I've seen someone I know on here under a different name (which is fine, not the issue) I used to "mess about" with them 10 odd years ago(outside the swinging scene) but lost contact due to 1 thing or another.
Question is do I say Hi I'm so and so and I know you aren't XXXX or not? I'd love to meet the person in connection again as they gave me some of the greatest pleasure I have ever had!
Don't want to turn up for a meet and go SURPRISE either.....LoL
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over a year ago
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Defo tell them you know them. For starters your both on here for the same kind of thing so nothing to be worried about. They night be pleased to find someone they know is genuine, x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no need to challenge them on the name. People assume all sorts of names on here. I would attach a clear facepic to your first message and say hi. If there is no response then don't contact them again. |
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"why would it be a surprise when you meet, surely you would exchange pics before then and then the penny will drop?"
They aren't asking for pictures. Weirdly not everyone has that requirement and I don't mind either way.
Though again the question is after some chatting (which we already have done) sending my pic would be a surprise moment...... LoL same question applies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mail her on here and be honest...if she doesn't reply to you then you know there must have been a reason you lost contact 10years ago...
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck |
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"why would it be a surprise when you meet, surely you would exchange pics before then and then the penny will drop?
They aren't asking for pictures. Weirdly not everyone has that requirement and I don't mind either way.
Though again the question is after some chatting (which we already have done) sending my pic would be a surprise moment...... LoL same question applies"
i guess the answer depends on why you lost contact really |
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over a year ago
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I have just had my neighbours son who recently got married look at me, i was shocked to be fair, but he then blocked me and thats cool. He obviously isnt going to mention to anyone that i am on here and i'll give him the same discression.  |
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"why would it be a surprise when you meet, surely you would exchange pics before then and then the penny will drop?
They aren't asking for pictures. Weirdly not everyone has that requirement and I don't mind either way.
lost her number, had several numbers myself. I moved away before fb existed. we was 15-18when we was messing around nothing serious to have the long term intent to stay in touch
Though again the question is after some chatting (which we already have done) sending my pic would be a surprise moment...... LoL same question applies
i guess the answer depends on why you lost contact really"
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"why would it be a surprise when you meet, surely you would exchange pics before then and then the penny will drop?
They aren't asking for pictures. Weirdly not everyone has that requirement and I don't mind either way.
lost her number, had several numbers myself. I moved away before fb existed. we was 15-18when we was messing around nothing serious to have the long term intent to stay in touch
Though again the question is after some chatting (which we already have done) sending my pic would be a surprise moment...... LoL same question applies
i guess the answer depends on why you lost contact really"
in tht case i would mention who you were and see if she was interested in picking things up.
I wouldnt chalenge and say 'aret you XXXX' but i might just say 'I think i know you from ages ago, i'm XXX'
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"I have just had my neighbours son who recently got married look at me, i was shocked to be fair, but he then blocked me and thats cool. He obviously isnt going to mention to anyone that i am on here and i'll give him the same discression. "
question is though.... would you? :D |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honesty is the best policy and you're both here for the same reasons....just say how lovely to bump into you again after all this time..etc...
Good luck with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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WELL ITS ABIT TRICKY I MET SOME ONE IN A CLUB WHO I NEW KIND OF FROM YEARS AGO.... THEY NEW STUFF ABOUT ME VISA VERSA..
CHATTED IN A CLUB IT WAS FINE....
NEXT THING I WAS BLOCKED SO ID PASS IT BY AND I GUESS I WONT BE GOIN BACK TO THE CLUB  |
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