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over a year ago
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"How long do u have to chase somebody b4 u think ur time is been wasted ??????"
If you think or feel that your time is being wasted, I'd say it's probably time to stop chasing?!  |
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"How long do u have to chase somebody b4 u think ur time is been wasted ??????"
2 years, 3 months and 6 days.... beyond that and I start to wonder if we will ever meet  
...and there is more than a grain of truth there as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 messages, 1 per week just to remind them we are still waiting for that date they said they would get back to us with. After that they are dropped as friends awaiting them to come back to us if no reply. Have not got time for people who say they can meet but never do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't do any chasing
Probably fatal for a single bloke on here, but if someone is interested, they will engage you from your initial message.
Playing hard to get and chasing those that choose to be is not on my agenda. |
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"2 messages, 1 per week just to remind them we are still waiting for that date they said they would get back to us with. After that they are dropped as friends awaiting them to come back to us if no reply. Have not got time for people who say they can meet but never do."
I know that's how you roll, so fair play to you, but I have several people/couples on my friends list (mostly over an hour or two drive away) that I talk to once in a while and do hope to meet at some point. I've met two of those recently, one after a few months the other took over 2 years... so I never say never... |
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"Been talking for couple of weeks every day . And just when I think getting some where she's busy then the txt go funny . Just sick of time wasters xx"
I don't understand why that makes her a timewaster? Surely she can change her mind at any point prior to a meet (or even at a meet or that matter).
Maybe you just said something she didn't like or she had doubts about you and was sounding you out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a theory that if you aren't arranging a meet within two weeks of the initial contact and haven't met with in four weeks it's prob never going to happen. There has only ever been two exceptions to this rule, so it works for me.
Also, trust your intuition, if it feels like you're wasting your time, you prob are. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on the messages. If you think you're getting close to arranging something then they go quiet then I reckon you might be on to a loser. However there are some people on my friends list I rarely swap messages with but we know when our social lives allow it there will be a meet. Sometimes people are worth waiting for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Quite agree people have personal lives as do I and things to do but don't see the point in chatting if not interested ??? She may well be worth the wait that's why I ask the question  xxx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Quite agree people have personal lives as do I and things to do but don't see the point in chatting if not interested ??? She may well be worth the wait that's why I ask the question xxx"
Only you and she know that for sure. It does depend on how you feel about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well when somebody tells u they are wet and needing fucked kind of says what does on the tin . That's why I would call her time waster xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs! |
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs! "
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs!
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.??? "
Are you saying you'd like to be chased after then?? Surely people are not here searching for their life partners!! Whether you're after regular meets or one offs, you don't engage with others and then lay back and expect to be chased after, not on here in my opinion! |
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs!
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.???
Are you saying you'd like to be chased after then?? Surely people are not here searching for their life partners!! Whether you're after regular meets or one offs, you don't engage with others and then lay back and expect to be chased after, not on here in my opinion!"
No, what Im saying is that people are on here for their own reason, some to play, some to chat, others to just lurk and watch. Some enjoy the chase, then loose interest when caught. Some enjoy chasing. Its not just a simple meet and shag site for many.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs!
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.???
Are you saying you'd like to be chased after then?? Surely people are not here searching for their life partners!! Whether you're after regular meets or one offs, you don't engage with others and then lay back and expect to be chased after, not on here in my opinion!
No, what Im saying is that people are on here for their own reason, some to play, some to chat, others to just lurk and watch. Some enjoy the chase, then loose interest when caught. Some enjoy chasing. Its not just a simple meet and shag site for many.
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Nor is it for me, as hard as it may sound to believe coming from a single guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs!
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.???
Are you saying you'd like to be chased after then?? Surely people are not here searching for their life partners!! Whether you're after regular meets or one offs, you don't engage with others and then lay back and expect to be chased after, not on here in my opinion!
No, what Im saying is that people are on here for their own reason, some to play, some to chat, others to just lurk and watch. Some enjoy the chase, then loose interest when caught. Some enjoy chasing. Its not just a simple meet and shag site for many.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx |
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx"
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"Is it me or it's quite sad that we come to these sites for one thing and one thing only and some STILL feel the need to be chased after?? If anyone has the time to chase anyone, they have just as much if not more chance to find playmates in their day to day lives or in clubs!
Maybe not everyone is here for 'one thing'.???
Are you saying you'd like to be chased after then?? Surely people are not here searching for their life partners!! Whether you're after regular meets or one offs, you don't engage with others and then lay back and expect to be chased after, not on here in my opinion!
No, what Im saying is that people are on here for their own reason, some to play, some to chat, others to just lurk and watch. Some enjoy the chase, then loose interest when caught. Some enjoy chasing. Its not just a simple meet and shag site for many.
Nor is it for me, as hard as it may sound to believe coming from a single guy!"
I actually think many single guys are on here for the same reason as many single women....... to find someone to have great sex with, but also, someone who they can also spend some quality time with too, without the complicated bits.
Others are here to shag anything with a pulse.
Their reason for being here is their choice, but those looking for a quick, no conversation shag, I suspect, will be the ones with less meets, as many females do prefer at least a little conversation with their sex.
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx"
its FAB swingers, not FAB guarantee a shag.
