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Honestly, I used to struggle to cum from a BJ. Loved a BJ, just never came from one.
Then, I think I got older, cared less about "performance", relaxed, grabbed her hair (but didn't force her in it) and voila, "cockus explodius"
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I've never had a problem climaxing from oral  I don't know if that speaks more to the abilities of those giving or the fact that I love it  Also managed to bring A to orgasm many times just by going down 
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"I've never had a problem climaxing from oral I don't know if that speaks more to the abilities of those giving or the fact that I love it Also managed to bring A to orgasm many times just by going down
C x"
It definitely comes down to the person giving it some people can't suck to save their lives |
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By *atchmoMan
over a year ago
Upminster |
I never could cum from oral when younger, then a girlfriend realised this and really experimented on my until one day she managed it. I was just a little upset when she emigrated to Australia as she was the best sex I ever had.
Since then orgasm thru oral has been more or less 100%, but there are a very small number of ladies who just seem unable to give good head (I never thought I'd say that). |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
I'm tempted to agree that 'some women just can't give good head', and I've met women who could make me cum in a couple of minutes, others who could make me last ages before I came, and others who just couldn't, but actually, I think one thing that's important to add is: talk! If what she's doing isn't working, tell her, suggest she try something else, a different style/position/technique. Don't be afraid to discuss what works and what doesn't for both of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always struggle to cum feom them too, not actully a huge fan of them because of this. Usually tell them to stop and ride me instead, that always makes me cum rather than a blowjob |
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We have sucked many many cocks and very few don't cum, but the ones that don't, I'd generally say I get the impression they never would.
Only 2 women have ever made me cum from oral, I find oral has to been repetitive I order to cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s a different build up for sure,I am very sensitive anyway so done right my clit will react and I’ll cum easy
Secondly I don’t struggle sucking cocks to make them cum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a different build up for sure,I am very sensitive anyway so done right my clit will react and I’ll cum easy
Secondly I don’t struggle sucking cocks to make them cum "
Watching your video nows about to make me cum |
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I've only done it once and very recently, I'm not a instant repeater so I've always stopped it if I think I'm going to cum, Finishing with a quick Bj after sex isn't the same in my opinion, Going forward I'm going to be requesting more Bj's especially if full on sex isn't going to happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a different build up for sure,I am very sensitive anyway so done right my clit will react and I’ll cum easy
Secondly I don’t struggle sucking cocks to make them cum
Watching your video nows about to make me cum "
enjoy x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only 55 % of men can cum from oral apparently. Saying that if I sucked your willy you would definitely cum  "
55%? Wow, I’m very surprised- I thought I was just weird |
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When I was younger, nerves made it difficult, but as I got more comfortable and confident, and met some women with great oral skills, I was able to relax enough for it to happen. A lot depends on how comfortable you are with your partner, it's not just about their skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some times well half the time I get impatient an begging trusting will pulling hair an then possibly the urge takes me an I will F&)k her in the throat
That’s just me tho xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find it really difficult to cum from oral. It’s usually the women that don’t try to hard that I enjoy the most. Women who have watched too much porn movies are usually the worst. Or the dreaded tooth scraper. I was told when I was younger that you should never complain about having your cock sucked, because that will be the last one they will give you. I was seeing a woman from fab who described herself as an expert oral giver.
She never made me cum though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My new FWB is one of the best orally I have ever had and it’s been a complete game changer for me. I look at her mouth and fantasise about her in a totally new way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hubby does not cum from oral, it’s a mental block with him, we have considered therapy for him as it really does frustrate him."
I’ve just watched you suck cock and yea, I’d say it’s a him problem for sure! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think therapy is a bit much always others ways of getting the job done.
But I suppose if it’s making him that unhappy."
What other ways??
Wanking, fucking??
Your right, but we both want him to cum in my mouth, like he used to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only 55 % of men can cum from oral apparently. Saying that if I sucked your willy you would definitely cum
Love the confidece here. I think you're probably right as well ."
My experience is the more they think they can, the less they actually can! Ha ha |
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By *h22ukMan
over a year ago
Cambridge |
I used to struggle cumming from a Bj with an ex. Then after we broke up and I experimented, JESUS CHRIST!
I think as you get older you know what works for you. For me its slow, deep and wet. |
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My first wife made it perfectly clear that she didn't like the taste of cum & that if I ever did cum in her mouth it would be the last bj I got so I got used to the idea of not cumming from oral. When we split up my new partner tried to get me to cum that way but I couldn't do it. That was a few years ago but perseverance pays off & now I don't have any problem at all. |
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"Does any one else struggle to or never has cum through oral?"
Fuck knows why but I am struggling to cum at all at the moment. That is not a humblebrag btw, it is not a problem I have ever had and it is actually becoming disconcerting |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
I rarely do.. But I love good oral. It's not a problem that I don't orgasm often from it.
I get so turned on giving oral and I don't think I've ever experienced giving a bj with the intention of an orgasm. and he hasn't ejaculated. Either I'm good.. Or I've never met someone who can't.
But.. It's not always about destination cum.
Everyone is so different in what works for them. Talk, experiment. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
Central Portugal |
"Does any one else struggle to or never has cum through oral?
Fuck knows why but I am struggling to cum at all at the moment. That is not a humblebrag btw, it is not a problem I have ever had and it is actually becoming disconcerting"
It will all work out |
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"Does any one else struggle to or never has cum through oral?
Fuck knows why but I am struggling to cum at all at the moment. That is not a humblebrag btw, it is not a problem I have ever had and it is actually becoming disconcerting
It will all work out "
Let’s hope so!! The amateur psychologist in me knows what the problem might be but I’m not a fucking psychologist so I just want it to work! |
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