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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight "
Fully straight would probably be not having any sexual attraction with someone of the same sex. No kissing, touching sex organs, oral or penetrative sex. |
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My belief is that sexuality is a spectrum.
If you follow that reasoning there are a people that find any kind of sexual contact with someone of the same gender a turn off
...some people that find sexual contact with someone of a different gender a turn off...
...and a wide range of other preferences and turn offs.
Personally, I'm happily married and proudly bi (sex with horn is best, I enjoy sex with both men and women but trend towards males)
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
Fully straight would probably be not having any sexual attraction with someone of the same sex. No kissing, touching sex organs, oral or penetrative sex."
The definition you have quoted for Fully Straight is spot on. |
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight."
There are apparently fully straight men.
Many of them message me to tell me so and that my pics have got them hard as hell.
But they don't want to meet me.
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
Straight means you only like the other sex. That includes all sorts of attractions, sexual and romantical.
That means no holding hands, no kissing, no romantical feelings, but also excludes as little as blowjobs, handjobs etc.
If you're a guy, and you let other guys, tvs or ts suck you off, then you're not straight. If you think "If they bend over and cross their legs, it all looks the same to me" then you're not straight.
Being bi or homo isn't an insult or makes you worth less than if you were straight. It doesn't. It's just a state of being.
We are all pretty much aware what counts as straight and what is not straight. Don't think there honestly are other opinions on the matter, only people who like to signal their own virtues and make it more complicated than it really is.
If anything other than women turns you on - then you're not straight.
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
There are apparently fully straight men.
Many of them message me to tell me so and that my pics have got them hard as hell.
But they don't want to meet me.
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Doubt that many men say that. But if there is any shroud of truth to this, then those men are not fully straight |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight."
People project a lot. They think that if they are not straight, so how could be anyone? And then go around like everyone is at least bi or in the closet. 
I heard someone say before that if I am not willing to play with other men, I am just afraid of my own sexuality. As if the only reason I wouldn't get with other guys, is because I can't admit it. The sheer fact, that there are some men who are just not interested in anything with other men (with or without wigs or transitioned(ing)) is mind baffling to them.
They are egocentric people who assume everyone is just like them. |
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Doubt that many men say that. But if there is any shroud of truth to this, then those men are not fully straight"
It's true. And yes you're right. These men are not straight. They just don't want to admit it.
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
People project a lot. They think that if they are not straight, so how could be anyone? And then go around like everyone is at least bi or in the closet.
I heard someone say before that if I am not willing to play with other men, I am just afraid of my own sexuality. As if the only reason I wouldn't get with other guys, is because I can't admit it. The sheer fact, that there are some men who are just not interested in anything with other men (with or without wigs or transitioned(ing)) is mind baffling to them.
They are egocentric people who assume everyone is just like them."
ok fair enough. There may be straight guys or guys who's egos are so inflated yet fragile. Or there are who knows but being worried someone is touching you is not really being straight, being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it as your not going to get sexually turned on. Either way keep it up, be straight but don't be a cock |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight "
I have been told this....
for Men, whats the difference between bi and straight?
answer..... about 8 pints!
for women, its like spaghetti, its straight until its get hot and wet!
Well thats what I was told! |
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over a year ago
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
People project a lot. They think that if they are not straight, so how could be anyone? And then go around like everyone is at least bi or in the closet.
I heard someone say before that if I am not willing to play with other men, I am just afraid of my own sexuality. As if the only reason I wouldn't get with other guys, is because I can't admit it. The sheer fact, that there are some men who are just not interested in anything with other men (with or without wigs or transitioned(ing)) is mind baffling to them.
