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One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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I would say that this is a cuckold couples dream ! |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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Always a turn on but sometimes a little ruder depending on the situation |
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We love this when have done it. Something about it being the initial moment wife kisses another man and in full sight of people. Even liked the barman for example having a small idea of what’s going on |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
I would say that this is a cuckold couples dream !"
I think its such a horny scenario… |
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"We love this when have done it. Something about it being the initial moment wife kisses another man and in full sight of people. Even liked the barman for example having a small idea of what’s going on "
Wow - have never done this actually, got close…hand on her knees, caressing her thigh, peck on the cheek…walk out hand in hand…its such a mental turn on |
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Most couples in regular bars are not going to be so appreciative lol. As much as we love the idea that people are into stuff we are, most vanilla boyfriend/husbands are going to be somewhat annoyed if someone is being overly flirty. Most people aren’t swingers for a reason. |
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This happened to me a few years ago on my first meet with a couple . We met at a hotel bar , they walked in and i had drinks ready for them . They came to my table and he sat opposite and she sat next to me and gave me a kiss , i looked at the bar staff as i was a bit nervous and they knew exactly what was going on and it really turned me on . For the next hour we chatted and drank and she kept rubbing my cock in full view of everyone . Then she said its time you took me to the room , she took my hand and we walked out holding hands while he had to go to the bar to pay for the last drinks . When he came up to the room she was already sucking my cock , apparently the bar man said he was a lucky guy and hoped he enjoyed his night lol (he sure did) |
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By *rufflesCouple
over a year ago
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"This happened to me a few years ago on my first meet with a couple . We met at a hotel bar , they walked in and i had drinks ready for them . They came to my table and he sat opposite and she sat next to me and gave me a kiss , i looked at the bar staff as i was a bit nervous and they knew exactly what was going on and it really turned me on . For the next hour we chatted and drank and she kept rubbing my cock in full view of everyone . Then she said its time you took me to the room , she took my hand and we walked out holding hands while he had to go to the bar to pay for the last drinks . When he came up to the room she was already sucking my cock , apparently the bar man said he was a lucky guy and hoped he enjoyed his night lol (he sure did) "
That scenario is quite regular for us, and it never loses its electric excitement!  |
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"This happened to me a few years ago on my first meet with a couple . We met at a hotel bar , they walked in and i had drinks ready for them . They came to my table and he sat opposite and she sat next to me and gave me a kiss , i looked at the bar staff as i was a bit nervous and they knew exactly what was going on and it really turned me on . For the next hour we chatted and drank and she kept rubbing my cock in full view of everyone . Then she said its time you took me to the room , she took my hand and we walked out holding hands while he had to go to the bar to pay for the last drinks . When he came up to the room she was already sucking my cock , apparently the bar man said he was a lucky guy and hoped he enjoyed his night lol (he sure did)
That scenario is quite regular for us, and it never loses its electric excitement! "
Totally agree..its never gets old! |
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We’ve done this 3 times. First we went out drinking with him, let him dance with her, she touched him in the taxi to the hotel. Second meet, we met in the day time for a mid day session… met in a bar and did the whole flirting as a threesome in public, touching, laughing, getting close. Third time we went for a full blow meal, a night out and acted as a threesome. Dancing together all sexy, holding hands whilst walking, hands on bums and what not for others to see.
Was amazing to do it! And to look back on lol
Crazy! |
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"We’ve done this 3 times. First we went out drinking with him, let him dance with her, she touched him in the taxi to the hotel. Second meet, we met in the day time for a mid day session… met in a bar and did the whole flirting as a threesome in public, touching, laughing, getting close. Third time we went for a full blow meal, a night out and acted as a threesome. Dancing together all sexy, holding hands whilst walking, hands on bums and what not for others to see.
Was amazing to do it! And to look back on lol
Crazy!"
Wow - that’s fantastic. Have done the meal thing several times and the dancing once. Hubby and I taking turns to dance with wife with both of us getting handsy with her was such a turn on. |
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By *yeSureMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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Yes, I’d love the wife flirted with and chatted up in front of me, whilst we are out. |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
I would say that this is a cuckold couples dream !"
