We feel more than ready to take our adventures to the next level and involve others. C would prefer another woman for our first encounter but...
After advertising ourselves and reaching out to local single gals, not had any luck!
Any hints or tips on finding that illustrious unicorn? J x |
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As the comment above has said, update your profile, What you can offer a single Female and what you're looking for in a Female, If you can't find anyone local, Expand your search and arrange a club meet |
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Obviously we don't know how you've approached single ladies. This is more general than specific to yourselves (although if it helps you to great). Mainly from a club environment POV single women can feel a bit like pray. Maybe that's too strong a term because obviously to want find someone and approaching people we fancy is part of the game. But I think some will know the vibe/experience I mean? Sometimes couples can come across a bit full on and focused on the potential end outcome rather than just taking it easy, enjoying the company and letting things flow/build naturally. Ironically sometimes a couples dedication to the end outcome is a defeating factor. I think things are much more enticing when things feel non-pressurised and naturally flowing. I suppose to some extent the same is online in how some approach.
Generally the single women we've got physical with in clubs have been women we did not set out play with. Just who we've bumped into and got chatting to with no intent. It's just flowed that way as we've got to like each other and chemistry has built. Which I suppose is natural because we're not specifically looking for single women at all. Just couples and singles (of any sex or gender) where the chemistry works.
I think a lot of single women can vibe when a couple is too focused on achieving that FF or FMF goal or when a couple is just chilled and taking things in their stride. I think a lot of single women are sensitive to feeling like someones goal or experiment. |
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Personally, I avoid couples who use the term 'unicorn'. Just always feels like the meet will be solely centered around their fantasy, needs and won't take any notice of mine. Some single girls love the term I know, but just personally that isn't what I'm here for. |
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Dislike the term unicorn, i feeling its disrespectful. I'm a bisexual single female/lady.
Would rather start chatting to another single female profile with reference saying they have a couples profile.
Happy to meet couple for a social before ff play.
Ff play doesn't happen at a club often for me,it has and its been spontaneous fun.
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Thanks everyone. Taking on board all comments  we've been to clubs on several occasions and not played as we're happy with just going with the flow the eve , so we'll continue like that I guess.
Apologies for the 'unicorn', didn't realise some don't like it! Just a turn of phrase as single women / bi women are fewer in number in this community  |
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I often play with couples at clubs or parties but tend to avoid 1-1 meets with couples I don’t know as the times I have done them it’s seemed more about their pleasure with little consideration to my satisfaction. In a club it flows more naturally and if my needs are not being met I can find a guy to play with or join in. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
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"Profile updated. Let us know you opinions please lady's  "
It would tell a single woman hardly anything they want to know about what you hope to offer them. You are asking them to tell you why they would want to meet you.
You are also asking them to get in touch if they think they might get on with you, but your profile contains hardly any information about you for them to base their opinion on. |
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