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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok so rant here... what is it with men posing to be interested in a meet, they chat for a bit, then they want dirty chat and pics... after that u don't hear off them ?? really does my nut in ! and they wonder why they don't get meets in here ! booooooo rant over ! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah! All single guys are all loosers and should be driven off the site for the vermin they are!
...oh, hang on "
not all guys.. just those who chat out of horn and have no desire to meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid"
yea I know that but its all men not just young ones... I have a broad age limit but have preferences... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid"
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out "
agree !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out "
... you mean there are people out there doing this behind their partners backs?? |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
agree !! "
And so because a guy messages and is horny at that particular time he's attached, just out the pub etc. ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out "
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better"
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed ! |
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed ! "
So why do you give them what they want, you will soon sort the wheat from the chaff if you dont talk dirty to them |
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1. Yeah, couldn't agree more! Grrr!
2. No way! That's terrible!
3. Because they can, it's just one of those things. Move on and forget it.
4. Glitter :-/
5. It's almost certainly related to them being married.
6. Trying using the site tools differently, that might help.
7. No there isn't.... or then again, is there?
8. I'm really not bothered either way to be honest.
9. I deny everything!!
10. It's like a pub or a spectrum thingy I believe. Ask Fabio.
11. All of the above. |
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
agree !!
And so because a guy messages and is horny at that particular time he's attached, just out the pub etc. "
Yes. Didn't you know all men are presumed married or attached on here ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed !
So why do you give them what they want, you will soon sort the wheat from the chaff if you dont talk dirty to them"
I don't talk dirty that's the thing ! when they realise this ... zzzzp off they go why not just use porn or the cams stupid it is |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know this is a site for sex right??
Whybis it such a shock that men message people when they are horny??
Confused of evesham "
yea it is a site for sex ! in flesh ! not a porn site or a sex chat room is it. |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
Local to you maybe |
"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
agree !!
And so because a guy messages and is horny at that particular time he's attached, just out the pub etc.
Yes. Didn't you know all men are presumed married or attached on here "
Oh damn then I must hurry and change my profile to suit those presumptuous people then ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed ! "
ok all my pics and meets are from a wank..i photoshopped myself into all pics...now please get real...
if I read this OP post from a man claiming the same of fab I'd be honestly telling him the same thing
why tar the whole site when its clearly not true..
enjoy ur rant for all its intense purposes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed ! "
That maybe so, but there are those who are genuinely wanting to meet for NSA sex with women like yourself. I moved on from porn a fair while back, (Monday I reckon!)but seriously, we are not all wankers. I'm up for some fun, like the next bloke, but I don't bother leading people on if I know it ain't gonna happen. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Invictus is currently experiencing technical issues on certain threads. In the mean time please select a responce that is suitable to your needs from the following list:
1. Yeah, couldn't agree more! Grrr!
2. No way! That's terrible!
3. Because they can, it's just one of those things. Move on and forget it.
4. Glitter :-/
5. It's almost certainly related to them being married.
6. Trying using the site tools differently, that might help.
7. No there isn't.... or then again, is there?
8. I'm really not bothered either way to be honest.
9. I deny everything!!
10. It's like a pub or a spectrum thingy I believe. Ask Fabio.
11. All of the above. "
Fabio I think your input is needed . Invictus is having a forum melt down. X |
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"Invictus is currently experiencing technical issues on certain threads. In the mean time please select a responce that is suitable to your needs from the following list:
1. Yeah, couldn't agree more! Grrr!
2. No way! That's terrible!
3. Because they can, it's just one of those things. Move on and forget it.
4. Glitter :-/
5. It's almost certainly related to them being married.
6. Trying using the site tools differently, that might help.
7. No there isn't.... or then again, is there?
8. I'm really not bothered either way to be honest.
9. I deny everything!!
10. It's like a pub or a spectrum thingy I believe. Ask Fabio.
11. All of the above. "
Haha brilliant .... And suits all posts ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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Op back to your opening statement.
I have to admit that sometimes I just feel horny and will chat to a guy simply to scratch an itch. I may have no intention of ever meeting them and enjoy the conversation for what it is.