They are egocentric people who assume everyone is just like them. ok fair enough. There may be straight guys or guys who's egos are so inflated yet fragile. Or there are who knows but being worried someone is touching you is not really being straight, being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it as your not going to get sexually turned on. Either way keep it up, be straight but don't be a cock "
"being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it"
you mean other than it being a turn off and offensive!!
a lesbian woman being touched up by a bloke would cause outrage but because its a straight guy he shouldn't worry about it!!
being touched should be consensual no matter the orientation or sex, and to expect anyone to put up with being touched in a manner they dont want is wrong, and to object is not being a cock!! |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
People project a lot. They think that if they are not straight, so how could be anyone? And then go around like everyone is at least bi or in the closet.
I heard someone say before that if I am not willing to play with other men, I am just afraid of my own sexuality. As if the only reason I wouldn't get with other guys, is because I can't admit it. The sheer fact, that there are some men who are just not interested in anything with other men (with or without wigs or transitioned(ing)) is mind baffling to them.
They are egocentric people who assume everyone is just like them. ok fair enough. There may be straight guys or guys who's egos are so inflated yet fragile. Or there are who knows but being worried someone is touching you is not really being straight, being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it as your not going to get sexually turned on. Either way keep it up, be straight but don't be a cock
"being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it"
you mean other than it being a turn off and offensive!!
a lesbian woman being touched up by a bloke would cause outrage but because its a straight guy he shouldn't worry about it!!
being touched should be consensual no matter the orientation or sex, and to expect anyone to put up with being touched in a manner they dont want is wrong, and to object is not being a cock!! "
Feel better now? Don't think they meant to "rub you the wrong way"  |
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight."
It's actually the only definition I've seen on here that people have to constantly justify.
Many don't believe or accept that all women aren't bi while all too often men who say they are straight get a "ye right" response.
I've been told directly on here that I'm narrow-minded and scared to be more adventurous by not exploring my bisexual side.
It's difficult to explore something that doesn't exist.
If that makes me boring to some I don't really care but it's become a running joke how some people like to force their sexual preferences on others. |
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
People project a lot. They think that if they are not straight, so how could be anyone? And then go around like everyone is at least bi or in the closet.
I heard someone say before that if I am not willing to play with other men, I am just afraid of my own sexuality. As if the only reason I wouldn't get with other guys, is because I can't admit it. The sheer fact, that there are some men who are just not interested in anything with other men (with or without wigs or transitioned(ing)) is mind baffling to them.
They are egocentric people who assume everyone is just like them. ok fair enough. There may be straight guys or guys who's egos are so inflated yet fragile. Or there are who knows but being worried someone is touching you is not really being straight, being straight would mean you could get a ball massage and not worry about it as your not going to get sexually turned on. Either way keep it up, be straight but don't be a cock "
I've seen some bull written on here and this is right up there |
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight "
Probably not, I’m not physically attracted to guys but enjoyed bi play. Guess it boils down to what you fear and how comfortable within yourself you are to explore all aspects of life  |
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
Probably not, I’m not physically attracted to guys but enjoyed bi play. Guess it boils down to what you fear and how comfortable within yourself you are to explore all aspects of life "
Once again! The use of the word fear in regard to being straight. |
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over a year ago
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fully straight is the same as straight. You are straight or you are bi or you are gay, or asexual. Bi-curious just means you've thought about it but not embraced it.
Be what you want to be, not what others think you should be. |
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Yes you can be fully straight, if sexuality is on a spectrum you can be totally gay or straight.
Always amazes me that straight people get so wound up by this subject. I have yet to meet gay person who occasionally has sex with the opposite gender who then finds their community want to relabel them or they relabel themselves.
If you kissed another person of the same gender once, you don’t have to join a pride march. Basically you can still be heterosexual if you know your own sexuality.  |
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"Yes you can be fully straight, if sexuality is on a spectrum you can be totally gay or straight.
Always amazes me that straight people get so wound up by this subject. I have yet to meet gay person who occasionally has sex with the opposite gender who then finds their community want to relabel them or they relabel themselves.
If you kissed another person of the same gender once, you don’t have to join a pride march. Basically you can still be heterosexual if you know your own sexuality. "
I've never been wound up on the subject of my sexuality because I'm secure in my straightness.
