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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Which do you prefer either giving or receiving?

For me much prefer an HJ, get to see the action and all the facial expressions much better and prefer that type of stimulation

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By *hil most chillMan  over a year ago

South East & Europe

Depends on their technique. A mixture of both often leaves me sticky all over.

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By *urulovesnylonMan  over a year ago

Harrow

A nylon foot job and I’m all there! If not a BJ if the technique is good. Had some awful hand jobs by women so defo a no no lol

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By *ilverfox for youMan  over a year ago

Hull

Bj for me

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Giving head is my favourite thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like to do a mixture of both

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By *he ass man 666Man  over a year ago

paradise city

Bj for me over hand job

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple  over a year ago

Coventry

It really depends on the individual. Therefore it's completely important to sample both from each new individual so you can make an informed decision

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By *itygamesMan  over a year ago

UK

Either or , but it must be slow and gentle.........

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By *irwanksalot69Man  over a year ago

Birmingham

In a way, I prefer a hj. Because there can be all sorts of teasing talk at the same time. (It's generally hard to talk with a mouth full lol)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I honestly don't know why anyone would have a HJ over a BJ...

But each to there own and all that

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley

Guess there are plenty of unemployed cocks happy to take any job offer!

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By *ogan WillowCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

For Logan he loves a blow job but with plenty of attention to his balls with my hands and tongue first I love pleasuring him this way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bloody love a BJ

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love sucking cock

Hj is just complimentary

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By *he KinkysCouple  over a year ago

Edinburgh

Usually both at the same time but definitely love giving blowjobs if I had to choose, love making his eyes pop out his head x

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By *he KinkysCouple  over a year ago

Edinburgh

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I love sucking a big cock

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan  over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Obviously blowjobs are better, but shoutout to those moments when you’re just starting out together and you’re so desperate to touch each other that it’s all rushed encounters and breathless kisses and hands everywhere and she just outright *grabs* for my cock and can’t believe how hard it feels in her hand and … yeah that can be good too. So shoutout for handjobs sometimes.

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By *londebiguyMan  over a year ago

Southport

It seems that despite what they think or say, many women are not great at either.

I've only experienced a few that have any skills.

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By *hil most chillMan  over a year ago

South East & Europe


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman  over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do "

I'm not looking for any one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

BJ both giving and taking for me

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By *ornucopiaMan  over a year ago

Bexley


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do

I could be the one you've been looking for, as getting head is my favourite thing to do

I'm not looking for any one "

God loves a trier. Especially on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I prefer giving a bj

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By *ill12369Man  over a year ago

knutsford chesh

Both and receiving

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By *ennyleeeWoman  over a year ago

Southampton

I love giving bjs especially to guys who say they have never cum from one.

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By *oppleWangerMan  over a year ago

Gods Country


"It really depends on the individual. Therefore it's completely important to sample both from each new individual so you can make an informed decision "

This! Some have no idea and its like putting your dick in a fucking cheese grater!

Similar applies for handies - why always 700MPH FFS, its all about the tip, slow the fuck down!

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By *ave1976XXXMan  over a year ago

newmarket

Love giving both but if I had to choose I prefer being given a hj

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By *ustin666666Man  over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd rather cum with a hard fast hj any day. Watching it spray everywhere.......wollop

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By *iredhandMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"I love giving bjs especially to guys who say they have never cum from one. "

You’ll now be inundated with messages from guys claiming exactly that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they are doing it wrong just say. Communication is key. Hand job with lots of kissing and breast play at the same time! Nothing finer and as a climber I am always looking for three points of contact!!

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By *entakuruMan  over a year ago

Exeter


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

Ooh, and you like tentacles too?

Perfect! Surely mine will grow in soon!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has to be a nice, sloppy BJ

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why choose, mix the two together and make him squirm.

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By *moothdickMan  over a year ago

stoke

Put them both together and u av a perfect job

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aren’t these done in conjunction?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Giving and receiving oral

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By *rishVikingMan  over a year ago

Shankill

Why bit both

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By *sirapMan  over a year ago

Manchester

All depends on the situation. For example, I prefer a handjob when an older man or woman is wanking me off as I look at pics of my gfs mum…

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By *udy3Man  over a year ago

Corby

Suck it fuck it or leave it alone

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By *ndiiiMan  over a year ago

Paisley Scotland


"Why choose, mix the two together and make him squirm."

That!!!!

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By *unlife2000Man  over a year ago

Western Bay

Both happen together but exclusively.

Both are amazing when done properly and the technique is the one you are in the mood for.

Saturday night savage sloppy deepthroat.

Sunday morning slow and loving blowjob.

But an oily massage handjob with ball play and teasing and edging. It's about sensations, not chasing orgasms people.

Diversify your portfolio

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan  over a year ago

Norwich

Not had either (if you don’t count self-administered) for a long long time…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Both, really dependant on who I am with

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By *ancelotLovejoyMan  over a year ago

Penryn

Definitely a combo both giving and receiving

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By *glyBettyTV/TS  over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Neither but if I had to pick one, definitely blowjob. I don't trust my dick in the hands of anyone. Even men are crap at handjobs.

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By *orsche40Couple  over a year ago

northwich

I love giving a combination of both

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By *ryton 123TV/TS  over a year ago

Chatham

I love to give a receive both.

