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Accidentally found a profile of someone you know?
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over a year ago
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Depends on what your relationship with that person is like in vanilla life. I've come across a few profiles that I know in private. Some I blocked immediately and a couple I have made contact with and are on my friends list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happened across one accidentally, was a friend of an ex, wasn't until I'd replied to a post of theirs I realised. Wasn't too bothered, said hello and carried on. |
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There are a number of people on here I know from my area. I haven't let them know who I am and wouldn't ever meet them. This is my private life and do not wish for vanilla people I know to know about it. |
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"There are a number of people on here I know from my area. I haven't let them know who I am and wouldn't ever meet them. This is my private life and do not wish for vanilla people I know to know about it. "
How are they vanilla if they're on here?
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"There are a number of people on here I know from my area. I haven't let them know who I am and wouldn't ever meet them. This is my private life and do not wish for vanilla people I know to know about it.
How are they vanilla if they're on here?
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javascript:doSmilie('  ') good question |
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"There are a number of people on here I know from my area. I haven't let them know who I am and wouldn't ever meet them. This is my private life and do not wish for vanilla people I know to know about it.
How are they vanilla if they're on here?
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Damn!! I cut some out of it so its posted wrong. grrr
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a couple on here who I went to school with who. They were childhood sweethearts and still going strong. (Proof that swingers are stronger relationship wise if you ask me)
I saw them on here when we joined up they are into some real kinky stuff and have face pics all over there profile. I am friends with them on Facebook it's an interesting contrast.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always wondered whether it's worth trying to remain anonymous on here. If you came across a profile and you realise you knew the person wouldn't that be a good thing?"
Wouldn't say anything unless they did as its a bit stalkerish to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always wondered whether it's worth trying to remain anonymous on here. If you came across a profile and you realise you knew the person wouldn't that be a good thing?"
Caught my ex looking at us several times the other week...I don't know if he recognised us or not and have nothing to hide as such but we blocked him...his new partner is a colleague of mine and there are some things I don't need to know about her and that she doesnt need to know about me...I trust her discretion but it's just a bit too much... |
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"There are a number of people on here I know from my area. I haven't let them know who I am and wouldn't ever meet them. This is my private life and do not wish for vanilla people I know to know about it.
How are they vanilla if they're on here?
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Some people on here are very vanilla even if they are on here.honest .some are just soft swap voyeurs .poppyx   |
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"On a multitude of occasions. It has given us a bloody good laugh!"
Same. My partner and I have found and been found a few times. We've never had any issues with it though as the other people have always been in the same position. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not come across anyone I know yet.But if I ever do, I believe in discretion
That would be my view too."
That would be my view too.some people know though and put you in an awkward position by asking to be friends on here and then saying they want to meet .then saying they know you so can't.what that about?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not met anyone yet but I think it would be good if it was an old friend. however at the club I go to a name was mentioned about a new starter, it is an unusual name too. I haven't been back since incase it is the person I sit and work with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a few people I know in the real world on here and recognised them straight away.
I've also been messaged by a few and have messaged a few, and only found out when photos have been exchanged. Always end it there.
However, I was also messaged by my ex wife and her new partner, she clearly didn't recognise me after an 11 year relationship!!!!
I'd seen their profile and liked the look of it, but then close inspection of the pics made me suspicious. They saw I'd been looking and messaged me. I didn't have any evidence so replied politely, being honest about where I was from/after etc, then they sent me a friend invite.
Waited til they logged off, accepted, saw the pics and it was 
Sent them an email saying they weren't my type. Often bump into her. Next time, considering what ourrelationship was our pleasant parting, I may just mention it to her  |
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I helped my brother set his profile up on fab, hes been going to fetish clubs for years and loves it but had never tried swingers clubs. He came to stay with us last weekend but i was out at a collegues leaving do, so I left him with mr wildcat. I crawled in about 2.30 in the morning an found they had spent the evening talking about the new clubs we been going to! I think he was a bit shocked to find out his baby sister is more like him than he thought, but he was also pleased as he had always felt we all thought he was wierd, (we have another brother and a sister too and we all knew what he was into, but I kept quiet about what I get up to) anyway he said he'd like to try a few swingers clubs and would love to have some like minded fem FB's to go out to clubs and socialise with, so I said why not join fab and see how u get on and I helped him set the profile up, we did agree not to look at each others profile pics tho as that would just be wierd lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met a few people in the swinging scene that I knew from outside, and its never been a problem for me or them, after all we are all looking for the same thing  |
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"I have always wondered whether it's worth trying to remain anonymous on here. If you came across a profile and you realise you knew the person wouldn't that be a good thing?"
We are all here for the same reasons so why would it be a problem?  |
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"I have always wondered whether it's worth trying to remain anonymous on here. If you came across a profile and you realise you knew the person wouldn't that be a good thing?
We are all here for the same reasons so why would it be a problem? "
Yeah a few people I recognise |
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