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The viscious circle

By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

Having high standards is a curse lol.

The people I like won't meet without you Having veris

I can't get veris because I won't meet with people that don't float my boat either on terms of attraction or personality (sometimes lack off)

Any tips or tricks to get a few good verifications.

Thanks all in advance

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

You could go to an organised social and get several veris. Or you could go to a swinging club, the club will verify you and you may chat to people who will also. Be aware though that verifications are not the gateway to fun that some think.

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By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

Thanks naomi

I don't like to share/boast my experiences but understand that some people are time wasters on here and veris give that level of comfort around who the person is and how reliable they are.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

Why not invite a couple of people for a coffee and chat, no sex involved. As long as the others are verified they could confirm that you're who you say you are which you d really the point of a verification in my opinion.

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By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

Thanks nice couple

Either my messages are left unread or I just never get a response.

Happy for feedback on my profile if that's the issue.

Im Always respectful with messages and not pushy. Always suggest a social as a first meet so as to not have pressure or make it look like I'm just out to sleep with people.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman over a year ago

Wherever

Sometimes people will use lack of veris as an excuse for not to meet if you’re not what they are looking for. I think it’s important to keep that in mind.

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By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

Thanks dee hadn't thought about that to be honest

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Thanks nice couple

Either my messages are left unread or I just never get a response.

Happy for feedback on my profile if that's the issue.

Im Always respectful with messages and not pushy. Always suggest a social as a first meet so as to not have pressure or make it look like I'm just out to sleep with people.

That's the problem many single men face.

Your profile looks fine to me.

I think like many of the other men on here you're probably going to have to keep plugging away and bide your time.

Best of luck

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple over a year ago

Cumbria

You have to be prepared to adapt, if what you are doing isn’t getting you what you want then do something different. If you think a verification is what’s needed then get yourself to a club or organised event, that will be the easiest way of doing so.

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By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

I think a club visit is in order. Thanks for the advice and feedback

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Clubs are a good bet in general.

But a verification isn't going to instantly unlock a pussy pass

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By *orkshireman downunder OP Man over a year ago

Hull and Brisbane

Thanks hadelse

I understand It's not a golden ticket. But definitely adds to the appeal for most if you know the person is genuine and not a timewaster

Thanks for your feedback

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