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Hi is there any women on this site actual intresed in a bi threeway
With me and my hubby.
We are feeling like its a needle in a haystack and kind of feeling our search is not going any where.
Are profile says what we want
We dont know what we are doing wrong. |
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Finding a single women into meeting a couple is the hardest thing to do on here tbh they aren't given the name unicorns for nothing. We've been lucky enough to have a few ffms in the past but only one of the girls we met on here.
You aren't doing anything wrong it's just a fact of life as a couple you are going to have to be patient but it will all fall into place and when it does, you will have an amazing time. Keep the faith and have fun whilst you wait   |
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"Finding a single women into meeting a couple is the hardest thing to do on here tbh they aren't given the name unicorns for nothing. We've been lucky enough to have a few ffms in the past but only one of the girls we met on here.
You aren't doing anything wrong it's just a fact of life as a couple you are going to have to be patient but it will all fall into place and when it does, you will have an amazing time. Keep the faith and have fun whilst you wait "
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Your profile reads fine, more appealing than some other couples profiles I have seen. The only thing I would say, is that some bi females dislike being described as unicorns.
If you lived in my area and I was a bit younger, I would be interested. X
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"Your profile reads fine, more appealing than some other couples profiles I have seen. The only thing I would say, is that some bi females dislike being described as unicorns.
If you lived in my area and I was a bit younger, I would be interested. X
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over a year ago
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Very hard to have 3 way chemistry - saying that as a female who has joined couples.
I’d fix the typos on your profile and add a couple more pics if I was you. And be prepared to send face pics when chatting.
Good luck! |
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"Hi is there any women on this site actual intresed in a bi threeway
With me and my hubby.
We are feeling like its a needle in a haystack and kind of feeling our search is not going any where.
Are profile says what we want
We dont know what we are doing wrong."
We are looking for similar bi male/female couple for same room same sex fun.. Its been a year and never happened |
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"Hi is there any women on this site actual intresed in a bi threeway
With me and my hubby.
We are feeling like its a needle in a haystack and kind of feeling our search is not going any where.
Are profile says what we want
We dont know what we are doing wrong.
We are looking for similar bi male/female couple for same room same sex fun.. Its been a year and never happened "
Shame you are so far away |
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"Hi is there any women on this site actual intresed in a bi threeway
With me and my hubby.
We are feeling like its a needle in a haystack and kind of feeling our search is not going any where.
Are profile says what we want
We dont know what we are doing wrong."
You aren't doing anything wrong.single ladies are rare on here.bi makes it a harder find still. Keep plugging away and you will come up trumps.could try a club? |
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We generally do our swinging in the club/party environment. We know from personal experience there's single women out there who love this. We would recommend this. Especially a couples and single ladies only night/event. Because of all nights/events this is the one where the single women attending are more likely to be seaking fun with couples.
However if club/parties are not for you keep the faith. We occasionally get messages from good verified ladies on here. So we know they're out there too on here.
Do you approach single females on here? Obviously we don't know how you go about your aproach. So just generally speaking a lot of couples get it wrong. They can come across so desperate and hungry for the act itself they forget the individual in question. Most women want good vibe and chemistry. They want to feel like equal stakeholders. However sometimes a couples approach can make them feel more like someones experiment or sex toys and generally people don't want to feel that way. They want to feel valued as an individual, they want chemistry, to be listened too and something that just feels natural and free flowing. Sometimes couples can come across a bit strong and too focused on their own desires.
Plus as others have said 3 way chemistry isn't easy. Especially depending on the individuals involved. But when you get it right and the 3 way chemistry is there it's amazing.
(especially more so for us straight guy bi fem couples who would never experience the same total 3 way play if it were another man not a bi fem) |
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"This may be frowned upon on here but we have had one FMF meet, we booked a well known paid for / pornstar.
We booked an hour at her hotel and felt there absolutely no pressure and great fun. "
That is a perfectly legitimate thing to do. It's your money and their services that they chose to sell. Sounds like something you both really enjoyed and it circumvented many of issuses people experience seeking such experiences. |
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I used to meet couples through here, on my previous profile, but I stopped and not interested in 1:1 meets with a couple any more unless I met them in a club previously. The issue is, until you meet them in person, you can only take their words they both exist and are both interested in meeting, and what kind of experience the lady has in FF play. I am not interested in doing all the work and not getting much back from the lady- sadly, that was the case in most of my meets with couples despite the conversations we had beforehand. On more than one occasion, it was obvious to me I was blatantly lied to about her involvement and interest in meeting, as I could tell the woman was only there to please her man, fulfil his fantasy.
When meeting in a club, by chance, I can meet both of them at the same time, see how they interact with each other and me away from the pressure of sex and, if I don't think we're a suitable match, I can always move on, find some other people I may be interested in playing with (as long as they'd be interested in playing with me) or at least use the club's facilities and enjoy the safety a swingers club offers. If we get on well in a club, I am open to meeting in private, too, and I have done it before. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"We generally do our swinging in the club/party environment. We know from personal experience there's single women out there who love this. We would recommend this. Especially a couples and single ladies only night/event. Because of all nights/events this is the one where the single women attending are more likely to be seaking fun with couples.
However if club/parties are not for you keep the faith. We occasionally get messages from good verified ladies on here. So we know they're out there too on here.
Do you approach single females on here? Obviously we don't know how you go about your aproach. So just generally speaking a lot of couples get it wrong. They can come across so desperate and hungry for the act itself they forget the individual in question. Most women want good vibe and chemistry. They want to feel like equal stakeholders. However sometimes a couples approach can make them feel more like someones experiment or sex toys and generally people don't want to feel that way. They want to feel valued as an individual, they want chemistry, to be listened too and something that just feels natural and free flowing. Sometimes couples can come across a bit strong and too focused on their own desires.
Plus as others have said 3 way chemistry isn't easy. Especially depending on the individuals involved. But when you get it right and the 3 way chemistry is there it's amazing.
(especially more so for us straight guy bi fem couples who would never experience the same total 3 way play if it were another man not a bi fem)"
Exactly this. I would love to meet a couple again but none have piqued - or more pertinently - maintained my interest. Consequently I have only ever had FFM with one couple. We met at a party, formed a connection and then met as a three. I have given up on finding couples online so as others have said - clubs or parties may be the way forward for you too. Good luck! |
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