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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Watch some swinger porn on a video upload site. If that doesn't get the message across subtlely, nothing will. It also leaves her the opportunity to say no, and you the opportunity to say that you didn't mean what she thought. Everyone's a winner |
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Honestly? Just talk. Don't hint, don't beat about the bush or hope they come up with the idea themselves. Open up a conversation and find out what they think about the idea. If you can't do that because one or both of you can't communicate on the subject then you're not going to be able to move this forward ever. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Flicker through YouTube for past swinger programmes then outta shock announce to her never guess what I found then ask her what she thinks about swinging and does she fancy watching it if she does follow instructions if not get yourself comfortable for sleeping on the sofa   |
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Gents can I just say that many women appreciate emotional intimacy. You know that uncomfortable bit where she wants to talk about feelings but you don't want to. If you can overcome that barrier (and yes I know you're not all like it) you will find that the discussions on swinging and other sex related stuff becomes much easier because you will know her better and be able to judge what her reaction might be. Also if a woman feels 'heard' emotionally she often feels much more inclined to be more sexual because she's secure and feels loved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How is it best to try and hint to a partner that you want to try swinging? "
Send porn gifs with various scenarios playing out, wassap them as they are small ones on porn hub
Mr started with me like that and eventually I let it out I’m bi sexual  |
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By *odus86 OP Man
over a year ago
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I’m going to find out what porn she’s into as she won’t say so I’m going to find out as it seems like she has a kink that’s the way I’ll approach it.
Hopefully it’s the same otherwise I’ll just tell her |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I’m going to find out what porn she’s into as she won’t say so I’m going to find out as it seems like she has a kink that’s the way I’ll approach it.
Hopefully it’s the same otherwise I’ll just tell her "
Id be asking other than the normal intimacy would their be anything that she would consider adding a twist to it all that shes always thought about trying making it less boring |
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Don't hint, have the conversation.
Let's face it if you can't have an open conversation with your partner then swinging isn't going to work, you need to be open, honest and set your boundaries.
If your on here without her knowledge then don't bother with the conversation just do the decent thing and leave her, she deserves better.
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts. "
Don't worry about what others think
But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours
Good luck with it pal  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"It’s not even the swapping I think I’d like being in the same room as others whilst having sex."
That's a nice way to start being comfortable around others whilst both are enjoying themselves |
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By *odus86 OP Man
over a year ago
ashford |
Appreciate it now I just think I’m being judged. Was only after advice how to best approach the subject. Wish I stayed quiet now
"I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts.
Don't worry about what others think
But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours
Good luck with it pal "
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Appreciate it now I just think I’m being judged. Was only after advice how to best approach the subject. Wish I stayed quiet now
I’ve had this account before meeting/ being with her. It’s a fairly new thing. But appreciate your thoughts.
Don't worry about what others think
But definitely speak with her calmly understanding her views and her understanding yours
Good luck with it pal "
Op
Not everyone is as you've mentioned you were looking for guidance which I respect you've been open and honest which was enough for me I didn't need to know any history behind. You've received some great advice just go with it pal |
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