Definitely improve the profile, you need more and better quality pictures and more information about yourself. Maybe include some shots of your face (if you can of course) and some in smart clothes etc. also don’t be a “hey” or bc a “how are you” guy, try to engage people in actual conversation. So many men on here think a dick pic and a crap one liner are interesting, they’re not. At least you seem eager to improve your chances, so good luck to you!  |
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Majority of pics appear to be in a bathroom. Not the most sexy place.
I realise some use because of the mirror but in reality we all have a phone with a timer set it up on a side in a better location.
Also the wording is short and you are young (yes swinging is the one place where being young doesn’t necessarily make you stand out). So currently it just looks like you are a bit of a chancer out to get experience.
NSA and discretion are assumed values for most in a swinger site.
If it’s one of the three lines you have written it could suggest you are doing this behind someone’s back and be a red flag. |
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I second all that was said above, plus one thing. Are you straight? As you met a TV/TS (from your verification summary). As the veri is not shown, some may assume you're not truthful about your sexual orientation. |
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"You can simply message someone 'hi' if they like the look of you they'll reply, if they don't they won't in majority of cases. "
Hahaha yeah no no no no no. Maybe that works for you but I bet your inbox is flooded with guys saying hi or how are you. |
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By *issmorganWoman
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You've written nothing that would make people want to meet you op.
You can't accom and need to be discreet, plus the stuff on the sink looks like women's perfume/wash (I've got that ckin2u) so it sounds like you're maybe in a relationship?.
I'd get rid of the pic that looks like you have a fag in too.
Write about you, what you offer, what you like etc so people have some thing to go on. |
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"You can simply message someone 'hi' if they like the look of you they'll reply, if they don't they won't in majority of cases.
Hahaha yeah no no no no no. Maybe that works for you but I bet your inbox is flooded with guys saying hi or how are you. "
Hardly, we don't get many messages at all, maybe 5 a day on average! |
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