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Is DVP Bi?
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
Midlands Based But Travel |
Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..
Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple? |
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I think trying to label it is difficult as everyone in the community is rightly allowed their own opinion.
We see it as lots of fun.
Yes, cocks will inevitably touch, that’s the main consideration.
If you’re happy with it and the couple you’re meeting are happy with it, go for it. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..
Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"
During DVP you're both primarily having sex with the woman, so I would think that most would consider it as straight sex.
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Absolutely not, yes a lot of touching and rubbing goes on but it's more to give pleasure to the lucky lady.
Cock touching is just a result of the fun. Don't get hung up on it and enjoy the moment. |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
I don't really think so, "bi" implies that you're attracted to men and women, not that you saw/came into contact with another man's skin. Accidental or incidental contact with another male body during sex with a woman doesn't make you bi.
BUT it might be relevant if for example you weren't using condoms and were both inside her together - in that sense it would be worth stating that you've had 'sexual contact' with a male if you were having a regular STI check - STIs don't care whether you were attracted to him or her, and it's important to be mature about it. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
People are bi or gay or straight. Play is play, not bi nor straight. Same with toys.
Your cock will be hard and you'll be aroused and maybe cum because A) you are fucking a woman or B) you are rubbing your penis against other man's or C) a combination.
Just fantasise about it for now, consider what turns you on in a DVP play scenario and you'll get your answer. |
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Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.
But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi  
So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)
Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.
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By *hloe_TTV/TS
over a year ago
Nottingham |
No i dont think so. I think it is interesting though. Like can you suck a dick and still be straight if you didn't enjoy it? What about if you've never sucked dick but really crave it. Maybe only you can know, and if you aren't sure then maybe you should try and find out. X |
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It's the woman who is the centre of attention so no. However you do have to be open minded about close intimacy with another male whilst doing it and whilst many men (including me) would have no problems with it, others might. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"No i dont think so. I think it is interesting though. Like can you suck a dick and still be straight if you didn't enjoy it? What about if you've never sucked dick but really crave it. Maybe only you can know, and if you aren't sure then maybe you should try and find out. X "
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Totally this. 
It's about what you crave and enjoy not what you touch or what touches you. It's not a contagious disease that you get by touching something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All we care is we love it and want it lol"
Mrs othello tried it and loved it. I am comfortable being naked around other men but in no way am I bi.
It was an amazing feeling seeing my wife pleasured and feeling her orgasming over mine and the other man’s cock. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All we care is we love it and want it lol
Mrs othello tried it and loved it. I am comfortable being naked around other men but in no way am I bi.
It was an amazing feeling seeing my wife pleasured and feeling her orgasming over mine and the other man’s cock."
My thoughts entirely, love hearing my wife as we both simultaneously please her. |
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For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.
I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.
I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol."
Wow! A dvp with Sammi would be quite something! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.
I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol."
100% with you on this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love Dvp, the act itself I wouldn’t consider bi as it’s all about 2 guys pleasuring the lady it does feel so erotic and when all 3 are in that moment it feels fuking lush.  |
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I am straight and hard for the lady not another guys cock. I am comfortable around other men and DVP is my favourite thing for a woman's pleasure if that what she likes. No issue crossing swords for this reason |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you touch another penis you are gay. My advise is to get it out the way first! Get a nice thick one and take it in every hole! That way when you come to meet for DVP you won't be so nervous;) |
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It’s what you want it to be
Depends on what part blows your mind
I don’t think you’d even consider it if your 100% straight
People are aloud to be curious and find out what makes you tick by trying out things
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Labels are only useful to give other people a broad notion of what interests you. You don't need to label yourself because you have a much more granular understanding of your own sexual complexity than a label could ever cover.
FWIW though, I identify as a straight man, and I would not be against putting my cock in a vagina that already had a cock in it. I might even like it, who knows. However I have no desire to do sexual stuff to or have sexual stuff done to me by another man for its own sake. In my book, that means I'm not bisexual. |
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"Labels are only useful to give other people a broad notion of what interests you. You don't need to label yourself because you have a much more granular understanding of your own sexual complexity than a label could ever cover.
FWIW though, I identify as a straight man, and I would not be against putting my cock in a vagina that already had a cock in it. I might even like it, who knows. However I have no desire to do sexual stuff to or have sexual stuff done to me by another man for its own sake. In my book, that means I'm not bisexual."
Perfectly put, hit the nail on the head (for the why does your profile say straight brigade!) .
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"Im not asking to find out what i think it makes me.. lol im comfortable with my sexuality im asking how does the swingers community view it?
So i know who to approach "
I’ve just asked my partner who is a straight male.
He said whilst he understood the lady would gain pleasure from this and it is a good fantasy to have, he personally feels he would lose his erection with his penis touching another man’s penis.
So I suppose it’s how you would feel in the moment. If your mind set is that you are doing it fully to pleasure the woman then if you are looking at labels and ways to explain yourself to couples I’d describe yourself as straight.
Everyone will have their own take on it I suppose.
