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Only one, socially.
The four people we've had meets with are no longer on the site. |
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A vibrating but plug. Didn't see the coming. |
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By *rispyDuckMan 51 weeks ago
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I’ll ask a question publicly and you can answer however you feel lol 
When does 1 + 1 =3 |
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To my none fab friends would be in bi |
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Nope not fancied anyone we shouldn't. Not 100% sure of the criteria of that but she and I can fancy whoever the hell we like. It's doing something with others without checking in with partner that's the only relationship taboo. |
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Getting oral from her in Sweden with the snow pouring down outside. |
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Going without Bra would be better. The other option is messy. |
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By *damxxMan 51 weeks ago
London |
Yes fancied my best mates gf many years ago but was respectful and controlled my urges! |
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I’m in |
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I'd love to be on my back him fucking me her sat on my face |
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No we are very picky. We wouldn't do oral on a first meet. We would want to do social first and pick up a vibe. |
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By *damxxMan 51 weeks ago
London |
I orgamsed on Wednesday making a cum tribute video  |
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A rough outdoor gangbang.
It's not going to happen. |
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His most intense orgasm was getting sucked off with a prostate toy in.
Hers was probably a wand and finger combo or an oral and finger combo. |
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Ooh either one of those glass topped yurt things where you can see the northern lights in Iceland or in a secluded tropical hut by a beach. |
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No, not yet, but it's on "the list" lol |
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If we are getting a guy involved it would be to fuck one of us or to be a cock to suck and play with.
The RHBG (random hot bi guy) is a willing sex toy in our bed lol. |
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Not the moment it started but it went downhill pretty quickly. I couldn't think of a way out, so put up with it. |
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That’s a hard one really depends who is guessing but maybe that I love a good throat fucking |
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I would go with oral just
And the other question is 46 |
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Tough one I would say man and woman
Although I would love to try 2 females
And lots of oral, toys and hard sex I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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I'm in |
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Jesica rabbit haha what a girl |
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That’s a tough one for me both slightly different but I would go with female just slightly ahead |
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Ohhh not sure we probably fancy an actual celebrity couple - we’ll go with Ryan Reynolds and Blake Lively
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A long time ago we had a bed that on each corner had an oval shaped finish on top. An ex girlfriend told me to sit down and she put me in her ass and her pussy on the bed post. It is was my first real insight into dp as such. It was an amazing sight and feeling. |
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Swallowing - anal - BDSM - female female play - it was all new to me on joining FAB and I guess once one door was opened and I enjoyed it I wanted to explore other rabbit holes |
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Again - not had the chance with or without him, but it's top of the list this year! |
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We would fuck a guy if we were playing with him. In fact she enjoys fucking me with a dildo so he might get it twice! |
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I have met another female we met for drinks and then went back to hers was great fun something I would definitely do again |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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The living room probably. It's still comfortable, and there's an array of furniture to use |
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Spending as much time as possible using your mouth and tongue only |
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Our age difference is purely coincidental. We were friends at a social club that just fell for each other surprising us both. Normally we would not have gone for someone the other age.
What we have learned is you'll find younger people who are very worldly and mature and older people who are cloistered and immature. As long as you are all adults and you vibe maturity wise it's fine. Saying that we do have age limits out of preference. We wouldn't really consider meeting anyone 2 years younger than her or say 10 years older than him (pulling figures out of the air). |
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Depends how you mean disappointment
When dating there was plenty of people who weren’t how they came across on the phone
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Always happy to answer any questions  |
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He has been caught naked a few times. Skinny dipping, fucking outdoors (hiking and camping) and by a housemate.
She hasn't been caught naked before. |
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It would have to be an bi orgy including both f2m and m2f to have all possible opinions or something in realm of cnc |
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I would love to watch J play with my best friend. I’ve always been sexually attracted to her, but always kept our friendship PG. I dream of watching his dick slide inside her whilst I play with her boobs! |
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By *andydan69Man 51 weeks ago
south west nr you mmm |
Mmm whatever go with the flow lots of sucking n licking by all mmmm two people on 1 cock etc etc |
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The blindfolded erotic massage still needs to be completed. |
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An all female orgy (for C)
Several guys finishing all over C
A sexy dinner party with around 8/10 guests
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Thin it would have to be a naughty weekend away in Wales shortly after I started seeing my now hubby. Mid summer in one of those remote glamping places. Super chilled, full weekend of sex, cuddling, drinking, exploring and being naughty in and out of the cabin. Awesome. |
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He has zero jealousy. As long as she clears things with him she can more or less do what she wants. Mostly he needs to know in advance to make sure she's safe and to mentally prepare. She doesn't want to play away so it's kinda redundant but she knows she can.
I think it's a common value in swinging that sex isn't cheating. Breaking the consent and checking in rules you have as a couple is cheating. |
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Love to receive oral the position doesn’t bother me as long as it’s good |
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Unwrapping my treat from it's unnecessary wrappings, I eye it with delight and a hunger that has been with me all evening. Taking my time I slowly lick the tip before taking more and more of the head across my tongue as I widen it. Once I've savoured enough of it I slip my whole mouth around it and shudder in delight as my mouth is filled. I spend minutes working at the dripping mess in my hands, making sure to clean up any drips from round the shaft. Finally I manage to get all of it in my mouth in the final moments, enjoying every second of it until the time comes where I willingly swallow every last bit, already wondering when I can enjoy my next one. |
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Umm a dinner party the food of choice would be a mix of stuff really
As for games anything that breaks down tension and is a laugh beer pong, cards of humanity anything along those lines really |
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Someone fun and filthy in equal measures
Is that you? |
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Great question!
Probably a long, slow, sensual massage followed up by lust filled sex! The oiled up bodies would look great on film
C x |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Had to think about this one!
