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Do many women like the thought of Pegging a guy?
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I've done plenty of pegging in the past from both a strictly sexual and also BDSM play. Whilst the actual physical act doesn't differ much, the psychological element is very different.
To peg someone in a BDSM scenario, it's role-play. It's about power exchange, changing traditional gender role dynamics, objectification, D/s etc. whilst there is clearly consent and trust, there isn't any real need for intimacy for either party. Though obviously it needs to be something that is beneficial to us both.
Pegging someone sexually, I need to feel intimate and attracted to that person. It's about sharing the experience.
Pegging a random stranger isn't going to fulfil my needs in either sense, and I have no interest in being a kink dispensing machine. I've received dozens of messages from guys asking me to peg them. It's been 100% about what they want. Only a handful have ever bothered to want to know me. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Many women out there who are into or like the thought pegging a guy?
Asking for a friend and I'm interested in your view 
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Absolutely love this, feels incredible giving as i am sure it does receiving  |
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Some great replies considering this is a topic that's often brought up essentially don't be all bend me over and take me like a wee slut, build up a rapport with someone some trust and see if you can explore some sexual fantasies |
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
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Ain't this the truth #fantasists |
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
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Happened to me too. Guy wanted cock for the first time and I literally had to wipe his ass for him. 
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
Happened to me too. Guy wanted cock for the first time and I literally had to wipe his ass for him.
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DOH |
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
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Facts right there been in position myself did not happen whatsoever |
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By *oxy jWoman 52 weeks ago
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i only peg cuck or be pegged by other women .... i would never peg another guy i do cuck because it feels right its one of the thing thats just us i also know he can prepare himself for pegging too ...
ive watched a guy get pegged at a house party not too long ago no prep and within 2 pumps soiled the bed (and i do mean soiled/shit all over the bed) he arranged to be pegged but did no prep at all totally gross |
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
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It's all in the prep! |
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"It’s something the mrs would love to do but it’s not really my thing so we’re hoping to find a willing participant to join us in a threesome "
Sure you wont struggle to fund someone.... count me in! |
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
It's all in the prep! "
Can someone explain what prep is needed? Douche? Pre lube? |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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Can someone explain what prep is needed? Douche? Pre lube?"
There are different methods of preparation.
It’s something you need to research yourself if you’re interested as you need to know what suits you the best. |
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"It's hard going. New found respect for the guys..."
Haha, I think that was one of Mrs first takeaways from it, it's a proper cardio workout.
Next time your fellas need to stop and take a break, it's not just to avoid cumming, it's sometimes to be able to breathe!
We've dabbled in pegging, but wouldn't be interested in having another guy join us for it.
However having watched a lady use a strap on, on Mrs, well that's something I'm up for seeing again  |
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"Nobody is pegging me, I'm too alpha for be submissive like that"
Alpha?
I think the green arrow betrays you on that one I'm afraid.
Besides, people enjoying a kink that you don't wish to try or don't like doesn't make anyone an alpha or beta, it just means people like different things.
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"Nobody is pegging me, I'm too alpha for be submissive like that
Alpha?
I think the green arrow betrays you on that one I'm afraid.
Besides, people enjoying a kink that you don't wish to try or don't like doesn't make anyone an alpha or beta, it just means people like different things.
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Haha, too alpha to explore, or try and enjoy the pleasures that your own body can provide. Sounds like a curse of anything? Count me out of being "alpha" then.
Also, I always thing being an alpha should be something someone else says about you, not something you self appoint. Otherwise it sounds like you are hiding something... |
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By *archelCouple 52 weeks ago
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"I had guys messaged me about pegging only to find they haven't even done any preparation, like using a butt plug or any kind of toy. If you are not open and relaxed it's not going to happen.
It's all in the prep!
Can someone explain what prep is needed? Douche? Pre lube?"
Definitely douche and use a good lube. We use the silky type of lubes. Start off with a small dildo if you're new to it. |
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"Nobody is pegging me, I'm too alpha for be submissive like that
Alpha?
I think the green arrow betrays you on that one I'm afraid.
Besides, people enjoying a kink that you don't wish to try or don't like doesn't make anyone an alpha or beta, it just means people like different things.
