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the bare back question..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Reply honestly
A) I fucking love bare back and I don't care what other people think , mind your own business!
B) its a bit risky so not for me.
C) never not worth the risk at all..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fucking love bareback, anyone who says they don't is a liar!
Doesn't say that I partake in any love without a glove.
Has to be saddled up and no bare back
So it's option E for me please  |
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Oh goodie we can do this thread again, time to get onto high horses and bring out all the stats so we can mull them over.
We use Condoms and choose to play with those that do and practise safe sex, we do this to minimise risk we understand there IS still risk, but any action you can take to minimise or eliminate it has be applauded especially when it can directly effect your life.
People will come up with all sorts of odd arguments about not using them on this thread (if it doesn't get locked) but taking steps to minimise risk is what we should all be doing and condoms are the best defence we have so not using them for the sake of it being "bare" seems utterly stupid to me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bare back balls slapping .. Bang bang bang... Then ooooohhhhh yeah .. I'm spent...doing up the jeans on the way down stairs .. Swig of milk.. Kitkat and out the door! BOOM !
Can't beat it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Obviously most people would do bareback if it was a perfect world and no STI's or diseases existed, but its not a perfect world so protection is a must as its not worth the risk  |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
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"I love the way people have to announce that a topic or thread bores them hahaha no one cares.. "
I think its more the topic has been done to death on the other 100 times its been covered and debated. |
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I love Bareback, most men do.
Would i do it in a swinging situation? I have done with people i know and trust*,but as a rule no.
It's all down to personal choices.We all know the risks.
* I fully appreciated that knowing and trusting someone isn't a guarantee of safety. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the way people have to announce that a topic or thread bores them hahaha no one cares.. "
everyone LOVES bareback..in relation to swinging its not the case...simple answer from a simple if cyclic question lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought, you go on a swinging meet and the thought of bareback is a serious no no, as it should be. But then out of swinging, vanilla if you like, you meet someone and really hit it odd and get on like a house on fire, it comes to that date when wet both kinda know what's gonna happen at the end of the night, what do you do then without maybe insulting each other and questioning their past x could be awkward! Thoughts and experiences please! |
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No condom obviously feels better but wouldn't risk it.
Someone should invent some sort of spray on condom; all the protective benefits but with less faff and more sensitivity. Anyone who runs with this I expect a big royalty cheque in the post for the idea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh goodie we can do this thread again, time to get onto high horses and bring out all the stats so we can mull them over.
We use Condoms and choose to play with those that do and practise safe sex, we do this to minimise risk we understand there IS still risk, but any action you can take to minimise or eliminate it has be applauded especially when it can directly effect your life.
People will come up with all sorts of odd arguments about not using them on this thread (if it doesn't get locked) but taking steps to minimise risk is what we should all be doing and condoms are the best defence we have so not using them for the sake of it being "bare" seems utterly stupid to me.
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what they said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is everyone on the pill or something? even in a relationship I would have to find a man who had had the snip to have sex without a condom. Can't do coils or caps or pills and now can't do condoms. I'm pretty much fucked. And not in a good way. Mind you, in most circumstances the femidom works fine. It's bareback for the guy essentially. |
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Absolutely love bareback... with hubby.
With anyone else NEVER IN A MILLION YEARS. Dont care how nice bb is i can have that as many times a day with hubby as we can fit in..far too much risk with others so never would we be tempted.
Cant be more honest than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bare back balls slapping .. Bang bang bang... Then ooooohhhhh yeah .. I'm spent...doing up the jeans on the way down stairs .. Swig of milk.. Kitkat and out the door! BOOM !
Can't beat it "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe we should drop the expression bare back and just call it like it is - unsafe sex."
Won't stop people still doing it.. Look at the muppets still smoking even tho on the packet it says smoking can kill ya .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bare back balls slapping .. Bang bang bang... Then ooooohhhhh yeah .. I'm spent...doing up the jeans on the way down stairs .. Swig of milk.. Kitkat and out the door! BOOM !
Can't beat it "
Hahaha |
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"Maybe we should drop the expression bare back and just call it like it is - unsafe sex."
