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Ever recognised a fab user in public?
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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago
Bingley |
I have twice now, firstly at a public bonfire night a few years ago, the lady who was her hubby was dressed in a raunchy way under her open long winter coat and I recognised them both as they had face photos on their profile, sadly they were only interested in meeting other couples or ladies and not single males so I enjoyed looking but kept away from saying hi.
Secondly the lady of a couple I had met a few month's earlier for a social but didn't take any further, as we did not click intellectually, passed me in town when out shopping, we stopped said hi and then bye, I reckon she would have been interested in something but I was a good lad and didn't try and progress things. |
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Yes, I saw a local female at a train station. We've chatted in the cam rooms, although I didn't have my cam on so she wouldn't have recognised me.
She was with a friend and I was with a family member so I didn't approach or make any eye contact at all. Discretion in public is important. |
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"I never have.
But I’ve been recognised twice this month alone! Both times in supermarkets.  "
We would recognise you, but wouldn't say anything. If you saw us and we recognised each other, I think a knowing nod would just about cover it. |
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I’ve seen who I’m sure were a fab couple in my work. The women was wearing a skirt and the stockings were visible. Didn’t say anything though
There’s a profile of a woman I’ve spoken to outside of fab and it’s an eye opening.
Today I sent a message to someone then realised I may actually know them through work.
Saw a neighbours profile on here too |
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
Fairytale Wood |
I have recognised, can be a small world but I show the curtesy of not acknowledging them and resect their privacy. Wish others in the past would have done the same for me - hey ho 
Oh except I once was at an event with my partner and was sat at table with his boss at the time - lets just say I'd seen quite a lot of her - she threw in the conversation and asked me if I'd liked what I'd seen  - only time I'd acknowledged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lady from a previous meet recognised me at the cafe in the gym but didn't say hello. She dropped me a line later to say so and was glad I didn't see her as in her words "was not looking her best due to worming out" would have still had a chat if seen her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never have.
But I’ve been recognised twice this month alone! Both times in supermarkets.
We would recognise you, but wouldn't say anything. If you saw us and we recognised each other, I think a knowing nod would just about cover it."
I don’t mind if I’m on my own to be honest! Both guys didn’t approach me but did message me on here to say they thought they’d saw me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one has recognised me out and about but I've recognised two mums on the school run,
Would never say hello there, not the right place for that sort of conversation,
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It's shocking how many men wouldn't understand that and start talking sex in that situation! |
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And so what if ya recognise a fab member in public..
Fab scene and general pu lic are usually extremely discreet this is definitely a guy couple thing to acknowledge fab people .
Most things on here are or is mostly male testosterone and fantasies |
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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago
Bingley |
"Yes in Gran Canaria so not to surprising, sent a message on fab to confirm and ended up meeting as a fab crowd in a bar/club and a good night was had."
This is how it should be handled |
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By *xkritTV/TS
over a year ago
High Wycombe (ish) |
"Ever recognised a fab user”... Yes!!
Met a (married) guy and had some discreet crossdressed fun with him. The following weekend, I was visiting (with my partner) some friends in Manchester (200 miles from my home) and who did I see at the bar with his partner... You guessed it. Needles to say neither of us was in a rush to say "hi"! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Regularly! Also have recognised people straight from their profiles. A couple from work, can't say it was really a surprise though. Funniest was in the car next to me at some traffic lights. I'd met her for coffee, so that was kind of amusing as I looked across and she acknowledged. Hubby, I guess, was driving. |
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I was talking to a woman one morning, when the conversation to face pics came up. She sent hers....she lived 5 houses down the road,i nicely declined her offer to fuck her in her marital bed
I had seen her take her kid to our local school 30 mins before |
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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago
Bingley |
"I was talking to a woman one morning, when the conversation to face pics came up. She sent hers....she lived 5 houses down the road,i nicely declined her offer to fuck her in her marital bed
I had seen her take her kid to our local school 30 mins
before"
Decent will power shown there. |
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By *ill12369Man
over a year ago
knutsford chesh |
Yes met a guy and his mrs for a gangbang he said what he was doing up north and 2 days later i had to take my daughter to the local hospital and who should be walking towards me it was the guy we passed as complete strangers until we met a second time and had a laugh about it. always complete anonymity |
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Many times.
