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my mrs has always wanted to watch me play about with another man . and although i have no problem with being around naked men in a state of arousal . . bloody hard not to be in this game . . im not bi . .im not in denial or unsure of my self . i like women .men just dont do it for me . but i thought nothing ventured !!! Any way we got a man in . . and we both went to town on him . . and im not blowing my own trumpet ( No pun intended ) But i gave a damn fine blow job . . . am i bi . ??Or not . . . |
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Does it really matter.
Just do what you enjoy doing.
Why does everything have to have a label and people fitted into pigeon holes.
Your horny and fun so bring on the next lot. |
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dont think of my self as bi even tho i love playing with a fem xx just think of it has having lots of fun with different playmates whether they are fems or guys xx enjoy |
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"I class myself as bi, I do like to suck cock but I don't find men attractive at all! Just something about sucking a cock which really turns me on! "
that's what it is to be bi in my _iew for a man. sexual contact, not emotional
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"I class myself as bi, I do like to suck cock but I don't find men attractive at all! Just something about sucking a cock which really turns me on! "
I second that! |
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"Straight man here who takes a blow job lol, ?.???  "
bi who just likes his cock sucked is like a bi fem who likes her lettuce licked but wont repay the act so think that their name should be bi selfish  |
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"Straight man here who takes a blow job lol, ?.???
bi who just likes his cock sucked is like a bi fem who likes her lettuce licked but wont repay the act so think that their name should be bi selfish "
be interesting if he does reciprocate |
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"Glad you enjoyed your meet
Don't overthink what you are, just enjoy being who you are 
Well said, I hate the whole label game just enjoy Mrs xx "
When I go into a shop, be it to buy food or clothes, I look at the label. If I want tomato soup I don't want to pick up chicken. Likewise, if I'm looking for a certain type of playmate I'm looking at "labels".
Op...I'd say you're bi. No amount of asking, absolutely no interest in trying any form of same sex play is straight to me. |
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"Glad you enjoyed your meet
Don't overthink what you are, just enjoy being who you are "
Well said, just enjoy..
I would consider myself bi but won't play with every woman I encounter, some have said I was a wanna be cause I refused to play with them. I've been playing with girls since before I've been playing with boys.. It's all about the person..
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I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.  |
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"I class myself as bi, I do like to suck cock but I don't find men attractive at all! Just something about sucking a cock which really turns me on! that's what it is to be bi in my _iew for a man. sexual contact, not emotional "
Yes, like I'm really monogamous, I'm only on a swingers site meeting random strangers for sex because there's no emotional attachment it doesn't count!  |
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"Glad you enjoyed your meet
Don't overthink what you are, just enjoy being who you are
Well said, just enjoy..
I would consider myself bi but won't play with every woman I encounter, some have said I was a wanna be cause I refused to play with them. I've been playing with girls since before I've been playing with boys.. It's all about the person..
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By the same token I'm straight but won't play with every man...it's all about the person! |
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"ok so does a woman going down on another woman or fisting her etc make that act lesbian sex? surely bi sexuality is going all the way with both sexes? "
Of course it doesn't make them lesbians but they are enjoying the same sex lesbians do..women often kiss when greeting and during sex with each other. Men don't unless gay to my knowledge |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination. "
Your analogy doesn't make sense. It's like me saying does eating tofu make me vegetarian.  |
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"ok so does a woman going down on another woman or fisting her etc make that act lesbian sex? surely bi sexuality is going all the way with both sexes?
Of course it doesn't make them lesbians but they are enjoying the same sex lesbians do..women often kiss when greeting and during sex with each other. Men don't unless gay to my knowledge "
right, so to your knowledge what's the difference between a bisexual man and a gay man? |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.
Your analogy doesn't make sense. It's like me saying does eating tofu make me vegetarian. "
You lost me there! |
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"ok so does a woman going down on another woman or fisting her etc make that act lesbian sex? surely bi sexuality is going all the way with both sexes?