Maybe we should drop the expression 'safe-sex' and just call it like it is... being an active swinger is NOT practicing safe-sex be it with or without a condom |
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Bare back in fantasy is amazing, being filled full of cum by multiple cocks is my (mrs d) ideal night in/out hehehehehe yet reality strikes and yes its a downer.................. no glove no love 
so wish we lived in an ideal world.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Bare back in fantasy is amazing, being filled full of cum by multiple cocks is my (mrs d) ideal night in/out hehehehehe yet reality strikes and yes its a downer.................. no glove no love
so wish we lived in an ideal world. "
Mmmmmm go on get it up ya mmmmmmmm |
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hi the mr of our cpl here...... sure its been said, a million times on here ....... but all cpls who demand safe sex with condoms do you then .....
a suck cock without one ?
b swallow cum
c use sex toys without condoms
if you do and THEN demand condoms for sex ....WHY ? |
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
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"Maybe we should drop the expression bare back and just call it like it is - unsafe sex.
Won't stop people still doing it.. Look at the muppets still smoking even tho on the packet it says smoking can kill ya .. "
It wouldn't stop EVERYONE who does it doing it, but it'd stop some - just as the stuff on fag packs has done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reply honestly
A) I fucking love bare back and I don't care what other people think , mind your own business!
B) its a bit risky so not for me.
C) never not worth the risk at all..
Please repley with the letter that best discribes your view.. "
C |
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"hi the mr of our cpl here...... sure its been said, a million times on here ....... but all cpls who demand safe sex with condoms do you then .....
a suck cock without one ?
b swallow cum
c use sex toys without condoms
if you do and THEN demand condoms for sex ....WHY ?"
Well said - STIs very easily passed on even with a condom. |
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"hi the mr of our cpl here...... sure its been said, a million times on here ....... but all cpls who demand safe sex with condoms do you then .....
a suck cock without one ?
b swallow cum
c use sex toys without condoms
if you do and THEN demand condoms for sex ....WHY ?
Well said - STIs very easily passed on even with a condom. "
So why is it that the health professionals strongly promote the use of condoms????+ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should google sti and std and see how good a condom is ? any one that has oral with out protection you will pass on a sti ect Not my option Googles lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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key points:
its called protection, namely aimed in the reduction of the said transmissions or unwanted pregnancies
anyone who believes they are practicing safe sex with random people needs their head looked at..they may be reducing the chances of the above mentioned..thats all
one of the good things about adult online life is that most of us will be sober when we choose who we are gonna fuck..however there are thousands of people meeting out of clubs/pubs having a shag and probably being too shitfaced to remember if they even shagged someone |
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"Bare back balls slapping .. Bang bang bang... Then ooooohhhhh yeah .. I'm spent...doing up the jeans on the way down stairs .. Swig of milk.. Kitkat and out the door! BOOM !
Can't beat it "
You are this months funny forumite...
I'm out the door.....boom! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"key points:
its called protection, namely aimed in the reduction of the said transmissions or unwanted pregnancies
anyone who believes they are practicing safe sex with random people needs their head looked at..they may be reducing the chances of the above mentioned..thats all
one of the good things about adult online life is that most of us will be sober when we choose who we are gonna fuck..however there are thousands of people meeting out of clubs/pubs having a shag and probably being too shitfaced to remember if they even shagged someone"
Exactly this!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is everyone on the pill or something? even in a relationship I would have to find a man who had had the snip to have sex without a condom. Can't do coils or caps or pills and now can't do condoms. I'm pretty much fucked. And not in a good way. Mind you, in most circumstances the femidom works fine. It's bareback for the guy essentially."
I've had the snip..... But wouldn't bareback unless I had a loaded gun to my head....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is everyone on the pill or something? even in a relationship I would have to find a man who had had the snip to have sex without a condom. Can't do coils or caps or pills and now can't do condoms. I'm pretty much fucked. And not in a good way. Mind you, in most circumstances the femidom works fine. It's bareback for the guy essentially.
I've had the snip..... But wouldn't bareback unless I had a loaded gun to my head.... "
ahh well this million pounds can go to some other risk taker...feckaff then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*sigh*
If you went to your local GUM clinic and told the nurse/doctor that you're a swinger then they would consider you at a higher risk than most because you'll have multiple sexual partners whether you practise safe sex or not. Some people act like wearing a condom is like having a bulletproof vest on and forget about the other ways you can pick up STDs.
If you're honestly that worried about catching something, the best option is a monogamous relationship and since I'm saying this on a swinger site, I know what that answer will be!  |
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