Haha, too alpha to explore, or try and enjoy the pleasures that your own body can provide. Sounds like a curse of anything? Count me out of being "alpha" then.
Also, I always thing being an alpha should be something someone else says about you, not something you self appoint. Otherwise it sounds like you are hiding something..."
No I think you're 100%.... guys who call themselves an Alpha, are literally never Alphas!
Usually they're guys who are struggling, perhaps with levels of insecurity and/or low self-esteem. So I think it's kind of like a response to that.
Look at all the self proclaimed Alphas... how successful in life are they? |
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By *hloe_TTV/TS 52 weeks ago
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My problem with pegging is purely empathy. When a guy fucks me its easy to tell if hes enjoying it right? If he does he stays hard and cums. With pegging there's no way to sense the other persons enjoyment. That makes me feel really self conscious. If i could sense it, i think it would be a huge turn on but as i can't im not attracted to it at all. |
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By *KentMan 52 weeks ago
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"Many women out there who are into or like the thought pegging a guy?
Asking for a friend and I'm interested in your view
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Tell your friend to totally take the opportunity if it’s presented to them.
Being pegged is pretty much the best experience I’ve had, absolutely wild. And had the most intense orgasm through it that I’ve ever had.
I would also recommend preparing, hygiene and starting with smaller toys to be used to the feeling. |
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"Nobody is pegging me, I'm too alpha for be submissive like that
Alpha?
I think the green arrow betrays you on that one I'm afraid.
Besides, people enjoying a kink that you don't wish to try or don't like doesn't make anyone an alpha or beta, it just means people like different things.
Haha, too alpha to explore, or try and enjoy the pleasures that your own body can provide. Sounds like a curse of anything? Count me out of being "alpha" then.
Also, I always thing being an alpha should be something someone else says about you, not something you self appoint. Otherwise it sounds like you are hiding something...
No I think you're 100%.... guys who call themselves an Alpha, are literally never Alphas!
Usually they're guys who are struggling, perhaps with levels of insecurity and/or low self-esteem. So I think it's kind of like a response to that.
Look at all the self proclaimed Alphas... how successful in life are they? "
Have you read the first study that coined the term alpha.. they studied "wild" male wolves in a huge enclosure that turn it to be too small. "Wild" as the wolves they collected where pack rejects or the orphans of poachers.
So always give an alpha a hug they are scared in a strange environment |
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Thank you everyone for your replies, all of value and make interesting reading.
I enjoy being pegged occassionally, with the right person. I wondered how many women enjoyed it and were turned on by it. I occassionally like the lady taking control in that way but it's not always the easiest thing to tell them. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Anyone know if you can get a longer but skinny toys"
Yes, you can get slim dildos or maybe a longer, thinner prostate massager would be an idea.
Look on some of the sex toy sites to find something to suit you. |
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"Nobody is pegging me, I'm too alpha for be submissive like that
Alpha?
I think the green arrow betrays you on that one I'm afraid.
Besides, people enjoying a kink that you don't wish to try or don't like doesn't make anyone an alpha or beta, it just means people like different things.
Haha, too alpha to explore, or try and enjoy the pleasures that your own body can provide. Sounds like a curse of anything? Count me out of being "alpha" then.
Also, I always thing being an alpha should be something someone else says about you, not something you self appoint. Otherwise it sounds like you are hiding something...
No I think you're 100%.... guys who call themselves an Alpha, are literally never Alphas!
Usually they're guys who are struggling, perhaps with levels of insecurity and/or low self-esteem. So I think it's kind of like a response to that.
Look at all the self proclaimed Alphas... how successful in life are they?
Have you read the first study that coined the term alpha.. they studied "wild" male wolves in a huge enclosure that turn it to be too small. "Wild" as the wolves they collected where pack rejects or the orphans of poachers.
So always give an alpha a hug they are scared in a strange environment"
I have seen the study but I was unaware it what how the term was coined! Thank you for sharing!
I'll probably not opt to hug an "Alpha" though. I mean, they don't need hugs right? Because they're ultra masculine with their shit together. Also, just on a personal side when guys say it it gives me the ick and my body recoils like a penis in the cold... literally turns inside out |
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Those who have never done it, beware. She won't be stopping because she has cum. She can't feel how hard she is going, so it may get uncomfortable. She might not care if she hurts you, or makes you cry. She might pound the shit out of you, literally.
