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The nerve of some people!
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By *dwalu2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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looks like we have another attention seeker here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought that most people would rather you responded to their request, whether it be, no thankyou, or busy at present or taking some time off. Do you think everyone should drop everything and rush round lol (perhaps drop everything is the wrong phrase)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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I do hope you sent a long polite "thanks for your courteous rejection message rather than just delete and block" response to their polite rejection message - just so the polite bastards then had to message a "thank you" for taking their rejection so well and being so equally polite as to reply!!
If they're going to waste your time having to read a polite response - it's only fair to get your own back!!   |
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By *dwalu2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Did the same this morning,and just got an entire mail of abuse...my loss apparently... "
Do wonder really about this, we have never received an abusive message in response to a polite no.
The worst that has ever happened is that someone sent us the message '???' when we replied thanks but no thanks. Which is quite open to interpretation, really!
There is never an excuse for an abusive response of course, but pretty sure that they are only a fraction in comparison to the polite or mute acknowledgements.
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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It is annoying. Just blocks up my inbox! X |
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By *dwalu2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
I do hope you sent a long polite "thanks for your courteous rejection message rather than just delete and block" response to their polite rejection message - just so the polite bastards then had to message a "thank you" for taking their rejection so well and being so equally polite as to reply!!
If they're going to waste your time having to read a polite response - it's only fair to get your own back!! "
Have to admit that's pretty much exactly what we do! It would be impolite not to, after all  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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I usually do a mime which I video and show them - I am really rude and impolite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sent a polite no thankyou, and got the reply "oh well 10" inch cock, your loss" Hardly it only looked about 5/6 at most, and that was hard !
Dam I so missed out eh?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only ta8es a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
looks like we have another attention seeker here"
Careful, just been thrown out of one thread for suggesting the same, some peeps just protest too much ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I sent a polite no thankyou, and got the reply "oh well 10" inch cock, your loss" Hardly it only looked about 5/6 at most, and that was hard !
Dam I so missed out eh? "
but I was flaccid when i sent the pic |
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By *dwalu2 OP Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
I usually do a mime which I video and show them - I am really rude and impolite."
You should put it online for them to view, but instead of messaging them the link, pop it in the classifieds in your local paper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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Surely sending a reply provides a good opportunity to twist the knife in the poor idiot who had the temerity to approach you?
No doubt you demanded in your profile, as a prerequisite to you opening the message, a face picture (so you can have a laugh), "no one liners", "entertain me", "stand out from the rest" so the looser spent time reading the vitriol about single males in your profile before trying to catch your eye in a message. Surely it cannot be as satisfying for you to just delete his message?
It must be better to get back and tell him that his pathetic manhood would not impress a gnat. His body does not have an erection but is in the advanced stages of rigor mortis and you are not into necrophilia LOL! ha! I am so Funny!!!. Then say "leave us alone or we will report you!"
This is your chance! Don't just leave it to the profile wording. Get straight to them with a message!
And whatever you do, do not UNTICK the preference box that says "a man" because this is where most of the cannon fodder come from.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I do most of the time send a no thanks and why, just because the site rules say you don't have to doesn't mean you have to follow the rules. If you think its rude not to then do it. And I have never had any rude responses back either, most have thanked me for responding those that continue just get ignored and deleted |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
I usually do a mime which I video and show them - I am really rude and impolite.
You should put it online for them to view, but instead of messaging them the link, pop it in the classifieds in your local paper "
I was thinking YouTube. |
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
looks like we have another attention seeker here"
Aren't we all seeking attention in some Way? |
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"Seriously? People really didnt see the spin on the usual posts on here? Lol I thought it was hilarious! Well played op!
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What gave it away for me was the fact it was so well written. The real ones like this are typed with such rage and vitriol that the spelling and grammer goes out the window |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
Surely sending a reply provides a good opportunity to twist the knife in the poor idiot who had the temerity to approach you?