Outside of this forum I've never had a discussion about it because I don't have any bi or gay friends and I've never been propositioned by anyone identifying as either.
Within the walls of fab though I've been instructed in opening messages by couples telling me to stop pretending I'm straight or agree to play bi and they would put me on their to-do list.
I know women who have felt pressured by couples into playing bi when they have no interest in other women.
I have a straight friend who was approached by a couple who were both straight but seeking to explore the female halfs curiosity and thought persuading another straight woman to help them out was the way to go.
I agree there is a broad spectrum which is as it should be but I've never once seen a gay or bi man or woman being challenged on their preference on here. They may be challenged on their opinions and have to justify certain ideas but never in regard to calling themselves gay or bi.
That is always accepted without question so why do people feel the need to use words like fear and narrow-minded when talking about straight people? |
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"My belief is that sexuality is a spectrum.
If you follow that reasoning there are a people that find any kind of sexual contact with someone of the same gender a turn off
...some people that find sexual contact with someone of a different gender a turn off...
...and a wide range of other preferences and turn offs.
Personally, I'm happily married and proudly bi (sex with horn is best, I enjoy sex with both men and women but trend towards males)
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Pretty much me. Love sex with ladies but prefer men more. |
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On here there are people who are gay, bi, bi-curious, Fab straight and straight. Fab straight are those that claim to be straight but will go with a member of the same sex provided no one knows as they aren't ready or able to admit they are bi in any way. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight "
I am the person in the other thread who posted that my husband is totally (note: not 'super') straight. I'm pleased that it 'amused' you. But, after reading the comments on this thread, perhaps you as a bi and self professed kinky guy could explain why you find it so difficult to accept that straightness exists. Why the apparent mental block? Do you not see that this might be a problem? |
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
I am the person in the other thread who posted that my husband is totally (note: not 'super') straight. I'm pleased that it 'amused' you. But, after reading the comments on this thread, perhaps you as a bi and self professed kinky guy could explain why you find it so difficult to accept that straightness exists. Why the apparent mental block? Do you not see that this might be a problem?"
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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
I am the person in the other thread who posted that my husband is totally (note: not 'super') straight. I'm pleased that it 'amused' you. But, after reading the comments on this thread, perhaps you as a bi and self professed kinky guy could explain why you find it so difficult to accept that straightness exists. Why the apparent mental block? Do you not see that this might be a problem?"
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
I am the person in the other thread who posted that my husband is totally (note: not 'super') straight. I'm pleased that it 'amused' you. But, after reading the comments on this thread, perhaps you as a bi and self professed kinky guy could explain why you find it so difficult to accept that straightness exists. Why the apparent mental block? Do you not see that this might be a problem?"
I must say i agree with this answer, i don't understand the arrogance or entitlement of some people who believe just because they are bi that buys them the automatic right to think they can do what they want or have whoever they want. |
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
Fully straight would probably be not having any sexual attraction with someone of the same sex. No kissing, touching sex organs, oral or penetrative sex."
Yep this for me |
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight
I am the person in the other thread who posted that my husband is totally (note: not 'super') straight. I'm pleased that it 'amused' you. But, after reading the comments on this thread, perhaps you as a bi and self professed kinky guy could explain why you find it so difficult to accept that straightness exists. Why the apparent mental block? Do you not see that this might be a problem?
I must say i agree with this answer, i don't understand the arrogance or entitlement of some people who believe just because they are bi that buys them the automatic right to think they can do what they want or have whoever they want."
Agree with this, on my couples profile we've been told that the lady of a couple we've been chatting to can turn me bi. No she really can't, or after they've agreed it'll be a straight partner swap they've asked if I'll kiss the woman or do soft play.
Its as if they can't grasp what straight is. |
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I’m straight but I’d love to watch my wife fuck some else bareback and let me have sloppy seconds, I’d also try double vaginal if I got the opportunity, big if I know!! But I wouldn’t want to have sexual contact with a man. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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Someone’s preferences really only matter if you intend to have fun with them. If they aren’t interested then move on.
