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By *eturn of curiouscple OP   Couple  over a year ago

Guildford

When participating in a forum discussion & profile pic catches your eye, so you open thier page then return to the convo thread, but you really want to pass on a compliment to them about the profile photo.

Not meant in a "let's hook up ?" way, more in a '" BTW great photo" way.

Would this come across as creepy or annoying or simply a token of appreciation.

Please let me know because I'm wanting to do it in the acceptable way soon

X

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By *alcon43Woman  over a year ago

Paisley

I’ve done it lots of times. It’s always nice to receive and give a compliment.

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By *BWLOVER1965Man  over a year ago

My Own Little World

No not creepy it’s compliment to them go for it

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By *exysoul888TV/TS  over a year ago

Newcastle

Go on then, I give you permission to compliment me ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If a compliment was due then I'd give one but normally just a fab of their photo is enough, they know you've looked and if they want to check you put then they can

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I often do it - but I would say don't expect a reply and everyone reacts differently

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's nice to be appreciated, but not so nice when your, 'Shucks, thanks, I try my best,' is replied to by 'So when can we fuck?'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

In the normal world people would be most appreciative of a well meant compliment I’m sure!

However on here it’s deemed acceptable to read the compliment, take a look at the senders profile and instead of politely thanking them if you don’t like the look of them BLOCK them ‘in case’ they have the audacity to message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve done it a few times and it’s generally well received. Has even led to further conversations etc.

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By *DW1983Man  over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield


"When participating in a forum discussion & profile pic catches your eye, so you open thier page then return to the convo thread, but you really want to pass on a compliment to them about the profile photo.

Not meant in a "let's hook up ?" way, more in a '" BTW great photo" way.

Would this come across as creepy or annoying or simply a token of appreciation.

Please let me know because I'm wanting to do it in the acceptable way soon

X"

Person A: "Aww, thanks for taking the time to say so, I appreciate it."

Person B: "Just because I said something in the forum, doesn't mean I want creepy messages from every guy on here."

For every Person A, there'll be a Person B.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I occasionally compliment people, usually women.

If you're not sure just fab the picture

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

Bearing on mind that in Fab some people get extraordinary volumes of messages, what would you expect the impact to be upon them? and their likely reaction to your action?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do this all the time so I hope it's not creepy lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fab x

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By *lackstar00Man  over a year ago

London

Ive done it many of time, its always be more compliment, less creepy and has always been well received.

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By *rpeggioCouple  over a year ago

Baughurst

I guess giving a compliment or messaging is unrelated to the Forum. The compliment receiving profile does not know whether you saw the profile in a Forum or not, so it is likely to be treated as any other message in the inbox.

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