No doubt you demanded in your profile, as a prerequisite to you opening the message, a face picture (so you can have a laugh), "no one liners", "entertain me", "stand out from the rest" so the looser spent time reading the vitriol about single males in your profile before trying to catch your eye in a message. Surely it cannot be as satisfying for you to just delete his message?
It must be better to get back and tell him that his pathetic manhood would not impress a gnat. His body does not have an erection but is in the advanced stages of rigor mortis and you are not into necrophilia LOL! ha! I am so Funny!!!. Then say "leave us alone or we will report you!"
This is your chance! Don't just leave it to the profile wording. Get straight to them with a message!
And whatever you do, do not UNTICK the preference box that says "a man" because this is where most of the cannon fodder come from.
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Least we forget; many a truth is spoken in jest!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe me been new on here but if your message gets deleted or do get a no thank you reply why would you pester them or abuse them???? Am I doing something wrong do I need to start asking why |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe me been new on here but if your message gets deleted or do get a no thank you reply why would you pester them or abuse them???? Am I doing something wrong do I need to start asking why "
No one has to respond but manners r free a simple no thanks isn't much to reply |
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"Maybe me been new on here but if your message gets deleted or do get a no thank you reply why would you pester them or abuse them???? Am I doing something wrong do I need to start asking why
No one has to respond but manners r free a simple no thanks isn't much to reply "
It is when you get a lot of messages in one day, most not from people who are a match and haven't read your profile and a lot of people don't take no for an answer and get rude or abusive. Read the faq's even they state it's not rude to delete a message with no reply! |
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"Yes agree like I said I'm new I just took it if you message was deleted the other person wasn't interested "
Finally!!  . That's exactly how you should view it and move on. I've even put in my profile to not be offended if I don't reply as I'm sick of people not being able to take no for an answer!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes agree like I said I'm new I just took it if you message was deleted the other person wasn't interested
Finally!! . That's exactly how you should view it and move on. I've even put in my profile to not be offended if I don't reply as I'm sick of people not being able to take no for an answer!! X"
to true always some else to message if one person isn't interested not to say another might be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes agree like I said I'm new I just took it if you message was deleted the other person wasn't interested
Finally!! . That's exactly how you should view it and move on. I've even put in my profile to not be offended if I don't reply as I'm sick of people not being able to take no for an answer!! X"
What you say is not unreasonable unless you consider the effort some people put into making first contact. If they have read the profile, addressed the issues in it and are within your own person spec then it is hardly fair to delete them with no response? Would you blank a man at a party who spoke politely to you?
Sure, delete "Wanna suck my cock woman?" messages but if someone has put real effort in that should be recognized at least. Yes? No?
In the end, on Fabswingers the motto is "If you have the pussy: you have the power".
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"In the end, on Fabswingers the motto is "If you have the pussy: you have the power".
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LOL good one! I'm drowning in cock you know. Never have enough time to meet them all.
No-one is entitled to anything on here. I am not entitled to a meet, and people reading my profile are not entitled to a reply. If we let others use the site in the way they wish, and we use the site in the way we wish, then things will be fine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
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Got to agree with you its a swing site not a school for etiquette. No place for manners on hear, manners are for all the vanilla's! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"LOL good one! I'm drowning in cock you know. Never have enough time to meet them all. "
You are a very good looking woman so I have taken your reply as true.
Enjoy!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it on Fab, when you message someone and they are not interested, do they then have to send you a polite reply saying 'No thank you'?
Honestly, don't they have the basic common decency and manners to just delete our message without replying? It only takes a second after all.
Instead, they have to go to the time and trouble to compose and send a polite rejection message. It's enough to make your blood boil, it really is!
Some people!
Got to agree with you its a swing site not a school for etiquette. No place for manners on hear, manners are for all the vanilla's! "
Then you wont mind me telling you that "hear" is what you do when you listen and the word you should have used was the adverb "here". |
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