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Spontaneous or Planned meets?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Planned for me.
Spontaneous if were met before is good. Occasionally have met for lunch and coffee etc etc if we’ve met before.
New meets - always a social first
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"Spontaneous is fine if we're already chatting.
Some complete rando who's never spoken to me before wanting a spontaneous meet can fuck off though  "
Yeah, I wasn't suggesting completely spontaneous meets with people you've just only just met. Just not prearranging more than say, a day in advance at the VERY most |
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By (user no longer on site) 40 weeks ago
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I do like both, But.... Like you say I can't be excited about meeting someone in 3 weeks, dunno if I'm gunna be up for multiple fucks on that Saturday night
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Both do have their place and I’ve had some great spontaneous meets. However, I tend to sway more towards planned meets. I like to spend the time getting to know the other person, find out what makes them tick in the bedroom and build the anticipation…
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By *enatton2Couple 40 weeks ago
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We’ve found we prefer spontaneous meets, Tani doesn’t like the long drawn out build up, plus we rarely know when we’ll actually be free as we have a hectic personal life.
Usually if we suddenly find ourselves available and playful, we’ll post on here then chat to those who message us that we like the look of, see who seems genuinely keen with no messing about or time wasting. Then go for it. We usually end up at their place or even outdoors or in the back of our car occasionally too |
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Planned, though for no more than a week and with those we've already been messaging... though when the plans start to fail, the thoughts of spontaneous meets and the wanton urge can make us feel like the spontaneity would be good, we're just not that confident! |
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"I'm not much of a planner. I find it difficult to think "I'm going to be horny a week next Friday" so I much prefer a spontaneous meet.
How about you?"
we prefer spontaneous... nothing pre planned |
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i like to.think i plan, then get horny and its spontaneous 
