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Mrs is bbw but feels un sexy
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By *ockonmeMan 52 weeks ago
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You look beautiful, don’t let size put you off. You’re man appreciates you just as you are and as a couple that’s all that should matter overall.
"Looking for bbw lovers shes sexy to me but love here with other guts and women shes a kind person.
We are looking in new year as busy at the moment. Ages 24 to 55 couples welcome."
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I'm not sure a load of strangers telling someone they look good will help, half of them probably because they want a fuck. Maybe support her in loosing some weight until she gets to the point she's comfortable and happy in her own skin |
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By *erces LetiferMan 52 weeks ago
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"I'm not sure a load of strangers telling someone they look good will help, half of them probably because they want a fuck. Maybe support her in loosing some weight until she gets to the point she's comfortable and happy in her own skin "
Yup. At the end of the day it doesn’t really matter what strangers think, or even what you think. What matters is what she thinks and how she feels. You should support her in what’s best for her, not for you and a bunch of potential meets. |
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I think lots of women feel unsexy (regardless of shape or size). And from the male POV it's hard and frustrating when they can't see the beauty we and others see. I think sexiness is more a matter of personal perception than objective physicality in woman's mind. I think for all us guys our heart soares when our women are in their element and feel sexy in them selves. That in its self is sexy and beautiful. It's something they have to feel in themselves and something that can't be forced. And sometimes its seems however much we know it and tell them they're having none of it. However all we can do is be supportive and let them know (without being too pushy or full on) how sexy we (and others) find them. With the hope in the right supportive environment and positive reinforcement the penny drops and their confidence and self image grows. Because when our women feel sexy it's an awesome thing and it makes us so happy to know they are seeing what we see.
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"I think lots of women feel unsexy (regardless of shape or size). And from the male POV it's hard and frustrating when they can't see the beauty we and others see. I think sexiness is more a matter of personal perception than objective physicality in woman's mind. I think for all us guys our heart soares when our women are in their element and feel sexy in them selves. That in its self is sexy and beautiful. It's something they have to feel in themselves and something that can't be forced. And sometimes its seems however much we know it and tell them they're having none of it. However all we can do is be supportive and let them know (without being too pushy or full on) how sexy we (and others) find them. With the hope in the right supportive environment and positive reinforcement the penny drops and their confidence and self image grows. Because when our women feel sexy it's an awesome thing and it makes us so happy to know they are seeing what we see.
Mr"
Absolutely agree. Feeling and knowing you are sexy/attractive needs to come from inside and not outside validation.
Yes, outside validation from someone who cares for you is helpful but it really needs to come from a place of healthy self esteem and body image, internally.
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By *insBadMan 30 weeks ago
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"Looking for bbw lovers shes sexy to me but love here with other guts and women shes a kind person.
We are looking in new year as busy at the moment. Ages 24 to 55 couples welcome."
Playing with single guys, hotwife meets and vixen and stag meets will quickly rectify any self confidence issues she may have  |
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"Looking for bbw lovers shes sexy to me but love here with other guts and women shes a kind person.
We are looking in new year as busy at the moment. Ages 24 to 55 couples welcome."
your so right your lady is so on ?? with Sensual Sexualty
I can't help but too adore you sexy swingers |
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By *avin77Man 29 weeks ago
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"Looking for bbw lovers shes sexy to me but love here with other guts and women shes a kind person.
We are looking in new year as busy at the moment. Ages 24 to 55 couples welcome."
Shes very sexy
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I think all us bbw/ plus size women feel like that I'm certainly very self conscious about our bodies we've been in the scene a few years and no matter hoew many people tell me I'm sexy or gorgeous we always doubt it but you learn to get over it |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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Ahhhhh loving all the comments on this post!
I’m a curvaceous lady too and it always shocks me when people tell me they fancy me or find me attractive and love my body, because I don’t have the same opinion of myself! But threads like this bring a smile and it’s nice to read
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There's lots of incredibly sexy ladies on here of all shapes and sizes, kudos to all you ladies it really does take some balls(not literally) to put pictures up of yourself,you should all be very proud of yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"Its hard being a bbw sometimes in this environment. Ive found my confidence has dropped, seeing perfect bodies everywhere is hard going x"
Hun your body is perfect..
From Mrs.. |
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"Its hard being a bbw sometimes in this environment. Ive found my confidence has dropped, seeing perfect bodies everywhere is hard going x"
You are beautiful, as are the couple that created this forum thread.
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By (user no longer on site) 29 weeks ago
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"Looking for bbw lovers shes sexy to me but love here with other guts and women shes a kind person.
We are looking in new year as busy at the moment. Ages 24 to 55 couples welcome."
In my opinion she has a sexy figure and I would love to meet her/you both |
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I am a size 20/22 with big belly and wobbly bits… and would never call myself sexy, so I understand where she is coming from.
Sexy is something someone else makes me feel.
I prefer to attend bbw party nights in clubs where they tend to cater for the curvier/larger ladies (like myself) and their admirers.
Maybe that could be something you both can do together x
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"I am a size 20/22 with big belly and wobbly bits… and would never call myself sexy, so I understand where she is coming from.
Sexy is something someone else makes me feel.
I prefer to attend bbw party nights in clubs where they tend to cater for the curvier/larger ladies (like myself) and their admirers.
Maybe that could be something you both can do together x
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You may not call yourself sexy but i think you are...nothing i love more than hot sexy curves |
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"I would rather be with a curvy bbw than a stick thin girl any day
Why can't you just appreciate a BBW without denigrating slim women?
...or denigrate women by labelling them by size "
How is attributing a size to a woman denigrating her? How will it work not knowing what size a woman is until you see them in the flesh? How will they do their online clothes shopping? |
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