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Does playing with a guy within a couple or him playing with you make you bi
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I guess it depends if it was the first time. Then put it down to playful fun. If it was say the 10th encounter with guy on guy play then I think you would fall under the Bi spectrum. But who cares if you enjoy it right?? |
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Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.
I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with  |
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"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.
I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "
"Swinger bi" perhaps? |
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By *ackdd72Man
over a year ago
the valleys |
"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.
I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "
Fab straight? |
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By *apybarasCouple
over a year ago
High Lighthouse! |
"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.
I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with
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As with most things about human kind, I think we are coming to recognise that just about nothing is an a/b thing.
Everything about us is a spectrum of some sort, and we'll all sit on these spectrums at slightly different places.
I'm not even convinced that what we see as "normal" heterosexual is actually the normal it's been made out to be. Possibly religion and law found it easier to simplify this stuff.
Many civilizations and societies around the world have (and do) take different views on this.
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You're deffo bi curious at the least if you regularly play with other men op.
It's regularly said here that it puts couples off when men list themselves as straight, then message wanting to play with them both.
Even if you don't fancy the man, you like playing with men so you can't really say you're straight.
Be open, being bi isn't a bad thing and certainly nothing to be ashamed of. |
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"Who cares. You'll still be the same person tomorrow, but now you've had a fun experience (hopefully)."
Came here to say this.
If you like what you see, it turns you on and there's mutual consent then just do it.
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"So many posts on this subject. If you play with both sexes your bi, whether you call it that or not but its all good if you enjoy it."
To label yourself bi might suggest it is quite regular or wanted in meet.
I don't think that is dlways the way really with some people.
They can be quite fluid sexudlly in some meetx but not in every meet.
I don't see the need for broad labels really.
Just discuss individually and do what works well for all of you.
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who cares lol.met a sexy young cpl last year she was stunning.was licking out her shaven pussy.69.her on top.then felt 2mouths round my balls/cock.together.both sharing my cock.did not push her off.just let it happen.very horny.who could say NO to that.no idea whos mouth i came in.but couldn't.give a fuck.nice surprise. just go with the flow and ENJOY.thats what i say especially.when he fucking started rimming me too.did not stop him.was great fun..  |
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"Even though my preference is women? I fancy women not men?"
There is no such thing a true equality and everyone will always like one more than the other, even if it's 50.0000001%
If you sucked a dick and you thought it was hot and it gave you a boner too - then you are Bi.
Even if you get raging boners at the merest whiff of boob. |
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By *reytopMan
over a year ago
Yorkshire Coast |
I have never considered myself bi however a husband (dressed in his wife's undies) once wanked me off into his wife's mouth and I did find it enjoyable. I think we all did. Let's face it what's enjoyable can't harm you. |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
Hayling Island |
If you enjoy sex with guys then you're bi.... is the short answer.
The long answer is that labels and sexuality and human psychology are extrememly complicated and nuanced issues, and everybody sits along a spectrum, and has different cultural and social baggage that affects their perceptions and behaviours, and its all just really fucking complicated!!! |
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"Personally, I just enjoy sex! I'm sexually attracted to ladies as in, walking down the street its always the ladies I notice and don't look at men in that way. But with regards to sex, I enjoy playing with men just as much as women.
I'm sure there's a term for that which is separate from Bi, but as it's the one that is most common, that's what i roll with "
Think they call it bi-playful |
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over a year ago
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I think if you want to have an mmf you have to be comfortable around cock and contact with guys either just incidental to playing with the lady or more deliberate. I wouldn’t consider myself bi, I’d never play alone with a male, but, with the right couple (that’s the important bit) then as long as everyone agrees, anything goes. |
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