Sounds great fun… I just need a reg cpl  |
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"We love this, we do it all the time x"
Great to hear ..its so wonderfully erotic - you reminded me the one time I met couple (wh are good friends) - we were at a bar pre meet. And husband was touching up the thigh /leg of the lady. when he finished, I touched up her other leg. Despite trying to be discreet, this very prim proper middle aged lady saw us and was so shocked - the look her face !! |
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"I did this once met a couple she was gorgeous flirted in the bar we walked out me holding one hand hubby holding the other enough said  "
That’s so erotic…have done this number of times with my couple friends when they come to London - no one in London cares - the benefits of being in the big smoke |
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over a year ago
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I love going out with the mr and flirty with guys in front of him, he finds it a huge turn on and the guy in question is so bewildered by my blatent forwardness. It's hot. |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
GATLEY |
"I love going out with the mr and flirty with guys in front of him, he finds it a huge turn on and the guy in question is so bewildered by my blatent forwardness. It's hot. "
You are quite special I'd love it xxx |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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I, Mr love seeing this, in fact sometimes it can be more of a turn on seeing this than seeing Laura and her Bull fucking. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
The only thing, I'd change. Would be the hot wife at some stage, would visit the loo. Leaving the husband and I to chat.
On her return. She would hopefully drop her knickers on the table in front of me. All the while not taking her eyes off her husband.
Once I pick her knickers up and discreetly place them in a zip locked bag. She takes her place between us. |
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I met a couple in a hotel restaurant where we flirted and she stroked both of us under the table, after the meal we retired to the hotel bar she was showing off her stocking tops and occasionally light kissing both myself and her husband, making it obvious to the few others and the barman that she was having 2 cocks that night. She then led us both by the hands to her room.
After an amazing three way fuck she said she had never felt as turned on or as slutty as she had in the restaurant and bar with everyone knowing what a slut she was going to be.
what a woman she was. |
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"This happened to me a few years ago on my first meet with a couple . We met at a hotel bar , they walked in and i had drinks ready for them . They came to my table and he sat opposite and she sat next to me and gave me a kiss , i looked at the bar staff as i was a bit nervous and they knew exactly what was going on and it really turned me on . For the next hour we chatted and drank and she kept rubbing my cock in full view of everyone . Then she said its time you took me to the room , she took my hand and we walked out holding hands while he had to go to the bar to pay for the last drinks . When he came up to the room she was already sucking my cock , apparently the bar man said he was a lucky guy and hoped he enjoyed his night lol (he sure did)
That scenario is quite regular for us, and it never loses its electric excitement! "
The same for us, ultimate cuckolding when others know you are the hubby being cuckolded ! |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
I, Mr love seeing this, in fact sometimes it can be more of a turn on seeing this than seeing Laura and her Bull fucking. "
Interesting point - shows most of sex is what is going on in someone’s head … |
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"I met a couple in a hotel restaurant where we flirted and she stroked both of us under the table, after the meal we retired to the hotel bar she was showing off her stocking tops and occasionally light kissing both myself and her husband, making it obvious to the few others and the barman that she was having 2 cocks that night. She then led us both by the hands to her room.
After an amazing three way fuck she said she had never felt as turned on or as slutty as she had in the restaurant and bar with everyone knowing what a slut she was going to be.
what a woman she was."
That is lovely scenario and one I have done myself! |
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By *auradCouple
over a year ago
glasgow |
"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
I, Mr love seeing this, in fact sometimes it can be more of a turn on seeing this than seeing Laura and her Bull fucking.
Interesting point - shows most of sex is what is going on in someone’s head …"
Absolutely, cuckolding is very much a mental activity and for us, flirting and seeing Laura comfortable in the company of a bull, especially in public is an integral part.