Of course it doesn't make them lesbians but they are enjoying the same sex lesbians do..women often kiss when greeting and during sex with each other. Men don't unless gay to my knowledge
right, so to your knowledge what's the difference between a bisexual man and a gay man?"
For me, bi isn't one to one with a guy. It's not being inhibited when another of the same sex is included in a sex meet.
That's just how I feel about it, others will see it in a different way for sure. |
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"ok so does a woman going down on another woman or fisting her etc make that act lesbian sex? surely bi sexuality is going all the way with both sexes?
Of course it doesn't make them lesbians but they are enjoying the same sex lesbians do..women often kiss when greeting and during sex with each other. Men don't unless gay to my knowledge
right, so to your knowledge what's the difference between a bisexual man and a gay man?
For me, bi isn't one to one with a guy. It's not being inhibited when another of the same sex is included in a sex meet.
That's just how I feel about it, others will see it in a different way for sure. "
i dont think that's bi sexual, thats just performing for an audience? |
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"I class myself as bi, I do like to suck cock but I don't find men attractive at all! Just something about sucking a cock which really turns me on! "
Same here, feels so naughty and sexy! |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.
Your analogy doesn't make sense. It's like me saying does eating tofu make me vegetarian. "
Well, it does make sense but I guess it doesn't support your point of _iew so I can understand you trashing it |
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"my mrs has always wanted to watch me play about with another man...
You've given your lady what she needed and wanted, and enjoyed the experience. What else is there to say?  "
And have you not wanted to? |
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I see it a no big deal, But alot of you men some how do .If you are you are ..if your not your not. if i was licking around a woman bits oral do make me bi F/F..... same go for you men.M/M if sucking your not holding hands now are you. |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.
Your analogy doesn't make sense. It's like me saying does eating tofu make me vegetarian.
Well, it does make sense but I guess it doesn't support your point of _iew so I can understand you trashing it "
So by saying it doesn't make sense to me, and adding a rather than  to try and show no malice was intended I'm thrashing it?
Okie doke! |
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also i dont class someone as fully bi unless they would do a 1 to 1 meet with someone of the same sex. once your at that level your anywhere between fully bisexual and gay imo op but i doubt this is you x |
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"I see it a no big deal, But alot of you men some how do .If you are you are ..if your not your not. if i was licking around a woman bits oral do make me bi F/F..... same go for you men.M/M if sucking your not holding hands now are you."
It's not just sucking men can do to each other. Giving a guiding hand can be helpful |
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I had a man friend who said no i am not bi he dress up as a woman ..... And i just suck and he suck back ... Well i say he is bi... he this only having full sex make him bi.. Us woman don't have cocks but if we just play around oral and stuff with strap on fun we are seen as bi .Because we are. |
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"I had a man friend who said no i am not bi he dress up as a woman ..... And i just suck and he suck back ... Well i say he is bi... he this only having full sex make him bi.. Us woman don't have cocks but if we just play around oral and stuff with strap on fun we are seen as bi .Because we are."
Men are less able to admit to their feelings anyway. If the enjoy physical contact with another guy then they are bi. Unless they get emotionally involved then its a different story in my opinion. |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination. "
But did you suck a guys cock on the way down? If so, your a bi skydiver! |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.
But did you suck a guys cock on the way down? If so, your a bi skydiver! "
JUST BI ,LOL |
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"I went skydiving once and enjoyed it. I'd probably do it again if the opportunity arose but I don't crave it, or even think about it really. So, does that make me a skydiver? Nope, not by any stretch of the imagination.
