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over a year ago
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I avoid married men like the plague.... especially the cheating ones....it's not much fun 'sneaking' around....nor is it fair on a wife or partner who has no idea of her hubbys double life.... |
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ? "
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita"
Why is a married man a ‘safer option’? Why is someone who’s cheating on his wife safer than someone who’s single and not cheating on anyone? |
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Why is a married man a ‘safer option’? Why is someone who’s cheating on his wife safer than someone who’s single and not cheating on anyone?"
Less likely to get emotionally attached.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get the impression hardly any like married men on here from what I’ve seen "
It's a Swinging site. Swinging is about trust and shared experiences. Not cheating. |
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Why is a married man a ‘safer option’? Why is someone who’s cheating on his wife safer than someone who’s single and not cheating on anyone?
Less likely to get emotionally attached.
Nita"
Completely disagree.
Usually much more emotionally involved, much needier, much more demanding…
The kind of character that hides and sneaks around with people he loves…
Nah not my kinda vibe.
Gimme a straight up honest guy from the get go and I have more fun!
Find married men much more hard work.
(Again, same for women just fork experience) |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Why is a married man a ‘safer option’? Why is someone who’s cheating on his wife safer than someone who’s single and not cheating on anyone?
Less likely to get emotionally attached.
Nita"
So someone who’s married, and therefore is emotionally attached to someone or was emotionally attached to someone in the past, is less likely to get emotionally attached than someone who isn’t emotionally attached to anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating is for losers. I either do everything with my girl, or she is fully aware. I have someone I see quite regularly, my girl always knows I'm going, and loves to see the videos after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Why is a married man a ‘safer option’? Why is someone who’s cheating on his wife safer than someone who’s single and not cheating on anyone?
Less likely to get emotionally attached.
Nita
Completely disagree.
Usually much more emotionally involved, much needier, much more demanding…
The kind of character that hides and sneaks around with people he loves…
Nah not my kinda vibe.
Gimme a straight up honest guy from the get go and I have more fun!
Find married men much more hard work.
(Again, same for women just fork experience) "
^^^^^^^ This is so true....
I was unintentionally seeing a married man.... Unintentionally because he told me he was single....He was so needy & demanding....Selfish too....only met at times that suited him not me.... Selfish cos it was all about his sexual needs not mine....Most dysfunctional meet I ever met.... Also (Him sneaking around & ducking & diving when we met in public) How I didn't cop it he was married for quite some time I do not know....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Their wives make them shower regularly.
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True story, Lena forces me to have a bath once a month, even if I don't need it  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita"
Is there women that doesn’t like refer to themselves as females, or anyone else referring to them as females? Never heard this before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Is there women that doesn’t like refer to themselves as females, or anyone else referring to them as females? Never heard this before?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Is there women that doesn’t like refer to themselves as females, or anyone else referring to them as females? Never heard this before?"
I personally prefer the word Female to Woman....To me it's just a nicer sounding word.... So I don't mind being referred to as Female at all.... |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
Firstly, many women don't like being referred to as females. Think Ferengi in Star Trek... it sounds dehumanising to me.
I love the man I am married to and we enjoy meeting other married couples.
On the rare occasion we meet with solo mennin clubs, we haven't asked their relationship status. For others they maybe see married men as a safer option.
Nita
Is there women that doesn’t like refer to themselves as females, or anyone else referring to them as females? Never heard this before?"
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For starters, it is actually a bit odd to say "I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?" Why not say WOMEN love about married MEN ... Or... FEMALES love about married MALES?
The reason it's odd is that for women the choice of word was referring to them as a person with a specific set of genitalia, and for men it was referring to them by their gender.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ?
The fact they bring their wives along and I can watch Paul fuck them."
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m trying to understand what females love about married men ? "
There could be many reasons - in the old days single guys in swinging were often quite rare and usually married or in relationships because they were seen as safe - discretion (paramount), looked after themselves and had good hygiene and were usually invited into swinging circle.
Also there are many of the female persuasion like to have what others have - guys also get a kick out of meeting married women. Also you have to remember the old adage that all the decent men are either married or gay.
Whether you agree or not - like trying obtain the seemingly unobtainable - in most cases not really a challenge 
but basically same reasons guys like married women |
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"I get the impression hardly any like married men on here from what I’ve seen
It's a Swinging site. Swinging is about trust and shared experiences. Not cheating. "
Exactly this, shame so many still feel the need to cheat though. |
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"I get the impression hardly any like married men on here from what I’ve seen
It's a Swinging site. Swinging is about trust and shared experiences. Not cheating.
Exactly this, shame so many still feel the need to cheat though. "
There is so many reasons why people are here . Why do people .. assume its cheating . I do see alot if not most single guy profiles amd mist are likely in a partnership or some description. Why should we judge.
I used to believe swinging was non judgemental . This last few years its become even more labelled and judgemental. Leave people to do their own thing .
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By *essaMayWoman
over a year ago
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"We don’t.
If he lies to someone he’s supposed to love then he lies about lots of things, including how good he is in the sack! "
When is a lie not a lie? Very few on here are truly honest try to big themselves up or create a an image of their creation which they think will gain, using filters to enhance, posting pictures of their past meet/conquests to display give the image of their prowess.
"make an untrue statement with intent to deceive"
How many females out there claim to be bi but never been with another woman? or would if the opportunity arose.
How many are guilty of a little white lie but at what point does it case to be a little white lie - but is still a lie.
Lies here are subjective and fluid. We all decide what is accepted and what/when it isn't and yet we judge others on what they think are acceptable or not based on our own standards at the time - got to love social media
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"I get the impression hardly any like married men on here from what I’ve seen
It's a Swinging site. Swinging is about trust and shared experiences. Not cheating.
Exactly this, shame so many still feel the need to cheat though.
There is so many reasons why people are here . Why do people .. assume its cheating . I do see alot if not most single guy profiles amd mist are likely in a partnership or some description. Why should we judge.
I used to believe swinging was non judgemental . This last few years its become even more labelled and judgemental. Leave people to do their own thing .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get the impression hardly any like married men on here from what I’ve seen
It's a Swinging site. Swinging is about trust and shared experiences. Not cheating.
Exactly this, shame so many still feel the need to cheat though.
There is so many reasons why people are here . Why do people .. assume its cheating . I do see alot if not most single guy profiles amd mist are likely in a partnership or some description. Why should we judge.
I used to believe swinging was non judgemental . This last few years its become even more labelled and judgemental. Leave people to do their own thing .
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I will continue judging. |
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