Good luck with fulfilling that fantasy if you do.
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"No i dont think so. I think it is interesting though. Like can you suck a dick and still be straight if you didn't enjoy it? What about if you've never sucked dick but really crave it. Maybe only you can know, and if you aren't sure then maybe you should try and find out. X "
Is it bi if u enjoy the feeling of other fellas cock pulsating and then bursting with cum cos that's part of it |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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No, not at all. Being bi is being attracted to other men. DVP could just being a partner fulfilling the fems fantasy? They need to be comfortable with their cock against another guys though. |
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Why is there a need to label and categorise a particular thing ?
All I can say is that when you do find out how uniquely mind blowing all of the sensations are , you arent going to go away questioning your sexuality, you are going to be thinking about it everyday untill you do it again though  |
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Not bothered it just felt great when I've done it and the woman was really enjoying it.
But there again does one sexual act define you as that genre ?
I think the op is asking who he should contact, well I would say contact both if they have an worry about it one I'm sure they will say.
If offended they should be on a dating site not a swinging site. |
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"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..
Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"
We would think cocks touching together is bi, but it doesn't matter what other's think. If it's something you want to do just do it. |
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By *entonMan 49 weeks ago
Wakefield |
If you enjoy the feeling of another man's penis next to yours more, or at least an equal amount, as the feeling of being in her vagina than - yes - you may well be bi
But so what? If you enjoy it then do it and if not avoid. Simple.
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"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..
Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"
I don’t really care if it is or it isn’t I would love to try it! |
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"For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.
I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol.
100% with you on this "
It’s one of the sexiest things we’ve ever done |
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It’s on my “to do” list and I certainly wouldn’t consider it bi.
If you’ve ever enjoyed a threesome where the lady enjoys sucking two cocks at the same time you’ll realise cocks touching doesn’t make you bisexual.
If you’re frightened of being near another stiff cock I’d avoid a threesome |
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"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"
It’s is more likely to happen with a couple who stated they are into DVP in their profile no matter of male half sexuality.
And yeah, it’s not bi act. Sexuality isn’t STI and isn’t transmitted with cock touches.
However I was told by one straight couple from here they are looking specifically for bi guys for dvp to be sure he can perform and stay hard. But it’s just one couple say, not Sydney University research.
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"For many it isn’t about the physical act of being inside your partner with another guy, but what it does to her. That is the turn on. Honestly, it can be a toy or another guy’s cock. I just like seeing and hearing the resulting ecstasy in her responses… being stretched that extra and having all that motion occurring inside her body makes her cum huge amounts and 90% of what gets me off in our swinging life is seeing Sammi enjoy the strongest and best orgasms she can experience.
I don’t care how it’s done as long as it’s pleasurable for her lol.
100% with you on this
It’s one of the sexiest things we’ve ever done "
agreed |
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"Only reason im asking in because this is on my fantasy to to list.
But im not sure if people perceive it as "Bi" or not..
Im asking so i know what couples to contact regarding this fantasies.
Is it more likely to happen with a straight couple or bi couple?"
I don’t think it’s bi and I certainly don’t care what other people think! |
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"Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.
But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi
So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)
Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.
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100% |
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By *ickD80Man 36 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
If you’re attracted to both sexes you’re bi, you don’t suddenly become bi when your cock touches another man’s cock. Sexuality isn’t determined by your actions it’s determined by your natural desires and attractions. I’m shocked and slightly worried that anyone would think that someone’s actions can determine their sexuality. Sitting in a pram and sucking a dummy doesn’t make you a baby, getting on your hands and knees and barking doesn’t make you a dog… |
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I love this one.
I 100% does not mean anything. It's just a position and sometimes people touch, in fact most people touch and rub during most sexual encounters, why should it matter that dp means cocks touch.
I still can't believe some people get hung up on this still. |
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By *ickD80Man 36 weeks ago
Wolverhampton |
"Simple answer is, No DVP doesn't make you or the other male Bi.
But then on here we've seen posts from other males saying being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you Bi
So to answer the other part of your question on here is hard.(no pun intended)
Maybe easier to message Bi couples and explain what you want.
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Just because people on here say that being pegged/fingered/dildoed by a woman makes you bi it doesn’t mean that they’re right to say that…they’re actually very wrong to say that. Do you think that men are gay or bi just because they like having things inserted in their ass? Do you think that a man can’t be straight if he enjoys having his prostate massaged? What about if a man fucks a woman in the ass? Does that mean he’s bi as well? What about if a woman gives a man a blow job? Does that make the man bi because bi and gay men give each other blow jobs.
If you say that a man is bi if he is pegged by a woman you’re basically implying that men are gay because they like having things inserted into their ass, and i’m sure you know as well as i do that that’s not the case. Do you realise that some gay men don’t even like anal sex? If a man who has something inserted in his ass is bi then surely it would mean that if a man puts his dick in an ass then he’s bi? If the sex of the person inserting something into his ass is irrelevant then surely the sex of the person who’s ass he puts his dick in is irrelevant. |
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