People may already have experimented and know that they aren’t interested in the same gender. They may want to experiment later in life. |
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I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
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"I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
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I agree. Not saying there isn't really no such thing, but I find people who overly say they are straight are doing so defensively. If your straight you're straight but having to say it or be annoyed by someone's sexuality may be a unchecked issue they have. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
I agree. Not saying there isn't really no such thing, but I find people who overly say they are straight are doing so defensively. If your straight you're straight but having to say it or be annoyed by someone's sexuality may be a unchecked issue they have. "
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"I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
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"I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
I agree. Not saying there isn't really no such thing, but I find people who overly say they are straight are doing so defensively. If your straight you're straight but having to say it or be annoyed by someone's sexuality may be a unchecked issue they have. "
Or it could be that they've encountered people who don't believe it or still try it on op.
I make it clear im straight, because I've had men and couples assume I'm bi, because they think all women are on fab.
I appreciate not everyone is the same and lots of bi people respect boundaries, but many don't according to the replies on this thread alone. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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" but is there such a thing as fully straight
Definitely! Both of us have absolutely zero attraction to the same sex. "
They mean it differently than you picked it up. They meant to say there is no "super"straight. There is only regular straight. |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
Smallville |
"I go to swingers club as a TV and i can guarantee you OP there is a lot of straight maen and women there and have no interest in me whatsoever and i wouldn't expect them to be either.
And i do have a good laugh with all those straight peoples. I respect their sexuality like they respect me for who i am.
I do get the odd men responding very defensively to me if i just approach them to talk (and those are for me the one not sure about their sexuality imo)
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Maybe there’s nothing wrong with their sexuality and it’s just that they don’t want to talk to you, since you aren’t what they paid their money on the club to look for.
Could be just that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes you can be fully straight, if sexuality is on a spectrum you can be totally gay or straight.
Always amazes me that straight people get so wound up by this subject. I have yet to meet gay person who occasionally has sex with the opposite gender who then finds their community want to relabel them or they relabel themselves.
If you kissed another person of the same gender once, you don’t have to join a pride march. Basically you can still be heterosexual if you know your own sexuality.
I've never been wound up on the subject of my sexuality because I'm secure in my straightness.
Outside of this forum I've never had a discussion about it because I don't have any bi or gay friends and I've never been propositioned by anyone identifying as either.
Within the walls of fab though I've been instructed in opening messages by couples telling me to stop pretending I'm straight or agree to play bi and they would put me on their to-do list.
I know women who have felt pressured by couples into playing bi when they have no interest in other women.
I have a straight friend who was approached by a couple who were both straight but seeking to explore the female halfs curiosity and thought persuading another straight woman to help them out was the way to go.
I agree there is a broad spectrum which is as it should be but I've never once seen a gay or bi man or woman being challenged on their preference on here. They may be challenged on their opinions and have to justify certain ideas but never in regard to calling themselves gay or bi.
That is always accepted without question so why do people feel the need to use words like fear and narrow-minded when talking about straight people?"
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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Let’s not be solipsistic and apply our own sexual experiences the majority of the population.
Majority of men and women are straight, and if they say they are straight and engage in same sex, then they aren’t straight. It’s that simple.
I do find it strange that we expect straight people to be open-minded when it comes to gay and bi people, but somehow that community can’t be open-minded to the idea that straight people are well, just that - straight. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I'm straight I have absolutely zero interest in women sexually. It's as simple as that, if others think otherwise and try and persuade me as they have on here on more than one occasion that's their issue not mine.
It does not make me narrow minded or scared of trying anything new it just means I don't want sex with another woman. I find it ironic that those who aren't straight seem to have an issue with those that are on here and refuse to believe there is such a thing. But I really think it says more about them and how they can't see beyond themselves.
