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over a year ago
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What's the difference between a single guy and a genuine single guy on here?
We meet single guys when we're free. We are a hotwife/cuck couple so it's mostly me fucking and hubby watching.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont find "genuine" to be an issue. Rather we struggle to find single guys that match our values.
I like to watch guys flirt with and play with Mrs Llama  |
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"Couples do you find difficult to find a genuine single guys? And what are things you normally like doing when meeting up with single guys?"
Men to join a couple ten a penny. Men to join couples in a bigger group/party etc. yes much more difficult. |
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We have found that to find a guy that has read our profile and match our preferences and then messages intelligently quite difficult.
Ruth does like to meet single guys and I love to watch her in action, joining in as and when. But it is like trawling through mud sometimes. Again we have had more success in clubs. |
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Must agree
Vast majority of guys who contact us havent read our profile or struggle to string 2 sentences together
"We have found that to find a guy that has read our profile and match our preferences and then messages intelligently quite difficult.
Ruth does like to meet single guys and I love to watch her in action, joining in as and when. But it is like trawling through mud sometimes. Again we have had more success in clubs. "
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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you can dislike 99,99% of guys on here as a couple and still find enough single men to be sexually attracted to for fun most days ...
the longer youve been swinging the easier it becomes as you get to ''know'' how to avoid the messers too ..
clubs are good for single men but only if theres a hot guy or 2 in there for you ... not all club nights are good its a 50/50 thing unless you dont care who you shag ...same goes for couplkes n women too with clubs can be very hit n miss and theres no way we play unless theres attraction |
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"We have found that to find a guy that has read our profile and match our preferences and then messages intelligently quite difficult.
Ruth does like to meet single guys and I love to watch her in action, joining in as and when. But it is like trawling through mud sometimes. Again we have had more success in clubs. "
very nice profile we fully concure it is the same as finding the right couple. If everyone isnt onthe same page entivabably it is going yo work well. |
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I've played with a lot of couples and always feel privileged to be allowed into a couple's intimate life. I actually enjoy fitting in with a couple's fantasies and desires. It's opened me up to a lot of new scenarios and experiences I might never have considered before.
And yes, I have heard many couples speak of timewasters and guys who will ghost them right at the last minute before a meet. Properly out of order! |
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"We have found that to find a guy that has read our profile and match our preferences and then messages intelligently quite difficult.
Ruth does like to meet single guys and I love to watch her in action, joining in as and when. But it is like trawling through mud sometimes. Again we have had more success in clubs. "
This neatly sums up our experience as well. |
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"I've played with a lot of couples and always feel privileged to be allowed into a couple's intimate life. I actually enjoy fitting in with a couple's fantasies and desires. It's opened me up to a lot of new scenarios and experiences I might never have considered before.
And yes, I have heard many couples speak of timewasters and guys who will ghost them right at the last minute before a meet. Properly out of order!"
Retweet this. It is a privilege to play with a couple. I love the intimacy and the excitement of watching them turned on with me.
It’s no surprise to hear lots of couples here say they want men to actually read their profiles. I wouldn’t think about messaging without doing that first. |
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I see as a single man getting invited to be with a couple that comfort and relaxation is important. Reading profiles are important. Writing messages that are not all about sex, stamina and what you’ll do on the night is also important. Making your personality shine and knowing that you are going to add to the occasion with just your presence and personality. Laughter releases endorphins. |
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"Couples do you find difficult to find a genuine single guys? And what are things you normally like doing when meeting up with single guys?"
A genuine single guys? 
Strangely, don't seem to struggle here.  |
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Our experience with finding single guys on Fab has been challenging but over time we have got better and spotting those guys who are a good match. In clubs it's usually easier but that can present other, different problems.
Interestingly though we feel that it's much less complicated finding guys than finding other couples where there are 4 people and everyone has to like everyone else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We dont find "genuine" to be an issue. Rather we struggle to find single guys that match our values."
This we fully agree with, finding genuine guys can be so easy, finding guys that are genuinely like minded can be a little tougher, though still we've had no problems. |
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"Finding the right couple is very tricky also. Most experiences have been great fun with good people but have had other mixed experiences shall we say that have made me cautious "
I know what that's like. At least two couple experinces I have had (and will remain unverified!) were very off putting, but the majority have been great fun. |
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"We have found that to find a guy that has read our profile and match our preferences and then messages intelligently quite difficult.
Ruth does like to meet single guys and I love to watch her in action, joining in as and when. But it is like trawling through mud sometimes. Again we have had more success in clubs. very nice profile we fully concure it is the same as finding the right couple. If everyone isnt onthe same page entivabably it is going yo work well."