The two I'd choose are Tess Daly and Margot Robbie.....xx |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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my second question....
Think it would say, I hope a hot woman is going to suck and ride me soon! lol x |
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A trip to Amsterdam with my wife. We got mashed, we got horny and we fucked. A lot. The memory is hazy but I know it was sublime. She also remembers it as a very enjoyable session |
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He is definitely the boss in the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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My biggest turn on is him and I would like to think that I am his too lol |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
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We are in for a while |
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We would like to go to a club at some point, We have a female friend that we are interested in joining us in the bedroom and she is also keen but we need to sort out the logistics |
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Never been on a swinging holiday…but would very much love to go.
We were invited to Cap last year - it’s on our radar for this year or next.
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im in :3 |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
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Probably you two as not only are you younger than us but look horny and adventurous |
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Go on I am in, though I think I peaked with 2 questions the other day |
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If I could play with any I think it would be you and defo ff to start with then see where we go |
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I certainly wouldn’t say no to She and I would do whatever she asked of me  |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
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Biggest age gap was 12 years younger for my wife |
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Definitely tongue. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Too many questions to answer lol xx |
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There’s several in the thread that look a lot of fun including yourselves |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Probably Lorenzo… not quite sure. I’d go with the cowgirl style |
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By *ostosaCouple 51 weeks ago
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Having a fff play with a group of people watching then trying full swap for the first time. Both happened at the same time!! |
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Hands tied above the head |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Yes I’d let them watch |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Yes I would love to |
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Sadly I have never enjoyed taking anal so I’m afraid the answer had to be no. I know, I feel the shame of failure! lol |
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By *ostosaCouple 51 weeks ago
North of England |
V has met another female alone where the night ended with both of the girls booking a hotel and staying the night. V meeting other woman alone is something we’re very much open to. We would only meet another couple together, as a couple. |
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No age set as depend on person or people more |
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I bottled getting my cock pierced lol |
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I’ve been lucky enough to enjoy lots of kinky, adventurous sex but never had commuted, love making sex so I’d like to try that. Ideally while pregnant with their baby. Hot lol |
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Yes guy made a fake profile pre tending to be a F, caught him out what I noticed one pic had a tattoo and the other didn’t. |
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My favourite bondage position is being spread eagled, though I also enjoy having my legs tied in the air. I guess it’s about being exposed and vulnerable, unprotected from his desires
I don’t know what my favourite tie is. I would love to find out more about knot work and shibari |
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Wine, kissing, licking, stroking, bondage, fucking - lots of fucking, sweaty make up running down my face, joyful abandon, and then precious sexy marks blossoming on my body and breasts in the days after |
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Yes I squirt really easily and because it isn’t connected to my orgasm I will keep squirting for as long as you keep stimulating the spot |
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I'll be honest I was that "pretent to be bi" guy once.
The couple just wanted oral play I thought why not I'll get my dick sucked to get this a night with his really hot wife.
First contact between me and him was her sat on my face he sucked lubed then put a condom on my cock.
I wasn't sure if I was just excited by her but I was so hard.
Later I was fucking her and she was sucking him. His cock just popped out her mouth and I thought fuck it I'll give this a go return the favour. Yeah fucking loved it didn't I no turning back. |
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I do like majority, but not on face and also have the fear of getting caught on them in other places |
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Rimming would depend who really and no guys are fine does nothing for me watching though tbh |
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You can come anywhere that doesn’t get me pregnant lol |
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Honestly, if I happened to be walking and saw a random strange man sitting in his car wanking I would turn around and walk away. I don’t think many women would find that sexy, men are so much physically stronger than us they’re a bit scary sometimes |
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I seem to quite often fuck guys 20 years my junior. The gap can’t get much bigger until I get a bit older lol. |
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We’ve had some of the best top shelf moments sexually between ourselves and with people we’ve met from the site |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
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It depends what you can give to her. |
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I’m in |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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Prefer men around my age, and women my sort of age or older. Not sure why just what I'm attracted to |
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We definitely expect this year to exceed last year for meets! We've already got a wee party lined up next weekend and, last year, we only managed to go to one party! Let 2024 be the year of true exploration |
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By *emma200Woman 51 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
It depends really..
maybe walk in by or offer.. but it does really depend |
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By *emma200Woman 51 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
Someone that actually meets.. |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
colchester |
Swinging in the 50s is more sensual and friendly |
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"I’m in too "
Damn it’s getting tight in here! |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
colchester |
Given to her.
Just being sensual and kinky |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
colchester |
Ideal meet.
Probably a group sex with friends |
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By *ove2Couple 51 weeks ago
colchester |
Typical bloke question. |
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By *emma200Woman 51 weeks ago
Warwickshire |
Mostly no.. but it depends what else comes with it |
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Neither of us have had an orgasm in public but I'd love to make her cum in a club like Chams |
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I don’t know how long I have been tied up for in one go - but it’s been more like tied up for sex and play than tied up for a whole day while he goes for work haha |
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Being in my early 20s, away for work and walking with my 50ish boss to her hotel room and not being able to keep our hands off each other. What followed was a coaching session in oral sex. |
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I would pick queen over the beetles any day ! |
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Depends on the situation but as a single woman I put my safety first always |
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Yeah they are sensitive and more so depends on when in the month and course what woman doesn’t |
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Letting your husband clean u up |
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By *aks95Man 51 weeks ago
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I was just about 17/18 with my girlfriend at the time, I’d been with her for a little bit. I was the one who suggested I go down, enjoyed it pretty much straight away the noises she was making would get me going instantly . Over the years I’ve grown to love it even more and of course got better at it, but the sounds and squirming it creates to this day get me hard as a rock.
And yes I was very well rewarded for doing it |
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Yes once - it was hot AF.
With a long term FWB |
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