Although as mentioned earlier you do need to respect other people’s rights and not be anymore overtly sexual than a normal romantic couple in public situations. |
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We have found singles nights the best for this..last time the wife sucked a guy off in the toilets then we got a lift home with another guy who fucked her whilst I spyed on them extremely hot watching all the build up too that moment ...hopefully more fun too be had in the future |
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We’ve done exactly this with a single guy we had met before. We had dinner in a cool Italian restaurant. He sat next to Mrs Oxoncples and I sat opposite. She wore a slinky dress and was actually naked underneath. During the evening he fondled her leg under the table and realised she wasn’t wearing knickers! We then went to a nearby bar - crowded with people and we had a drink together. They kissed in front of me and he even managed to discreetly finger her from behind! Suffice to say we were ready to head to his apartment where a few hours of hot MFM sex took place. What an evening. But the flirty build up was great! |
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Mrs L takes great pleasure in similar things. If we meet a single guy in a bar and we get along she will make a big show of kissing me. That’s my cue to visit the bathroom and while I’m away she will make a big show of kissing the guy. She loves to get everyone guessing what’s going on.
Very hot all round as an ice breaker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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Huge turn on for us, me, wife, goes crazy and it makes me so quietly horny, you'd never know though!! X |
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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago
Back in Malice |
We’ve got a second meet with a man tomorrow night, when we are expecting the atmosphere to be more sexual. Very aroused at the thought of seeing my Wife dressing to impress another man and openly flirting with him. |
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We enjoy this if kez is flirting with or chatting up another lady. Love seeing her feeling a bit nervous but also very naughty. Not strictly what the original post is about but similar. We might even be out this weekend so kez can chat up a sexy lady. |
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By *elboy1957Man
over a year ago
Weston-super-Mare |
"We’ve got a second meet with a man tomorrow night, when we are expecting the atmosphere to be more sexual. Very aroused at the thought of seeing my Wife dressing to impress another man and openly flirting with him."
please let us know how you got on
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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago
Back in Malice |
"We’ve got a second meet with a man tomorrow night, when we are expecting the atmosphere to be more sexual. Very aroused at the thought of seeing my Wife dressing to impress another man and openly flirting with him. please let us know how you got on"
Will do. |
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"We’ve done exactly this with a single guy we had met before. We had dinner in a cool Italian restaurant. He sat next to Mrs Oxoncples and I sat opposite. She wore a slinky dress and was actually naked underneath. During the evening he fondled her leg under the table and realised she wasn’t wearing knickers! We then went to a nearby bar - crowded with people and we had a drink together. They kissed in front of me and he even managed to discreetly finger her from behind! Suffice to say we were ready to head to his apartment where a few hours of hot MFM sex took place. What an evening. But the flirty build up was great!"
Sounds perfect! |
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"Mrs L takes great pleasure in similar things. If we meet a single guy in a bar and we get along she will make a big show of kissing me. That’s my cue to visit the bathroom and while I’m away she will make a big show of kissing the guy. She loves to get everyone guessing what’s going on.
Very hot all round as an ice breaker. "
Wow - kissing the other guy in public is hot |
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"We love this when have done it. Something about it being the initial moment wife kisses another man and in full sight of people. Even liked the barman for example having a small idea of what’s going on "
And that glorious moment when someone says ‘shall we take these drinks upstairs?  |
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over a year ago
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We have a secret hand squeeze for these situations. If I think a situation is going somewhere, because it's nearly always my choice lol, I will squeeze J's hand twice if he responds the same way it's game on. |
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"We have a secret hand squeeze for these situations. If I think a situation is going somewhere, because it's nearly always my choice lol, I will squeeze J's hand twice if he responds the same way it's game on."
Now THIS is a very practical idea |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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Look here just reading that text got me fecking horny and I have done it
She loved it 2 men .Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they start laugh at me, rather than with me then I give up.  "
Matey so women don't have a CLUE
Take from its not your fault
Don't gave up
I been knocked back
Good luck |
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Yes loooove this. Hubby always sits opposite when we meet a new guy; to the other customers it would appear that the other man is my partner. Hubby likes to leave us be for a time and perhaps watch from afar. I find then that the guys become more relaxed and flirty, touchy and kissing often begins; discreetly as possible. If it’s just a social then hubby will leave first and let me stay to say farewell to the guy outside the bar. I love the freedom and hubby loves me being naughty. X Hubby can tell very early on if I have the hots for the guy. X |
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"When we go on a social meet if the guy doesn’t flirt with wifey then he’s a no go further for us !