But did you suck a guys cock on the way down? If so, your a bi skydiver! JUST BI ,LOL"
If you open your mouth skydiving one cheeks blow out..that would make it different lol |
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Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lol |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lol"
so your Bi when you feel like it. |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lol"
If you have straight on your profile with no mention of same sex play, don't you limit the pool of people you play with? |
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"my mrs has always wanted to watch me play about with another man . and although i have no problem with being around naked men in a state of arousal . . bloody hard not to be in this game . . im not bi . .im not in denial or unsure of my self . i like women .men just dont do it for me . but i thought nothing ventured !!! Any way we got a man in . . and we both went to town on him . . and im not blowing my own trumpet ( No pun intended ) But i gave a damn fine blow job . . . am i bi . ??Or not . . ."
I can understand where you're coming from, I have no problems giving oral or taking anal. I don't fancy men, I couldn't kiss or cuddle a man, its the act that turns me on. I used to worry about, now I really don't care, I just put myself as bi as it opens up more oppurtunities. |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lol
If you have straight on your profile with no mention of same sex play, don't you limit the pool of people you play with?"
I suppose so. But im only orally bi and only if the mood and person is right. Its not something I regularly seek. But yes its enjoyable |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it. "
Orally yes I suppose your right |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lol
If you have straight on your profile with no mention of same sex play, don't you limit the pool of people you play with?
I suppose so. But im only orally bi and only if the mood and person is right. Its not something I regularly seek. But yes its enjoyable "
What do you mean ONLY orally Bi isn't oral sex fairly advanced? |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it.
Orally yes I suppose your right "
I'm sorry, but whether its in the mouth or up the ass, if you take another guys cock, your bi! (if you also like women that is). Theres no such thing as 'orally bi'. Whats next, 'anal bi'?? |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it.
Orally yes I suppose your right
I'm sorry, but whether its in the mouth or up the ass, if you take another guys cock, your bi! (if you also like women that is). Theres no such thing as 'orally bi'. Whats next, 'anal bi'??"
Never done either but during a threesome cock hand contact is usual isn't it? If so isn't that bi contact? |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it.
Orally yes I suppose your right
I'm sorry, but whether its in the mouth or up the ass, if you take another guys cock, your bi! (if you also like women that is). Theres no such thing as 'orally bi'. Whats next, 'anal bi'??
Never done either but during a threesome cock hand contact is usual isn't it? If so isn't that bi contact? "
I would say it depended on what context the contact happened! If the guy went right for the other guys cock and started wanking him off, bi! If it is unintentional contact, or maybe even the gal asking him to 'put it in for her' then no.
What we are talking about here is 'a man sucking cock'. That makes him bi. |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it.
Orally yes I suppose your right
I'm sorry, but whether its in the mouth or up the ass, if you take another guys cock, your bi! (if you also like women that is). Theres no such thing as 'orally bi'. Whats next, 'anal bi'??
Never done either but during a threesome cock hand contact is usual isn't it? If so isn't that bi contact?
I would say it depended on what context the contact happened! If the guy went right for the other guys cock and started wanking him off, bi! If it is unintentional contact, or maybe even the gal asking him to 'put it in for her' then no.
What we are talking about here is 'a man sucking cock'. That makes him bi."
My thinking too. |
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"Bi, straight, straight, bi. I have sucked and been sucked, glad I gave it a try. Dont fancy men. I sure prefer the hens. But u cant beat a 3some with women and with men lol lolso your Bi when you feel like it.
Orally yes I suppose your right
I'm sorry, but whether its in the mouth or up the ass, if you take another guys cock, your bi! (if you also like women that is). Theres no such thing as 'orally bi'. Whats next, 'anal bi'??
Never done either but during a threesome cock hand contact is usual isn't it? If so isn't that bi contact?
I would say it depended on what context the contact happened! If the guy went right for the other guys cock and started wanking him off, bi! If it is unintentional contact, or maybe even the gal asking him to 'put it in for her' then no.
What we are talking about here is 'a man sucking cock'. That makes him bi.
My thinking too."
I've been in a three and 'put it in' as you say and been asked to wank her husband.. I believe that's bi |
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