Prepare, douch, lube, open yourself ahead of trying. Discuss, agree for her to stop when you ask. Make sure you trust her.
But, it can be fucking amazing. You might find yourself cumming so hard you pass out. And you might want more and more. My first time I was pretty young. It took me a lot of years before I found someone else to do it. I would love to find someone again. |
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I cringe at the term “ pegging “ , why oh why have the uk embraced this saying .. It’s a defo turnoff if I was asked .. “ do you want to be pegged “ …. Erm no I want to be fucked just like everyone else … |
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"It’s something the mrs would love to do but it’s not really my thing so we’re hoping to find a willing participant to join us in a threesome "
Just noticed I'm just a bus ride away from you. I'd be willing to help your mrs fulfil that fantasy |
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"For those who have, how do you know you're going to cum when being pegged without any cock stimulation?"
Very intense feeling much more than the normal method when you cum! When you feel it you’ll certainly know lol |
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By *KentMan 51 weeks ago
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"For those who have, how do you know you're going to cum when being pegged without any cock stimulation?"
Hard to describe, but it’s so intense, the feeling comes over you in such an intense way that you can’t help but crave the next hit! |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"For those who have, how do you know you're going to cum when being pegged without any cock stimulation?"
Really intense spasm between cock and ass then a vice grip on the strap on is the usual warning I'm about to cum hard from a good pegging |
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"Those who have never done it, beware. She won't be stopping because she has cum. She can't feel how hard she is going, so it may get uncomfortable. She might not care if she hurts you, or makes you cry. She might pound the shit out of you, literally.
Prepare, douch, lube, open yourself ahead of trying. Discuss, agree for her to stop when you ask. Make sure you trust her.
But, it can be fucking amazing. You might find yourself cumming so hard you pass out. And you might want more and more. My first time I was pretty young. It took me a lot of years before I found someone else to do it. I would love to find someone again. "
I like it when they cry |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"Those who have never done it, beware. She won't be stopping because she has cum. She can't feel how hard she is going, so it may get uncomfortable. She might not care if she hurts you, or makes you cry. She might pound the shit out of you, literally.
Prepare, douch, lube, open yourself ahead of trying. Discuss, agree for her to stop when you ask. Make sure you trust her.
But, it can be fucking amazing. You might find yourself cumming so hard you pass out. And you might want more and more. My first time I was pretty young. It took me a lot of years before I found someone else to do it. I would love to find someone again.
I like it when they cry"
Why are all the best ones so far away  |
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"My problem with pegging is purely empathy. When a guy fucks me its easy to tell if hes enjoying it right? If he does he stays hard and cums. With pegging there's no way to sense the other persons enjoyment. That makes me feel really self conscious. If i could sense it, i think it would be a huge turn on but as i can't im not attracted to it at all. "
Certainly not the case when I’m pegging guys I orgasm so hard and very quickly, don’t know why but I’m guessing it’s the feeling of dominance. |
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By (user no longer on site) 51 weeks ago
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"I adore it 
Sensually and slowly taking a man, his legs over my shoulders, my hand around his cock whilst I gently but firmly push in and own him - yes please
S xxx"
An expert entered the chat.... wow  |
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"I adore it
Sensually and slowly taking a man, his legs over my shoulders, my hand around his cock whilst I gently but firmly push in and own him - yes please
S xxx
An expert entered the chat.... wow "
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"Anyone know if you can get a longer but skinny toys
Yes, you can get slim dildos or maybe a longer, thinner prostate massager would be an idea.
Look on some of the sex toy sites to find something to suit you."
You have some lovely photos of your strap on within your profile |
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"I adore it
Sensually and slowly taking a man, his legs over my shoulders, my hand around his cock whilst I gently but firmly push in and own him - yes please
S xxx"
Oh my |
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"Is he new to anal play? If he is I'm happy to share some of the lesson learned from me figuring it out.
yes he is,any info would be greatly appreciate "
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No doesn't always mean no with men.
Sometimes no means yes please.
Watch the body language and the tone of the voice.
Sometimes blushing or sudden blinking of the eyes tell you the truth.
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