Yep! This is one of the main reasons we don't have a second meet. "
Depends on how easy you feel and getting the nod from the mr I find |
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"We’ve done this 3 times. First we went out drinking with him, let him dance with her, she touched him in the taxi to the hotel. Second meet, we met in the day time for a mid day session… met in a bar and did the whole flirting as a threesome in public, touching, laughing, getting close. Third time we went for a full blow meal, a night out and acted as a threesome. Dancing together all sexy, holding hands whilst walking, hands on bums and what not for others to see.
Was amazing to do it! And to look back on lol
Crazy!"
This sound like the most amazing situation |
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"One of the things i love do do when I met regular couples is to flirt (discreetly) with the lady in front of her husband
All three of us find it a huge turn on - there is something so erotic about meeting a regular couple in corner of bar/pub - she sits next to me and i put my hand round her waist, hand on her knee, she has her hand on my lap (under the table) . Any observers wouldn’t have a clue - they would probably think I am her partner
Who else gets turned on by this? Or is it just me
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We love the idea of finding a couple that we can both do this with. Maybe even swap partners through the evening and see if anyone in the bar/restaurant notices |
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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago
Reading/bracknell |
Only tried once, years back, partly accidentally as they didn't seem really close and he was busy with mates.. she was flirty outright when i walked by so I played. Then I ended up in a short fight with a semi d*unk irate dude 10mns later.. and had to walk out of the club. Never since!
So, if there are clues couples exhibit to entice a random approach, please educate me..
The idea is exciting.
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By *ie n MashCouple
over a year ago
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As promised, an update on our meet last night.
Pie went out in a low-cut top that left little to the imagination; even I couldn’t take my eyes off her boobs the whole night.
We met our date (A) in the pub car park and entered together. We found a table in the corner, with Pie sat next to A. After some small talk we started talking about what each of us was looking for from the scene/each other. It was very arousing to hear my Wife confess to another man how much she enjoys sucking cocks and making it quite clear to A that his will be sucked in the near future.
We discussed our planned trip to a club as a threesome, including the scenario of me driving home, listening to the two of them together in the back seat. Going to need some wet wipes for that.
There was not as much touching between Pie and A as we expected, mainly due to A being a gentleman. We received a lovely message from him this morning with apologies to Pie for wanting to touch her so much. Pie has let him know that this is not a problem going forwards.
Overall, a great evening, just not quite as sexually charged as we might have hoped. However, A is now under no doubt that he is very soon going to be playing with those tits he could hardly keep his eyes off all night. |
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"As promised, an update on our meet last night.
Pie went out in a low-cut top that left little to the imagination; even I couldn’t take my eyes off her boobs the whole night.
We met our date (A) in the pub car park and entered together. We found a table in the corner, with Pie sat next to A. After some small talk we started talking about what each of us was looking for from the scene/each other. It was very arousing to hear my Wife confess to another man how much she enjoys sucking cocks and making it quite clear to A that his will be sucked in the near future.
We discussed our planned trip to a club as a threesome, including the scenario of me driving home, listening to the two of them together in the back seat. Going to need some wet wipes for that.
There was not as much touching between Pie and A as we expected, mainly due to A being a gentleman. We received a lovely message from him this morning with apologies to Pie for wanting to touch her so much. Pie has let him know that this is not a problem going forwards.
Overall, a great evening, just not quite as sexually charged as we might have hoped. However, A is now under no doubt that he is very soon going to be playing with those tits he could hardly keep his eyes off all night."
How did he keep his hands off her?! Gentleman or not, she deserves sexual charging! |
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In a swingers bar then great. Not so sure about it in a vanilla setting - don't want to shock the natives.
But we did once sit down in a cinema behind a young couple who were having a passionate snog. She then turned to the guy on her other side, and did the same with him! |
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"In a swingers bar then great. Not so sure about it in a vanilla setting - don't want to shock the natives.
But we did once sit down in a cinema behind a young couple who were having a passionate snog. She then turned to the guy on her other side, and did the same with him!"
Wow! |
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