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago


"Giving head is my favourite thing to do "

Funnily enough receiving is mine

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By *uncouple6677Couple 25 weeks ago

North West

Ideally a cock in each hand as I suck another

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By *ike_looking_forMan 25 weeks ago

Cumbria

nothing beats a great BJ and love to receive, but if your not up for cum in the mouth then finishing with hands is great especially if it ends with a facial

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By *ighland couple 99Couple 25 weeks ago

Inverness

Love giving both and Mr loves receiving both so win win

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By *ristol_nicolaTV/TS 25 weeks ago

Bristol

BJ

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple 25 weeks ago

East Anglia

She combines both very well

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By *rafter69Man 25 weeks ago

upminster

BJ for me please

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By *ikeitdeepMan 25 weeks ago

swanage

Bj all day

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By * D 777Man 25 weeks ago

bathgate

love a BJ or a HJ [bj wins though }

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By *oiluvfunMan 25 weeks ago

Penrith

I rarely cum from a bj, so bj for the visual, hj for the end game

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By *hunky GentMan 25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

BJ for me.

Ladies - Apply within if you like giving them.

HJ is an acceptable substitute

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman 25 weeks ago

Manchester

Love giving both

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Why not mixture of both

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By *eeper ThanMan 25 weeks ago

Dartford


"Why not mixture of both "

Exactly this they should go hand in hand or hand in mouth I guess

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By *rKinksMan 25 weeks ago

Alton

Think most people agree a bj is great than hj. However I met a more domme women and her edging some what dismissive hj was incredibly hot. More of the dynamic around the action thou

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By *umagain58Man 25 weeks ago

London

Start with hand job and then lick balls up the shaft to tip. Then don’t need to decide what best lol

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By *eekingjoy777Woman 25 weeks ago

dorset

Giving combination

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By *reen as JadeCouple 25 weeks ago

Cheshire

Depends on the mood and where I am to what I give. I always start with a hand job xxxx

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By *andy PatinkinMan 25 weeks ago

Leeds

I can count on one hand the number of times I've reached orgasm through oral alone.

My preference is hand job with a hawk tuah, and some dirty talk to get me off. Usually telling me about some sexual encounter she's had.

That does it for me.

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By *nkedguy777Man 25 weeks ago

Manchester

Handjob or blowjob I have no problem in cumming from either

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By *ieandteaseMan 25 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Give blow job, receive hand job

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By *elboy1978Man 25 weeks ago

Fellgate

Like both

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple 25 weeks ago

Bristol

Combo of both. Prefer a bj but totally understand those giving it need a break

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By *emptme1993Man 25 weeks ago

manchester

I love both but cannot beat a good bj

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman 25 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

I love giving both...

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman 25 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

And good hj can be even better than bj

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By *achel SmythTV/TS 25 weeks ago

Farnborough

I love giving both …. And receiving both xxx

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By *cotsguyyMan 25 weeks ago

Belfast and Fife

Love a slow HJ while kissing

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By *arry monk40Man 25 weeks ago

Telford

Hj all-day long

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By *hil most chillMan 25 weeks ago

South East & Europe


"And good hj can be even better than bj "

Agree with this 100%

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By *tylebender03Man 25 weeks ago

Manchester

BJ. I can do a hand job myself

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple 25 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

I start hubbies day with dry handjob stroking and scratching his cock . Then I go onto blowjob as I cover his balls in lube. Then oil handjob to finish so a combination of both xx

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Quite happily take both

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By *illjoyCouple 25 weeks ago

Newport

Both, but hand job would just win!

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Bj all day long

But hj are nice too x

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By *enshun4Man 25 weeks ago

Local

A mix of both

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By *ty31Man 25 weeks ago

NW London

I'll take the HJ please. Plenty of lube

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By *esire in SheffieldMan 25 weeks ago

Sheffield

Footjob for me

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By *xmfrvnMan 25 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I've actually received very few hjs, maybe it's something about my cock

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By *onnyJohnMan 25 weeks ago

Doncaster

Never had a decent BJ, don't get me wrong but i prefer a HJ almost every time

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By *bboredguyMan 25 weeks ago

dundee

HJ titwank mmmm

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By *idlandsdaveMan 25 weeks ago

Midlands

HJ for me also

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By *tag90Man 25 weeks ago

penrith

Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day

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By *ambsfunMan 25 weeks ago

Cambridge


"Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day"

Totally agree

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By *ady and the cockCouple 25 weeks ago

North East/Anywhere


"I start hubbies day with dry handjob stroking and scratching his cock . Then I go onto blowjob as I cover his balls in lube. Then oil handjob to finish so a combination of both xx "

Exactly that x

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By *iscreetSucker89Man 25 weeks ago

Visiting

I love giving a mixture of both to offer different sensations. Lots of oil for the HJ, then give a good deep BJ. If I had to choose, I couldn’t live without sucking

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By (user no longer on site) 25 weeks ago

Both are good in their own way

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By *heelerMan 25 weeks ago

Northants

A BJ can be a bit of a let down but some women really know how to use her mouth on your cock but wouldn't mind a HJ.

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By *atgirlknobinCouple 25 weeks ago

ish

Both at the same time into a loose lipped mouth ,batgirl is very good at it

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By *ornucopiaMan 25 weeks ago

Bexley


"Cant believe how many hj answers there are. Give me a sloppy bj any day

Totally agree "

Give me a P.J. over either of them!

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By *ayden_82Man 25 weeks ago

corby

Both are good. Depending on the situation.. long as the ending is happy

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By *OVE-PORNMan 25 weeks ago

las vegas

Both

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By *aveJones76Man 25 weeks ago

Rotherham

BJ all the way, sometimes even more than sex in the past!

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By *ini1275Man 25 weeks ago

stoke on trent

Love both tbh depends on the situation..quick hj in risky place is horny

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By *endalshaggersCouple 25 weeks ago

Kendal

Receiving a BJ but I absolutely love giving her oral as well

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