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over a year ago
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It can happen to the best of us! Nerves, just the day or maybe they it was wishful thinking on thier behalf?!
There are pleanty of ladies who require lubrication, dryness or a limp cock can be many reasons, just make sure that you have fun and so do they, thats is after all what it is all about!!
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?"
Could of been single or even gay, why do people always think its about men cheating on their partners or a fem cheating?!
Half the people on this site are playing away from home, this is not meant to be about relationships or cheating, but sexual encounters.
Would it be better if they went with a prostitue?
get over yourself.... |
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"I`ve had a couple of guys who can`t get it up no matter what you do to them, poor buggers! I love a hard cock not a mr softee 
Is it only me? "
Everyone is different, I won't always get a hard on. Even though im turned in and feeling hornet as hell, if you come across this problem again, have a good rest period and then I find a less is more approach can work. ie to gently play with them and almost forgetting your touching them, carry on conversation about any thing, and they may peak? Again?
It's a horrid feeling when it does happen because when they leave you and get home chances are that little rest time and they will be erect again , and still feeling hornet too, one Love x |
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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago
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I've had it happen twice because a guy is on pills for depression (different guys!)
The first one told me after we met that the packet said he might have a problem getting an erection, but he thought he'd give it a go without warning me. The second guy hadn't read any of the warnings on the pills!
I've tried not to take it personally, but it doesn't make for a great night. |
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"I`ve had a couple of guys who can`t get it up no matter what you do to them, poor buggers! I love a hard cock not a mr softee
Is it only me?
Everyone is different, I won't always get a hard on. Even though im turned in and feeling hornet as hell, if you come across this problem again, have a good rest period and then I find a less is more approach can work. ie to gently play with them and almost forgetting your touching them, carry on conversation about any thing, and they may peak? Again?
It's a horrid feeling when it does happen because when they leave you and get home chances are that little rest time and they will be erect again , and still feeling hornet too, one Love x"
That's a great post and VERY sound advice  |
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?
Could of been single or even gay, why do people always think its about men cheating on their partners or a fem cheating?!
Half the people on this site are playing away from home, this is not meant to be about relationships or cheating, but sexual encounters.
Would it be better if they went with a prostitue?
get over yourself...."
'get over myself' FFS! The comment I made was a perfectly legitimate 'a' possible reason... who needs to get over what?
Could have been a single guy, could have been a gay guy? I don't get that one, why might a gay bloke not get a hard-on with a _iew to having sex with another guy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Could have been a single guy, could have been a gay guy? I don't get that one, why might a gay bloke not get a hard-on with a _iew to having sex with another guy?"
What a crass comment. Men fail to get an erection at times for many reasons, physical as well as emotional.
How can you not see why a gay bloke would not get an erection with a _iew to having sex with another guy? That's similar to a straight guy not getting an erection with a woman. It happens.
There is no logic in your thinking that the OP was meeting married guys behind their wives backs, you just expressed your prejudices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Your seriously prejudice aren't you!
A guy str8, bi or gay can suffer with ED, or the odd moment! The male in your couple I guess is a supperman and has never failled to get hard to order then? Lucky you!!
Maybe a lesbian is cheating on her hubby and does not get wet? Is that odd?
Take your head from a dark orafice and see the real world, you never know you might learn a thing or two about people and sexuality, other than your very small pond. |
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?
I've had three men unable to get an erection; none were married.  "
90% of the reason will be down to nerves, Or just too excited. and yes there will be the other 10% of times when drink, drugs, medication or guilt comes in to it too.
again another tip. for anyone that does get, or has a problem, if this happens...... take a small step backwards and fall back on laying them on there front and giving them a very slow and sensual massage, stating with shoulders. bum legs and then see how it progresses? make sure to keep them warm too. soft blankets. one love xx |
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?"
Pretty sad you feel to turn a soft dick thread into a cheating one. Can only guess soft dick issues hit a nerve.  |
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?
Pretty sad you feel to turn a soft dick thread into a cheating one. Can only guess soft dick issues hit a nerve. "
One other thing which I know everyone knows but I'll say it anyway, you don't have to have penetration to have fun. If he's doing all the nice things and just doesn't get stiff chances are he fancies you, he just can't perform in the traditional sense.
Lips mouth and tongue can work well too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can happen to the best of us! Nerves, just the day or maybe they it was wishful thinking on thier behalf?!
There are pleanty of ladies who require lubrication, dryness or a limp cock can be many reasons, just make sure that you have fun and so do they, thats is after all what it is all about!!
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I have suffered the same problem on a couple of occasions, it is more often a psychological issue. I can be turned on at a party or club, but stressing about not performing, and if course it won't then. As soon as we get home, bang, it's like a flagpole and I'm fine. It's a nerves barrier with me, nothing to do with guilt, as my girl is with me
Sure I'm not the only man who has this problem, and it certainly doesn't stop our fun  ) |
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?
Pretty sad you feel to turn a soft dick thread into a cheating one. Can only guess soft dick issues hit a nerve.
One other thing which I know everyone knows but I'll say it anyway, you don't have to have penetration to have fun. If he's doing all the nice things and just doesn't get stiff chances are he fancies you, he just can't perform in the traditional sense.
Lips mouth and tongue can work well too. "
Couldn't agree more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Only had a few experiences like this over years; frustrating at times but these things happen...and i up front to admit its happend to me a few years back when i was little under weather and could not stay hard |
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By *corcherMan
over a year ago
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It can be performance anxiety. You've finally got the meet, now perform & perform well. You're verification depends on it. That causes stress & frustration so you worry which causes stress etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened to me as well.
Very frustrating!
They always say "It's not you, it's me. I've had too much alcohol / drugs / on my mind / etc."
But still end up feeling that my mission has not been accomplished.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe they are feeling guilty about cheating on their wives with another guy?
Could of been single or even gay, why do people always think its about men cheating on their partners or a fem cheating?!
Half the people on this site are playing away from home, this is not meant to be about relationships or cheating, but sexual encounters.
Would it be better if they went with a prostitue?
get over yourself...."
Totally agree, everyone has there own reson for being here. Wish people would stop going on about blokes cheating, just as many women do it too. xx |
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"It can happen to the best of us! Nerves, just the day or maybe they it was wishful thinking on thier behalf?!
There are pleanty of ladies who require lubrication, dryness or a limp cock can be many reasons, just make sure that you have fun and so do they, thats is after all what it is all about!!
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Exactly. You don't need a hard cock to have fun. Just ask a lesbian |
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i have never had a problem geting hard and staying up....but i have been with 2 couples last year where hubbie had problems getting hard.With one chap...guy his wife used a cock pump to get it hard and the other hubbies she used her talents on him but he kept going down. I felt for them both. it cannot be very nice. |
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