I've bumped into people (both as couples and individuals) I've met while out shopping several times, and see many people from profiles on here and other sites in the gym, swimming pool and sauna fairly regularly.
Most wouldn't recognise me from my profile, and I'm always very discreet about things. I wouldn't normally introduce myself out of the blue, although I have spoken to some of them.
If someone recognises me, I'm always happy chat, as long as they are as discreet about the lifestyle as I am. I would never for example ask in a busy sauna if they are such and such a profile on Fab, but if a discreet opportunity arises, I might activate my swingdar and carefully move a social chat towards lifestyle oriented chat. I've found many people involved in the lifestyle that way, when they aren't on the websites, in fact I sometimes think I have more success in the sauna (just an ordinary leisure centre sauna) than on here! Lol |
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Yes, just the one woman who lived very local to me. Saw her at the local shops on her way back from picking her daughter up from school, but of course didn’t acknowledge that I knew her from fab. That would be cringeworthy.  |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
I’ve not recognised anyone when our in public, but have been recognised quite a few times when out. They have never approached me but have then messaged on here saying that they saw me out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d find it a turn on if someone recognised my wife and discreetly said something to me
Just had a day around Stockport what a shame I didn't spot you both."
We’re south of Stockport |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years ago in currys a guy kept looking at me and when i went outside he was stood waiting, he said hi and asked if i recognised him, i didnt he said we have spoke on fab still didnt recognise him and i was a bit mortified, turned out we had spoke and after him telling me who he was i knew him but was still a bit shocked he came up to me outside |
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"A few years ago in currys a guy kept looking at me and when i went outside he was stood waiting, he said hi and asked if i recognised him, i didnt he said we have spoke on fab still didnt recognise him and i was a bit mortified, turned out we had spoke and after him telling me who he was i knew him but was still a bit shocked he came up to me outside "
That always seems a bit stalkerish to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Recognised one of my mates Was on here…lead to a good night. Also recognised some other sexy individuals. Quite an adrenaline rush when u recognise someone |
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I haven’t recognised anyone but I have been recognised probably about 10 times. They don’t say anything at the time they just message me on here and I’m ok with that. Most of those are from people who hadn’t even seen a full face pic just my lips and hair. I’ve also had 5 or 6 people that are friends outside of fab that have messaged me about seeing me on here |
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By *rGen OP Man
over a year ago
Bingley |
"I haven’t recognised anyone but I have been recognised probably about 10 times. They don’t say anything at the time they just message me on here and I’m ok with that. Most of those are from people who hadn’t even seen a full face pic just my lips and hair. I’ve also had 5 or 6 people that are friends outside of fab that have messaged me about seeing me on here "
Just your lips and hair, wow that is some detective work I need to have seen recent face and full length clothed body shot to spot folk. |
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By *avensCouple
over a year ago
Stroud |
Weird, isn’t it. We shouldn’t care, we’re consenting adults, but it’s the stigma that you shag other people. We don’t have face pics and only share with very select friends on here, but I have recognised people locally (Stroud’s a small town!) but I’d never say anything. Feels inappropriate and would potentially make them feel awkward. Discretion is key. |
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Probably. But I didn’t realise I recognised them from here. I see familiar faces all the time. But if I realised I recognised somebody from here I wouldn’t approach them anyway. They could be with family or work people etc. |
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Only times that we’ve been, recognised that we know of, is when at a hotel just before a swingers even or a party we’re throwing.
Others from the guest list will usually recognise and say hello.
We’d be quite upset if someone that we weren’t friends with introduced themselves to us in public.
I think the measure of it for us is that if you have to introduce yourself, you’re not close enough to be saying hi in public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few years ago in currys a guy kept looking at me and when i went outside he was stood waiting, he said hi and asked if i recognised him, i didnt he said we have spoke on fab still didnt recognise him and i was a bit mortified, turned out we had spoke and after him telling me who he was i knew him but was still a bit shocked he came up to me outside
That always seems a bit stalkerish to me"
Yeah a was a bit taken aback |
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"Bumped into a guy in the doctors waiting room, said my pleasantries and I’m sure there was flicker of recognition. "
A guy recognised me in the Doctors also but he didn’t say anything he messaged me after |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I have been recognised twice, at work.
One was very scary, stalkery type sending meessages of my every movement. The other one was much more discreet and told me once I’d got home.
