay I wouldn’t have much of an issue
Like above I’d be slightly turned on that I made you shoot quickly
Hopefully I can get you hard again "
Sure I could show you, but yiu are far away |
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I sometimes have a tactical wank an hour or two beforehand just to make sure. If you’re still worried, up your foreplay skills.
There are numbing creams available - just make sure you wash it off before a blowjob! |
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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"I sometimes have a tactical wank an hour or two beforehand just to make sure. If you’re still worried, up your foreplay skills.
There are numbing creams available - just make sure you wash it off before a blowjob!"
Thanks..I ll check it |
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If you can go again I’d have no issue.
I don’t mind a guy that cums quick.
I’d rather that than someone who just pounds endlessly with no skills determined to make me cum and not getting the signs!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wife finds it a turn on if she can get me to cum quick! So it’s something she enjoys as she fees desired.
Obviously if you call it a night there, then it’s disappointing, just carry on with fingers mouth and toys till you are ready to go again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a fellow sufferer:
How quick is quick to other sufferers?
I can get hubby to finish in under a minute, but I don't mind, it's quite a turn on x "
I can’t last longer than 1 minute, one lady I fucked put a post on Facebook about me lasting 59 secs once I love looking back at the post still if you want to see the post I’ll screenshot it and send |
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By *ikos81 OP Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"As a fellow sufferer:
How quick is quick to other sufferers?
I can get hubby to finish in under a minute, but I don't mind, it's quite a turn on x
I can’t last longer than 1 minute, one lady I fucked put a post on Facebook about me lasting 59 secs once I love looking back at the post still if you want to see the post I’ll screenshot it and send "
Send it please |
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
Newferry, wirral |
I prefer blokes who come fairly fast rather than someone trying for a world record, it gets boring after a while, though by fairly fast must be at least a few minutes, once had a guy come whilst i was rolling a condom on his cock |
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