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Number 1 piece of advice is communication, communication, communication.
The sub is typically the one who is actually giving you their permission and overview of what the scenario will be, from giving you their likes, interests, hard limits, and ones to maybe explore. Always play with a safe word or traffic light process ‘red’ you instantly stop ‘amber’ they’re close to limit etc.
Also don’t try and use porn as your learning material, that’s furthest from the truth!
As a typical bdsm experience there are 3 parts, this varies if regular but as a good start.
1st communication between dom and sub discussing about what to explore, limits etc
2nd the actual play scene
3rd post play support almost debrief
Enjoy from an experienced switch |
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Get to munches
Meet and talk to people who are into the scene.
Figure out what the BDSM scene means to you. Why do you want to be Dominant? What is it about that role that interests you?
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Make use of online resources, there are several sites, blogs and books, and even a few youtube channels that are useful to educate yourself.
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Always do your own research, and never take what one person says as gospel. |
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I remember when I first got into the BDSM scene, looking back I was dreadful, but with experience and meeting and chatting to other Dom's and dommes you get better at it.
It's definitely a skill set that you have to learn. |
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