I’m a bi man but the wife doesn’t know. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this situation.
Does your wife/ girlfriend know and if so how did she take the news. Mine has never shown any interest in man on man sex . Will say she is bi so a bit hypocritical lol |
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"I’m a bi man but the wife doesn’t know. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this situation.
Does your wife/ girlfriend know and if so how did she take the news. Mine has never shown any interest in man on man sex . Will say she is bi so a bit hypocritical lol"
Talk to her and be honest, just because she shows no interest doesn’t instantly mean she’s against it unless she’s said so previously but even then she may well be much more supportive than you might be expecting and if that is the case she will appreciate your honesty much more than hiding away. Sadly there will always be a stigma behind it but until people start to become more honest with each other and fundamentally themselves those barriers will never be broken and new exciting doors will never be opened x |
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"Same situation for me just wish sometimes she knew and would accept it  "
Try telling her. Uless her response to other Bi people is negative. Hopefully you will be surprised. Be awful to hide it . |
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My wife knows I'm bi and loves watching gay sex. Telling her about my past and sexual interests wasn't easy and I was really worried about her reaction but it's been the best decision.
Until that point she never really knew me |
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"I’m a bi man but the wife doesn’t know. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this situation.
Does your wife/ girlfriend know and if so how did she take the news. Mine has never shown any interest in man on man sex . Will say she is bi so a bit hypocritical lol"
We are both bi.i love watching him play with other men as much as him watching me with the ladies.
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"Does your wife/ girlfriend know and if so how did she take the news. Mine has never shown any interest in man on man sex . Will say she is bi so a bit hypocritical lol"
There's literally nothing hypocritical about that.
Just tell her. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"I’m a bi man but the wife doesn’t know. I’m sure I’m not the only one in this situation.
Does your wife/ girlfriend know and if so how did she take the news. Mine has never shown any interest in man on man sex . Will say she is bi so a bit hypocritical lol"
hypocritical or just supporting you as she thinks your str8 ??
but saying that there are bi women who dont want their men to be bi but there are many bi women who will totally be up for it too .... if you cant be honest with your wife then ????? only you know your wife ...good luck op  |
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Does she know your open relationship style?
Partners may be okay with hypothetical sexual interests more than you actually having sex with others. If you've agreed an open relationship, she may not care whether it's men or women who you're having sex with |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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I was once with a bi woman who said bi men where sick! I said to her "but you are bi, so how can you be so hypocritical?" She started spouting religious shit at me.
And as you can see, I am not with her anymore as I dumped her very soon after that conversation. |
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You really need to tell your wife. You aren't being true or fair to yourself, let alone your wife.
You should not have to hide who you really are from your wife. |
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Yes tell your wife if you are only curious . Then maybe talk to someone . I knew my ex was bi she knew I was but it dosent mean it’s ok to cheat on each other . But how would you feel if she said she was having an affair leaving you for a woman ? If you can rationalise that I guess you are closer to your answer .
Sorry not more helpful |
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"You really need to tell your wife. You aren't being true or fair to yourself, let alone your wife.
You should not have to hide who you really are from your wife."
 exactly this. Not fair on either party, if it’s meant to be she’ll support you and you might even be surprised |
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It depends on how you want to come out and tell her…
Sitting her down and saying you’re bi could be a bit blunt and works for some, but could also go down route of talking about each others fantasies and things each other want to explore where you could say you want to explore with a male and see her reaction and if she’s interested or not. |
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