Let people enjoy what they enjoy and stop pushing your own beliefs on others is my line of thinking. |
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Maybe there’s nothing wrong with their sexuality and it’s just that they don’t want to talk to you, since you aren’t what they paid their money on the club to look for.
Could be just that."
There is such a thing as being sociable to a fellow person regardless of how they dress/sexuality.
Trust me i know the difference on who is secure about being straight and who isn't.
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Who’s knows! Haha
I say I’m straight, I don’t fancy women. Don’t find them attractive or a turn on.
But have played with women in groups because I know the guys I were with love it.
Is that more about pleasing than attraction? Does that make me bi?
No interested in dating or meeting or having sec with women…. But will in a group…
I don’t even know myself anymore haha |
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"I'm straight I have absolutely zero interest in women sexually. It's as simple as that, if others think otherwise and try and persuade me as they have on here on more than one occasion that's their issue not mine.
It does not make me narrow minded or scared of trying anything new it just means I don't want sex with another woman. I find it ironic that those who aren't straight seem to have an issue with those that are on here and refuse to believe there is such a thing. But I really think it says more about them and how they can't see beyond themselves.
Let people enjoy what they enjoy and stop pushing your own beliefs on others is my line of thinking. "
This is perfect. Those who aren’t straight refusing to believe that there are many people who are, are just trying to justify their own insecurities and choices. Leave them to it. |
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Whenever I see these posts it makes me just sigh.
1. It doesn't matter.
2. Stop being self conscious.
3. Don't be homophobic.
Also to the most outspoken people who talk about 100% straightness in every way you don't have some sort of magical power to discern gender either.
There's a trans pornstar who physically looks insanely masculine, square jawed, bald head, muscular, male rough skin, beard and covered in tattoos but has a vagina.
There's also a lot of transwomem pornstars who can 100% pass as women, are tiny, petite, super feminine, great boobs, female voices and a giant cock.
If you saw these people on the street without the ability to see their genitals your mind would read them as the gender they have taken, you'd just see an attractive person and be attracted to them.
At which point the person saying their 100% super straight etc who said anything trans etc is gay... Are you gay now?
It's just such a silly topic. |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
"Whenever I see these posts it makes me just sigh.
1. It doesn't matter.
2. Stop being self conscious.
3. Don't be homophobic.
Also to the most outspoken people who talk about 100% straightness in every way you don't have some sort of magical power to discern gender either.
There's a trans pornstar who physically looks insanely masculine, square jawed, bald head, muscular, male rough skin, beard and covered in tattoos but has a vagina.
There's also a lot of transwomem pornstars who can 100% pass as women, are tiny, petite, super feminine, great boobs, female voices and a giant cock.
If you saw these people on the street without the ability to see their genitals your mind would read them as the gender they have taken, you'd just see an attractive person and be attracted to them.
At which point the person saying their 100% super straight etc who said anything trans etc is gay... Are you gay now?
It's just such a silly topic."
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"is there such a thing as fully straight
Yes there is. I do find it strange though that some people cannot or will not accept that some people are fully straight.
There are apparently fully straight men.
Many of them message me to tell me so and that my pics have got them hard as hell.
But they don't want to meet me.
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"Whenever I see these posts it makes me just sigh.
1. It doesn't matter.
2. Stop being self conscious.
3. Don't be homophobic.
Also to the most outspoken people who talk about 100% straightness in every way you don't have some sort of magical power to discern gender either.
There's a trans pornstar who physically looks insanely masculine, square jawed, bald head, muscular, male rough skin, beard and covered in tattoos but has a vagina.
There's also a lot of transwomem pornstars who can 100% pass as women, are tiny, petite, super feminine, great boobs, female voices and a giant cock.
If you saw these people on the street without the ability to see their genitals your mind would read them as the gender they have taken, you'd just see an attractive person and be attracted to them.
At which point the person saying their 100% super straight etc who said anything trans etc is gay... Are you gay now?
It's just such a silly topic."
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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"Whenever I see these posts it makes me just sigh.