In fact thinking about it. I don't think I have ever met any of the guys I have had a brief cyber flirt with.
I recommend you just enjoy the conversation for what it is. A conversation xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
I suppose Ive researched it more?- Ive never met many 19yr olds on my gb/meets,..and those that have said they were going never appeared(hosts info).Ive been in mail with potential joiners to events and got the million questions..eventually leading to the 'are u in' and ended up getting shite excuses or no responses.
Anyway, apart from the age element, Ive also said about getting guys mainly with some meets under their belts..and of course the ones who dont want cam fun.
I dont find it that hard to work out who's genuine and up for real meets..sometimes I wonder why it is for others..especially women/couples, having that potential hotbed of getting a meet whenever they ask
so all i can say, condescending as it sounds...pick better
pick better ... don't be daft this place is full of men just wanting to wank I've found that out personally no research needed !
ok all my pics and meets are from a wank..i photoshopped myself into all pics...now please get real...
if I read this OP post from a man claiming the same of fab I'd be honestly telling him the same thing
why tar the whole site when its clearly not true..
enjoy ur rant for all its intense purposes"
I will thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sugarplum can I point out that you are asking for couples on your meet but you have filters on so we couldn't send you a possible invite if we tried? "
oops my bad il change it |
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"You know this is a site for sex right??
Whybis it such a shock that men message people when they are horny??
Confused of evesham
yea it is a site for sex ! in flesh ! not a porn site or a sex chat room is it."
It's what people make if it to be fair. Some meet some don't. Some like feeling a bit naughty being on here.
Porn is all well and good but it's not interactive like Dirty chat and pic swaps are.
Of you are only looking for real meets state that on your profile and just ignore people who ignore it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Invictus is currently experiencing technical issues on certain threads. In the mean time please select a responce that is suitable to your needs from the following list:
1. Yeah, couldn't agree more! Grrr!
2. No way! That's terrible!
3. Because they can, it's just one of those things. Move on and forget it.
4. Glitter :-/
5. It's almost certainly related to them being married.
6. Trying using the site tools differently, that might help.
7. No there isn't.... or then again, is there?
8. I'm really not bothered either way to be honest.
9. I deny everything!!
10. It's like a pub or a spectrum thingy I believe. Ask Fabio.
11. All of the above. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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just make ot clear from the off.. even though its on your profile your here to meet not cyber..
but if someone pretty quickly wants to get into dirty chat.. the like being "so what would you do to me?" question.. just explain what you like and dont like and you go with the flow on a meet..
then if they insist they wont meet unless they knwo what to expect, just say oh well not how i work so i guess were not suited.. thats what i do ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP: also i must add..ur looking for young guys..probably the most inexperienced members of fab and the most likely to back out of a meet...simple fact I'm afraid
why would a young be more likely to back out? surely an older guy is more likely to be attached and therefore back out
agree !!
And so because a guy messages and is horny at that particular time he's attached, just out the pub etc.
Yes. Didn't you know all men are presumed married or attached on here "
thats not what i was saying.. im just saying there is prob just as many young guys who are nervous and will back out as ther eis older guys who are attached and will back out..
so you cant say backign out is more a young guy thing! - thought i had made myself clear sorry |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"just make ot clear from the off.. even though its on your profile your here to meet not cyber..
but if someone pretty quickly wants to get into dirty chat.. the like being "so what would you do to me?" question.. just explain what you like and dont like and you go with the flow on a meet..
then if they insist they wont meet unless they knwo what to expect, just say oh well not how i work so i guess were not suited.. thats what i do " ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive never had a message from a woman saying shes horny .... but ladies do post threads saying they are horny or also on their status on the profile"
being horny doesnt mean they want just cyber.. especially if they state they dont do it on their profile ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sugarplum can I point out that you are asking for couples on your meet but you have filters on so we couldn't send you a possible invite if we tried?
oops my bad il change it"
Lol still can't get through. Anyway we were going to suggest a few drinks and a hotel room to come and snuggle with us! ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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