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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been told this a few times lately? What do you all think? "
Loads of people say that about young couples, i think they think we havent had time to get to know our own feelings/boundaries or rushed things, i don't know!
Whatever it is I have great joy in proving them wrong 
I knew i felt comfortable in and enjoyed the swinging world when i joined over 3 years ago and now ive found someone to share it with-win
Have fun guys and ignore them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish i was 20
imagine being a 20 year old woman on here, you'd have guys falling at your feet 
Enjoy it while your young, when you get to my age you'll be wishing you was 20 again lol |
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By *andKxxx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Have been told this a few times lately? What do you all think?
Loads of people say that about young couples, i think they think we havent had time to get to know our own feelings/boundaries or rushed things, i don't know!
Whatever it is I have great joy in proving them wrong
I knew i felt comfortable in and enjoyed the swinging world when i joined over 3 years ago and now ive found someone to share it with-win
Have fun guys and ignore them!"
We gave it a go loved it and know our boundaries and feel perfectly comfortable with everything we do! Thanks will take your advice and ignore them ... Carry on having fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have been told this a few times lately? What do you all think?
Loads of people say that about young couples, i think they think we havent had time to get to know our own feelings/boundaries or rushed things, i don't know!
Whatever it is I have great joy in proving them wrong
I knew i felt comfortable in and enjoyed the swinging world when i joined over 3 years ago and now ive found someone to share it with-win
Have fun guys and ignore them!
We gave it a go loved it and know our boundaries and feel perfectly comfortable with everything we do! Thanks will take your advice and ignore them ... Carry on having fun "
Exactly-we know we are happy so who cares if certain others think we dont? |
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Age is just something they put on your death certificate.
If you're both happy doing what you do and to your limits with like minded people, go ahead and enjoy life, after all that's what life's about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wasn't aware it was a prerequisite of Swinging that you need to be over a certain age (other than 18) or have gone through a depressingly boring sex life with someone before you spread your wings and get into the lifestyle..???
Those who mention your ages are probably having 'issues' of their own about people possibly as young as their kids engaging in the same lifestyle as them...
Good luck to you. I was 24 when I stumbled on Swinging almost by accident. I didn't have to wait until I was in my 40's to enjoy myself. Hope you have many, many pleasureable experiences along the way....  |
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"Have been told this a few times lately? What do you all think? "
Your age group wouldn't be for me as I prefer people my own age. I have a 21 and 25 year old at home that need a lot of "hand holding" playing with someone younger than them would be off putting.
I have blocked anyone under 40 contacting me but it wouldn't occur to me to tell young people they shouldn't swing! 
The bottom line is there are those that think singles shouldn't swing, cheaters shouldn't swing, those with alternative fetishes shouldn't swing, tvs shouldn't swing etc: you can't please them all.
Do what pleases you, you'll know soon enough if you can't handle it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are more than a few types of swinger , and for some you may be too young - like those who see it as a lifestyle , lots of social and non sexual interaction .
For those who enjoy the NSA sex , you are not too young at all and I can't imagine they would complain at all .
And club goers , I would imagine you would be very popular indeed !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish i was 20
imagine being a 20 year old woman on here, you'd have guys falling at your feet
Enjoy it while your young, when you get to my age you'll be wishing you was 20 again lol"
You get to shag the best looking men when your 20.  |
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By *am123Man
over a year ago
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funny ive seen posts like this before, but normaly a young single guy saying it, and the response is a little different, alot of, "your near my sons age bla bla" "so wouldn't feel comfortable ".
now theres a sexy young female in the frame, amazing the difference i know shes a couple, but i think that part is being over looked strange  |
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By *andKxxx OP Couple
over a year ago
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"funny ive seen posts like this before, but normaly a young single guy saying it, and the response is a little different, alot of, "your near my sons age bla bla" "so wouldn't feel comfortable ".
now theres a sexy young female in the frame, amazing the difference i know shes a couple, but i think that part is being over looked strange "
Different for men and women   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"funny ive seen posts like this before, but normaly a young single guy saying it, and the response is a little different, alot of, "your near my sons age bla bla" "so wouldn't feel comfortable ".
now theres a sexy young female in the frame, amazing the difference i know shes a couple, but i think that part is being over looked strange "
Lol, was just thinking the same myself. The last time i saw a thread like this it was from a single guy. He was hounded from the start for being 'younger than my son' 'hasn't had time to spread his wings yet' and 'come back in a few years when you have experience' and he was 23!! Go figure eh! Lol. |
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"funny ive seen posts like this before, but normaly a young single guy saying it, and the response is a little different, alot of, "your near my sons age bla bla" "so wouldn't feel comfortable ".
now theres a sexy young female in the frame, amazing the difference i know shes a couple, but i think that part is being over looked strange "
Not all of us are inconsistent |
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