1. It doesn't matter.
2. Stop being self conscious.
3. Don't be homophobic.
Also to the most outspoken people who talk about 100% straightness in every way you don't have some sort of magical power to discern gender either.
There's a trans pornstar who physically looks insanely masculine, square jawed, bald head, muscular, male rough skin, beard and covered in tattoos but has a vagina.
There's also a lot of transwomem pornstars who can 100% pass as women, are tiny, petite, super feminine, great boobs, female voices and a giant cock.
If you saw these people on the street without the ability to see their genitals your mind would read them as the gender they have taken, you'd just see an attractive person and be attracted to them.
At which point the person saying their 100% super straight etc who said anything trans etc is gay... Are you gay now?
It's just such a silly topic.
How is who i choose to have sex with homophobic?. "
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"I had a comment earlier that amused me about someone being super straight. I am happy that I am turned on by many things but is there such a thing as fully straight "
Yes. |
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By *eediousMan
over a year ago
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Maybe there’s nothing wrong with their sexuality and it’s just that they don’t want to talk to you, since you aren’t what they paid their money on the club to look for.
Could be just that.
There is such a thing as being sociable to a fellow person regardless of how they dress/sexuality.
Trust me i know the difference on who is secure about being straight and who isn't.
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I agree about social etiquette. But often, the reality of how people choose to interact or not will not always mirror the social etiquette that other expect from them.
However, it’s a leap to think that their unwillingness to socially engage is a sign of their sexual insecurity.
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever "
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay! |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!"
Why use that langauge? "Terror" does not discribe the simple fact some males simple do not want to touch other males in sexual enviroment. The same as some women may not want to touch other women.
Perhaps
You might like to understand you a projeting the same intolarence that seems to be damned as soo wrong. |
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You can be as straight as a die
But you just want your cock wanking or sucking.
If a man, tv CD ts was to kneel before your cock and suck and wank it, would that make you straight ? Bi ? Curious ?
Just makes you a bloke that wants ti cum.
Now if he wanted to touch or suck my cock then he is not straight |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!"
Did any of them like having their penis fondled in the middle of a ruck? |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!"
the terror comes from years of mates queer bashing and jokes and the internal fear that if you touched a guy you might like it and get hard and that would make you gay. |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!"
Terror?. Its one thing in certain enviroments such as rugby where people will come into contact with one another accidently thats fine but if your saying people openly groping each other is fine?. Surely that is sexual assault?. |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!
Terror?. Its one thing in certain enviroments such as rugby where people will come into contact with one another accidently thats fine but if your saying people openly groping each other is fine?. Surely that is sexual assault?."
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay! the terror comes from years of mates queer bashing and jokes and the internal fear that if you touched a guy you might like it and get hard and that would make you gay. "
Rubbish! Fab is full of sexual activities that turn some people on yet turn others off. You don't have to be terrified of any activity to be turned off by it, even if you haven't tried it. If it's a turn off, it's a turn off. Nothing more, nothing less.
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"For me straight mean 1on1 with partner opposite sex... Never understood how can you be straight playing with couples "
Do you watch porn? (The answer is yes).
In some of the porn you watch do you see a penis go into the woman, or is the camera focused on the penis? (The answer is yes).
It is that... But in person.
I've played with couples before and the male and I haven't interacted in any sexual way other than random chat, times when you may stand back and watch the action happen at points or conversation about position etc.
He's watching his wife get fucked or suck cock, it doesn't mean he wants me to do the same to him.
I don't find the masculine figure or men attractive so I would say I'm straight but if I'm in a club, watching porn or with a couple I don't need a blindfold to hide view of men lol. |
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!
Terror?. Its one thing in certain enviroments such as rugby where people will come into contact with one another accidently thats fine but if your saying people openly groping each other is fine?. Surely that is sexual assault?. agreed. "
Played rugby and in the scrum also played with couples and single guys never have and never would thought or think of touching another guy in a sexual way. Also not homophobic just a straight bloke who enjoys group sex FFS. |
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"For me straight mean 1on1 with partner opposite sex... Never understood how can you be straight playing with couples
Do you watch porn? (The answer is yes).