Thank you x |
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"Local couples are rare breed too.  "
Loads of couples in and around Cambridge. There was a bar social six months ago that was well attended by couples. I think there will be another one next year, perhaps Spring. |
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I can imagine it must be difficult for couples to fnd the right single guys. There will be plenty of guys that will be genuine, just not the couples cup of tea. Personally I dont go to clubs now as a single guy unless I have arranged to meet someone there. Local socials are good though you get to meet new people without any pressure to play, just chat and see if any connection. Happy fabbing everyone |
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In all honesty the right single guys for us seems to be our unicorn. That's not to say there's not many decent single guys out there. There are, as well as a few not so great guys. We've met many perfectly fine gentlemen but who just haven't sparked that sexual intrest. There's just very few where the chemistry is there, where the interaction just feels natural and also in the right place at the right time for us.
However it's also the case that some guys get it with how to be with couples and other guys don't. Generally the guys we've liked (meeting at clubs/parties) are the guys other couples like. And sometimes even if these guys aren't for us personally we can tell they're the sort of guy that will be very popular. And contrary to popular belief these guys that do well are rarely finely crafted beautiful 6"2' with a massive cock. They tend to be just average blokes with great attitude, personality and able to read a room. Not saying good looks don't help (which of course is subjective anyway), just personality and knowing the ropes helps far more. |
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We've had two meets so far and both times the (verified) single guys we'd spoken with before, and arranged to meet with, have stood us up. Thankfully both times we were able to find another guy to meet at short notice but it is hugely frustrating. If you don't have any intention of showing up, be polite and don't lead someone on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've had two meets so far and both times the (verified) single guys we'd spoken with before, and arranged to meet with, have stood us up. Thankfully both times we were able to find another guy to meet at short notice but it is hugely frustrating. If you don't have any intention of showing up, be polite and don't lead someone on. "
I think this is the thing. I enjoy getting to know and chatting to a couple, but, my experience is that actual meets tend to happen quite quickly and spur of the moment when you are all horny and excited.
I’ll defend single guys a bit here - it’s pretty daunting going to meet a couple for the first time. Horny confidence is needed! But, that being said, I despise guys who give us single blokes a bad name by standing people up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find it seriously hard trying to find a couple who would be interested in me, I would be interested in just watching them and then if the invite me to join in that would be fantastic |
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"We've had two meets so far and both times the (verified) single guys we'd spoken with before, and arranged to meet with, have stood us up. Thankfully both times we were able to find another guy to meet at short notice but it is hugely frustrating. If you don't have any intention of showing up, be polite and don't lead someone on. "
This for us is a big reason we're mainly club/party swingers for meeting new people. Especially because our life makes free time difficult too. When we go to a club we simply pick a date when we are free without having to match it to someone else's. Likewise if life throws a clanger (as it can for us all) we don't have to let anyone down.
Also we can never really tell if guys will be for us until we meet in person. We have a busy life and it's a shame to dedicate a whole night out to something that may fail to launch and/or it just get awkward. At a club/party you meet people face to face and fairly quickly get the vibe if you fancy them or not. If you do great. If not your just continue to meet other people and likewise they are free to do the same. Hopefully meaning everyone gets what they want from the night. Obviously people you meet at clubs/parties you like you can always arrange a private thing down the line outside of the club knowing first the chemistry is there. All our good swinger freinds we've made over the years we've met in Clubs or at a party. |
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"In all honesty the right single guys for us seems to be our unicorn. That's not to say there's not many decent single guys out there. There are, as well as a few not so great guys. We've met many perfectly fine gentlemen but who just haven't sparked that sexual intrest. There's just very few where the chemistry is there, where the interaction just feels natural and also in the right place at the right time for us.
However it's also the case that some guys get it with how to be with couples and other guys don't. Generally the guys we've liked (meeting at clubs/parties) are the guys other couples like. And sometimes even if these guys aren't for us personally we can tell they're the sort of guy that will be very popular. And contrary to popular belief these guys that do well are rarely finely crafted beautiful 6"2' with a massive cock. They tend to be just average blokes with great attitude, personality and able to read a room. Not saying good looks don't help (which of course is subjective anyway), just personality and knowing the ropes helps far more."
What you say in this second paragraph is so true |
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I have no idea why people don't read profiles? Especially single men wishing to meet with couples..
Either saves wasting time on both sides, or acts as a great conversation starter if needs and interests are well matched..
Win win either way! |
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