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threesomes - getting left out
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was reading diary of a submissive last night and the author commented that in a threesome someone always gets left out. I've not really found this since we all have at least two access points!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its not about the number of plugs and sockets its about how sexually attracted to each other tha participants are. Threesomes are often described as a triangle but if all of the participants are heterosexual then its actually more of a V - this is why I'll never participate in an MMF, as I'd never be satisfied with half of a womans affection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never been in a threesome where someone's left out - either MMF or FFM.
In the former (straight scenario) it tends to be dominated by two guys giving the woman double the attention - so she's certainly not left out and both guys are constantly busy! Chuck the (occasionally) orally bi scenario in and all three are giving/getting equal attention!
In an FFM - the guy is obviously getting twice the usual attention and if both females are bi then there's plenty of scope for them to play while the guy joins in with one or both!!
Speaking from my point of view - if someone's getting left out then there's something amiss!! Mind you - there's always scope for someone to take a break and enjoy the view for a short while!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Threesomes never. Foursomes with another couple lots of times.
We have had a big rant recently about selfish couples trying to treat another couple like a single female.
Starting to think we need a straight couple to play with! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Threesomes never. Foursomes with another couple lots of times.
We have had a big rant recently about selfish couples trying to treat another couple like a single female.
Starting to think we need a straight couple to play with!"
Now this I can imagine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to agree that I have never found this to be the case, always like to watch 2 women together or couples enjoy each other when taking a break.
If you feel left out maybe its you that wants all the attention? but if your not being satisfied by the other two tell them what to do to you, get vocal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's more the fact that being straight i am limited to what I can do when the guy is busy with the other woman.
But then I am incredibly selfish sexually and don't like other women getting attention so 3sum that way around isn't really perhaps my thing. But I do like to share a guy with another woman to a certain extent.
Learning curve for me. And I know next time to speak up a bit more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's more the fact that being straight i am limited to what I can do when the guy is busy with the other woman.
But then I am incredibly selfish sexually and don't like other women getting attention so 3sum that way around isn't really perhaps my thing. But I do like to share a guy with another woman to a certain extent.
Learning curve for me. And I know next time to speak up a bit more. "
I'm so pleased I'm not the only one with these feelings, I'm exactly the same as you. I would love an ffm to spoil the guy but I have no desire to play with other girl.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threesomes never. Foursomes with another couple lots of times.
We have had a big rant recently about selfish couples trying to treat another couple like a single female.
Starting to think we need a straight couple to play with!
Now this I can imagine. "
Indeed COUPLES are easily the worst culprits for selfish play. Never had a problem with a single girl or guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's more the fact that being straight i am limited to what I can do when the guy is busy with the other woman.
But then I am incredibly selfish sexually and don't like other women getting attention so 3sum that way around isn't really perhaps my thing. But I do like to share a guy with another woman to a certain extent.
Learning curve for me. And I know next time to speak up a bit more.
I'm so pleased I'm not the only one with these feelings, I'm exactly the same as you. I would love an ffm to spoil the guy but I have no desire to play with other girl. "
Not just the 2 of you me as well
I did have a fmf with boyfriend and an other girl , I got up and left about 20mins in to it and it took them an hour to notice I had gone . Funny he left me for her a few weeks later lol big learning curve lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never felt left out in a threesome situation either mmf or ffm. I haven't indulged in as many ffm's but I like them because I'm not the centre of attention all the time. I really enjoy watching and its nice to not always be having sex but having a little rest. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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I guess that for some people it's a more finely balanced thing than others when it comes to sharing. I think if one of the partners gets left high and dry for an excessive amount of time then I can understand them feeling left out - people just have to remember to share fair.
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my first ffm was where it was a couple and was moreaabout them wanting me to watch than to participate so I took off...kind of put me off as I'm quite a greedy girl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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that's why I prefer 2 bi men for 3sums as every plays together, I have found a few times with 2 straight men it seems more the guys taking turns rather than all playing together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had one , would like to lol but till that happens i wont comment  "
had some lol but always try to be busy busy lol see it as an opportunity to try and please two ppl. lol often watch threesomes in porn dvd for hints on how to keep all three busy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one gets left out when we operate. Although I do sometimes take a step back and like to watch her operate so to speak. More than happy to let her work away with a big smile on her face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one gets left out when we operate. Although I do sometimes take a step back and like to watch her operate so to speak. More than happy to let her work away with a big smile on her face. "
That sounds sooooooo familiar to how we play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's why I prefer 2 bi men for 3sums as every plays together, I have found a few times with 2 straight men it seems more the guys taking turns rather than all playing together"
A mmf threesome is where I found I enjoyed playing eith everybody's pleasure zones, not just the womans. I think a bi mmf is awsome, especially if the girl is ok with two huys playing as well. Fav position is me on bottom, girl in 69 with me and other guy fucking her. She gets a tongue and a cock at the same time, she usually comed like a volcano! Then, swap!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being vocal, active and having no jealousy issues are important in any 3sum situation as there can be major repercussions if one partner is left out for too long.
Silk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being vocal, active and having no jealousy issues are important in any 3sum situation as there can be major repercussions if one partner is left out for too long.
Silk "
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The last mff threesome i had i fell off the bed and neither of them noticed.
So i decided no more, it's all about me in future. I rarely do straight mmf threesomes either as unless the guys are carefully chosen it can become a macho exercise in 'look at what we are doing to this woman' and not be about what i want at all.  |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"The last mff threesome i had i fell off the bed and neither of them noticed. "
Oh my I shouldn't have found that funny but I have just had to change my top as I spilt coffee laughing so much!
Their loss in my opinion x |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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All our 3sums have been great with all fully involved......4sums which turn into 3sums because other fem doesn't realy like sharing her male partner are not so great(hence we stopped playing with newbies,our time is to precious for those discoveries)
(susie) |
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