People are so weird. I don’t even have the attention span to recognise colleagues or even parents at my kids’ schools- I can’t imagine recognising fabbers! |
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Weather I recognised them from the site, a club or even a meet I would probably not react to them in any way in public. Discretion is important and you'd have no idea if they wanted approaching or not, if it was someone I knew or had interacted with then I would probably send them a message on here later. |
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Father in laws married friend was on here using his face pic as his profile pic. He actually messaged us a few times and I eventually said to him that living in a small town it wasn't wise to have a public face pic especially being married! I didn't tell him that we knew who he was. |
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we once met a single lass had booked a hotel had a great sexy night then week after went to parents meeting and the last teacher we had to sit down with ended up being the lass we had fun with. was bit funny as saw the mrs face in shock ,me i didnt click on at first with her being casually dressed.  |
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I bumped into someone I work with (on fab) at a club one night. Was a bit awkward at first, now it's completely normal.
I used to work with a couple of guys that were on fab and ai worked out it was them they got blocked pretty quick.
Our old neighbours are also on here. |
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Oh yes plenty - I have seen fabbers in my local supermarket and in bars..
I’ve also recognised a few acquaintances popping up in fab occasionally - including a female work colleague from my old job who has joined this evening..
Question is - do I message her??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's great for me as only have pics of me dressed up so no one recognises the 'real' me. I've seen a few guys about that have messaged me & i just smile to myself |
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By *_365Man
over a year ago
Heanor |
Yes, instantly recognised a lady who pops up regularly on my feed walking out of the local Lidl as I was parking up.
Couple of work colleagues are on here aswell. Haven't mentioned anything to them yet, most likely won't. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
I am hopeless with recognition . I have seen people in Tesco's and thought I recognise them from somewhere and it's a mystery until I see them again in their normal setting. It's never from here . |
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By *ockforplay66Man 52 weeks ago
Southampton/isle of wight/ everywhere |
A few years ago I was fuckj g a woman from fab, who was on here as part of a couple. On one occasion he came home as I was fucking her and watched me finish off up her backside.
A few months later, I was out with one of my friends (not the with-benefits kind) and saw the couple in the pub while we had our meal. They both acknowledged me and I nodded at them, but nothing else, complete discretion.
Checked my phone later and had a message from the couple saying they would like to arrange another meet soon!! |
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By *t2022Couple 52 weeks ago
Edinburgh |
Recognised the female half of a couple at school pick up time. Also seen a single male in a town where we used to live.
Beyond that we were messaged by a single guy we know who is attached - not that it matters to us in all honesty. Gave him the courtesy of saying we knew him. He denied it was him and blocked us. He sent the same pics he’s used on Facebook etc. |
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Have bumped into a number of people locally, that I recognise from Fab but not had the pleasure of playing with.
Even had a chat with one lovely lady in the supermarket, but kept it to myself. I giggled like a naughty school boy afterwards but would never embarrass someone by commenting in public.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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I’ve recognised two couples, one in the local high street, one in Tesco. On both occasions I did the sensible thing - smiled and walked on by (though I might’ve peeked at their profiles later on ) |
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I have recognised people I know from their profile.
Wrong way around, I know.
Haven't said anything to them as in one case, he'll no. And in the other case, I wouldn't want to maker uncomfortable by telling her.
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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"Yes in Gran Canaria so not to surprising, sent a message on fab to confirm and ended up meeting as a fab crowd in a bar/club and a good night was had."
Just thinking of that |
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Yeah, a couple of times. Have never said anything.
We have also been spotted quite afew times. Most have just messaged and said they'd seen us out. One guy though opted to compliment our profile, videos, went into detail about said videos before I managed to tell h to shut up... all infront of our kids whoch was wonderful |
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I got recognised once in Bristol via my old profile.
A lady I'd spoken to a few times on here but didn't click with at all, I dunno she just didn't seem right? Really intense.
She seemed forceful and annoyed I didn't want to just drop everything I was doing and take her home then and there. I was meeting friends later that evening and I kept expecting her just to reappear. |
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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago
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As a bus driver ive seen a local woman get on whos got hundreds of pics on her profile butvnever spoke theres also a woman who wanders around town too whos on it. |
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Regularly used to bump into someone in Tesco I had met for a blow job, couldn’t not remember her face from looking down at it! If she smiled at me I’d always smile back, recognised a few people who are open with the photos on here when around town but would never approach.
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