In some of the porn you watch do you see a penis go into the woman, or is the camera focused on the penis? (The answer is yes).
It is that... But in person.
I've played with couples before and the male and I haven't interacted in any sexual way other than random chat, times when you may stand back and watch the action happen at points or conversation about position etc.
He's watching his wife get fucked or suck cock, it doesn't mean he wants me to do the same to him.
I don't find the masculine figure or men attractive so I would say I'm straight but if I'm in a club, watching porn or with a couple I don't need a blindfold to hide view of men lol."
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Well to be honest if life has taught me anything its not to get hung up on labels (especially experience on fab). If we say being straight is to be devoid of and attraction and/or sexual activity with the same sex I would say most on here aren't straight (men and women). Yet many would consider themselves straight outside of fab. Personally I'd say don't get hung up on labels and identity, just enjoy what you enjoy without apology. It's doesn't really matter as long as you do you. If you enjoy something sexually of that moment it doesn't need to become a life changing existential crisis challenging your whole identity or way of life. Swinging is about freedom. Just embrace the things that bring you joy. I would say there's a lot of people who are more straightish than straight. Who enjoy same sex sexual activity or limited acts (such as oral) but relationship wise would only seek the opposite sex. I think there is a nuance between what many desire relationship wise and sexually.
However I'm probably as straight as you'll get (ironically as camp as I am). Not by personal constraint or desire. I'm comfortable enough in my own skin to seek what I enjoy and what I want in life without worry of stigma. I am to some extent in this scene annoying limited by my sexuallity. However my sexuallity is hard wired how it is. I just have completely no intrest in the same sex or any kind of sexual encounter with the same sex. Even in an environment where its on the table should I desire it.
However think most people if not bi and more straightish than straight.
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
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"I am 100% straight not touching another bloke whatsoever
Not having a go at the person who posted this in particular, but for me this is where it becomes a bit strange.
I can understand having absolutely no sexual attraction to other men whatsoever, and only being turned on by women. I'm sure there are many men like that.
But why the terror of touching another guy that some have? What are they so scared about? I played rugby at school, and I can assure everyone that touching another guy doesn't turn you gay!"
Really depends on the situation. I used to be very touchy before covid (wonder why that is not a part of me any more hmmm), but touching someones arm or something is different than touching while naked during a threesome maybe. You don't want to invite anything or make it weird. |
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Yes I’d say there is such a thing as pure straight, each to there own everyone has there kinks & turn on’s but I personally don’t find anything male orientated attractive or a turn on. I do however believe everyone has their own kinks & should embrace them just go out & enjoy what you love! |
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"Rubbish! Fab is full of sexual activities that turn some people on yet turn others off. You don't have to be terrified of any activity to be turned off by it, even if you haven't tried it. If it's a turn off, it's a turn off. Nothing more, nothing less.
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I'm sure that's 100% correct about you, and I completely understand. I agree that you don't have to be terrified about something not to want to do it.
But look around for a while and you'll soon come across other people that sound pretty terrified. People whose whole identity seems to be about "not being gay". And that seems to be a bit strange in the modern world.
During an orgy I've tried sucking a guy, because why wouldn't you try new things when you're a swinger? But to be honest it was about as sexy to me as having an uncooked pork sausage in my mouth. If anyone wants to call me "bi" or "straight" on that basis, I really don't care.
(And before anyone gets on their high-horse, yes, of course it was with consent.)
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
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Ive come to conclude that my idea of str8 is completely irrelevant.
It's all about the other person and how they define themselves.
I just meet them where they're at and chose to accept the way they identify and define themselves.
Ocasionaly I get a nice surprise and find out that the male partner in a str8 couple, likes to blur the boundaries under certain circumstances, which is just a bonus as far as I'm concerned |
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