Do you realise what swinging is?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes realise what swinging is . Yes I like a conversation as much as anybody as I have been talking to her for weeks and she is telling me she is wet and wanting fucked . To me sounds like she wants to have sex . Would u not say so ???? xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not one for chasing. If they like me, i just hope they stay in touch with me..some do, and some dont.
I love a good conversation and plenty of banter and laughs..just a shame that many are waaaay out of London and i havent found anyone local as of yet 
..hope my luck changes soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx
its FAB swingers, not FAB guarantee a shag.
Do you realise what swinging is?? "
Typical generalisation against single men!!!
Can't speak for anyone else but I didn't expect guaranteed shag when I signed up and still don't. Just refuse to chase up ANYONE! For some of us single guys, a shag is actually already guaranteed away from Fab.....just here for new experiences in which vanilla shag is not included!! |
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"Yes realise what swinging is . Yes I like a conversation as much as anybody as I have been talking to her for weeks and she is telling me she is wet and wanting fucked . To me sounds like she wants to have sex . Would u not say so ???? xxxxx"
Yes, it does sound like that. It could also be someone taking the mickey and getting a great ego boost to know she is turning you on.
That is what I am saying, she has the upper hand because of the ratio of m/f on here. She has been fishing, and has you on the hook. You can either hang on and ride the waves just in case she reels you in and actually meets ( which even then she may decide not to have sex with you).....or you can cut the line now and move on.
All I am saying is, if you end the chase then you have no chance of a meet with her. If you continue to 'chat' then there is still a chance that she will meet. Only you know how much time you want to put into it. But dont see it as wasted time, think of it as playing the game.
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"Yes realise what swinging is . Yes I like a conversation as much as anybody as I have been talking to her for weeks and she is telling me she is wet and wanting fucked . To me sounds like she wants to have sex . Would u not say so ???? xxxxx"
"Sounds like she wants to have sex" ..but her actions arent saying that ...  |
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx
its FAB swingers, not FAB guarantee a shag.
Do you realise what swinging is??
Typical generalisation against single men!!!
Can't speak for anyone else but I didn't expect guaranteed shag when I signed up and still don't. Just refuse to chase up ANYONE! For some of us single guys, a shag is actually already guaranteed away from Fab.....just here for new experiences in which vanilla shag is not included!!"
Please explain which bit is a 'typical generalisation of single men on here'????
Is it the bit about being here for 1 thing????
The bit that was written by the single man????
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So ur telling me the messages and the post put up by some women that there not here for sex and it's all the men that are here for 1 thing . I can pull up a number of pics of pussy and they must not be looking for sex either . Just us men . X |
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"So ur telling me the messages and the post put up by some women that there not here for sex and it's all the men that are here for 1 thing . I can pull up a number of pics of pussy and they must not be looking for sex either . Just us men . X"
It was YOU who said ' here for 1 thing' not me.
Im not sure what point you are arguing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think what people are trying to tell you is that there are some fakes on here ie men pretending to be single women. If that is the case here then report to admin. |
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx"
Read your post......^^^
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx
its FAB swingers, not FAB guarantee a shag.
Do you realise what swinging is??
Typical generalisation against single men!!!
Can't speak for anyone else but I didn't expect guaranteed shag when I signed up and still don't. Just refuse to chase up ANYONE! For some of us single guys, a shag is actually already guaranteed away from Fab.....just here for new experiences in which vanilla shag is not included!!
Please explain which bit is a 'typical generalisation of single men on here'????
Is it the bit about being here for 1 thing????
The bit that was written by the single man????
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In my definition HERE ON FAB "1 thing" stands for "a sexual experience" which can be in the form of any one / more of those things we have on our profiles called Interests??? which are not limited to "a shag" as interpreted by you ! |
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I've always got a sense from messaging if things are worth pesuing or not. i never "chase" women, but some peoples circumstances dictate it taking time to arrange a meet, i have met after a few days and on other occasions it has taken several months for something to happen. but it always has been down to the communication level. back and forth flirting with no intention is a pointless excercise. |
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"We are all here for 1 thing I would say ,it's not find ur life partner . Com its FAB a sex site . Don't mind a bit of a chase but there has to be a line . I'm sure the women on here have loads of choice so if they dont want to meet why all the bollocks xxxxxx
its FAB swingers, not FAB guarantee a shag.
Do you realise what swinging is??
Typical generalisation against single men!!!
Can't speak for anyone else but I didn't expect guaranteed shag when I signed up and still don't. Just refuse to chase up ANYONE! For some of us single guys, a shag is actually already guaranteed away from Fab.....just here for new experiences in which vanilla shag is not included!!
Please explain which bit is a 'typical generalisation of single men on here'????
Is it the bit about being here for 1 thing????
The bit that was written by the single man????
In my definition HERE ON FAB "1 thing" stands for "a sexual experience" which can be in the form of any one / more of those things we have on our profiles called Interests??? which are not limited to "a shag" as interpreted by you !"
ok, so you are here for 'sexual experiences', great, but the 'bollocks' as you call it, is part of the chase with some women. Im not saying its right, what Im trying to explain is that some females enjoy the chase as much as the actual act of meeting and playing.
Yes you can get vanilla sex away from the site, but just having a profile and being online will not get you far.
Im not here for an argument, just a discussion.
I wish you luck in your search. ! |
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I'm not here for a argument either and didn't mean to be dick . I don't want a quick fuck wAnt to get to know somebody first . But sick of hearing it's all men that just want sex . Soz again xxx |
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