"Does anyone really play
So many dreamers
Julie"
Yes they do. You've met a few men it seems. Who are you struggling to meet? Couples into BDSM? Not sure that comes across in your profile. Also BDSM is big term covering a multitude of sins. |
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Wife and I do.
She's submissive and masochistic adores punishment, etc takes her to a whole different high.
Things have got more intense over the years.
Her big beautiful ass is being the marked of my loving last night. |
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"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think "
Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.
I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism) |
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Yep. I'm into lots of kinky fun.
And I agree there are many posers and confused folk who think rough bad sex, choking and spitting on you makes them a Dom (and probably call themselves Alpha too)  |
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"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think
Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.
I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism)"
Have to disagree there. Bondage can just be bondage with no discipline element, although admittedly they often go together. I think there are a great many people out there who just enjoy bondage in a light way with no other element/dynamic involved.
As such I think it perfectly reasonably to be into bondage and domination but not sm and pain. Some of these theoretical classifications get a bit too carried away at times. I was at a party last night in a small dungeon with with 10 people doing various things - not sure many would have been able to classify precisely what they were doing very well in the heat of the moment but it was great fun  |
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"Does anyone really play
So many dreamers
Julie"
Yes I couldn’t live without it if I’m honest, total submissive bi male who thrives on humiliation, punishment and giving away control !have to agree tho there are so many people who claim to be involvedin the scene but actually haven’t a clue |
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"Not into the sm elements but defo the bd part, I think
Shows poor knowledge. As a previous poster stated there are three paired elements.
I love BD (bondage and discipline) and Ds (domination and submission). Not into SM (sadism and masochism)
Have to disagree there. Bondage can just be bondage with no discipline element, although admittedly they often go together. I think there are a great many people out there who just enjoy bondage in a light way with no other element/dynamic involved.
As such I think it perfectly reasonably to be into bondage and domination but not sm and pain. Some of these theoretical classifications get a bit too carried away at times. I was at a party last night in a small dungeon with with 10 people doing various things - not sure many would have been able to classify precisely what they were doing very well in the heat of the moment but it was great fun "
None of them have to be paired - it is simply explaining the acronym which consists of three pairs. |
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"Yep. I'm into lots of kinky fun.
And I agree there are many posers and confused folk who think rough bad sex, choking and spitting on you makes them a Dom (and probably call themselves Alpha too) "
This judging by some of the messages we get is 100% accurate |
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Very much so when I get the opportunity. Been in the BDSM scene for 20+ years.
Thing is though, I think I lot of people here are just into kinky sex, which is fine, but isn't what I'd consider BDSM personally. I think people looking for more 'serious' BDSM, would look on a site dedicated to that.
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