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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being asked lots of personal questions by a total random online stranger ....almost like an interrogation....
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A total random online stranger striking up sex talk when zero connection or spark or chemistry & expects me to take part....that's just creepy & freaky to me....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Smoking.
Copulation pictures where socks are being worn.
Poor dental hygiene.
Poor grammar and punctuation.
Background pictures of unkempt houses.
Pictures of stained bed linen
To name but a few |
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"What stops you in your tracks
For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "
Daddy, Alpha, Dom. Guys bragging on their profile about how big their cock size or how they can lick pussy for hours  |
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"Being asked for Kik or Telegram 2 messages in "
Same or whats app
Also people who want to meet straight away we r busy we can fit you in when we can we r very picky
If u like us you shud wait please |
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"What stops you in your tracks
For me it's the term "daddy" it sends a Cold shiver down my spine "
* Vix changes knickers into something less offensive* lol
On a serious note though
*bad grammar
*poor hygiene
*being asked 1001 questions.
*wanting to swap numbers or socials after a few messages.
*Txt talk wuu2? Hru? Faf?
(Though I'm guilty of this too, I say lol far too much even when nothing is funny lol) |
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By *9erloverMan
over a year ago
Sleepy Dorset |
"Smoking.
Copulation pictures where socks are being worn.
Poor dental hygiene.
Poor grammar and punctuation.
Background pictures of unkempt houses.
Pictures of stained bed linen
To name but a few"
All of the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pierced nipples and vaginas
Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that  "
Men and female anatomy..........huh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pierced nipples and vaginas
Do you mean pierced labia? The vagina is the inner 'tube' that accommodates the penis, you can't pierce that
Men and female anatomy..........huhpedantic people. "
If it's pedantry to encourage people to use the correct terminology for the body parts they wish to intimately interact with then I'm more than happy to be a pedantic. Not using the right name for the relevant parts could lead to all sorts of miscommunications in the bedroom, and find it worrying that some grown adults don't actually know the names of the parts they are referring to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X
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"Crocs
They're a passion killer of the highest order
I use Crocs for slippers and another pair for the garden. I'm gutted."
I wear them at Kestrels because I trip wearing flip flops... although never ever worn in pics. Gosh I've just outed myself.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X
Ravenous  xx"
Nah that makes me think of food. Mmmn food….!!’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dislike the word “horny”, but I have not yet found a suitable replacement for it. I think it needs to be another singular word in my opinion. Suggestions are appreciated!! X
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Aroused
Moist
Girded loins |
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"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway. "
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not but "Hotwife" is a label used for Women who play with others with their Partner's full approval and encouragement (but not in a Cuckold-type way), it is not necessarily a Woman's opinion of her own physical attractiveness.
Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot". |
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"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway.
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not but "Hotwife" is a label used for Women who play with others with their Partner's full approval and encouragement (but not in a Cuckold-type way), it is not necessarily a Woman's opinion of her own physical attractiveness.
Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot"."
I mean it in the sense of their opinion. A quick name search shows a number of 'hotwife' singletons. |
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"For me it's profiles that say 'hotwife',I personally tend to find that they're not as sexy as they think they are, or they're so far up themselves that I wouldn't want to meet them anyway.
I'm not sure if you're being sarcastic or not but "Hotwife" is a label used for Women who play with others with their Partner's full approval and encouragement (but not in a Cuckold-type way), it is not necessarily a Woman's opinion of her own physical attractiveness.
Although admittedly, I struggled to accept using this label as I thought the same and I don't consider myself "hot".I mean it in the sense of their opinion. A quick name search shows a number of 'hotwife' singletons. "
The ones I am seeing still describe a Hotwife scenario in their profile.
Many Hotwives will have single profiles as often you're meeting HER, not her Husband. |
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Willie's over a toilet with pee in it
Babe ,slut, cumbitch ,daddy ,step-mum
Being asked what I like !!
Asking my fantasy!!
Being asked if I'm free from someone just joined ,no pics anything
Saturday night randoms
Oh and standing on lego |
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Daddy does nothing for me.
Coffee, cigarette or beer breath.
Poor personal hygiene.
Hairy panty wearers.
People that don't read profiles and send random friends requests.
People that think the world revolves around them.
Ugly dick pics.
Etc, etc, etc.
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"For us the biggest is guys wearing lingerie. Instant deal breaker."
Yes - not our thing - and some of the user names people come up with…not sure when they thought they were a good idea / attractive in any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A untidy home in the photo 
Breed me messages knock me sick !
Bad manners !
Bad banter !
And in person I’d actually simply walk away if personal hygiene was lacking …..
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Messages that say, I love your photos. What, the photos you can't see because they are private.
Wanting numbers or photos on the 2nd message.
The bloke that keeps messaging to say he's won 15k or 10k and wants to celebrate |
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Professional... I kind of understand if you run a swinger business, but other than that. Please, It's not a job, nor are we machines.
Men profiles yet they are couples or women.
Filters, or mega outdated pics.
No pics at all on profile, not even the main one. who cares if you're clothed,not,just, have a Pic, somehow, as we all know why we are here, let's face it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mysteriously having a couples profile with model like pics of lady only and loads of profile updates about meeting with M only as away on business etc. Honestly it's so transparent just set up a M profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some accounts constantly posting the most pointless updates daily. I really couldn’t care if you’re leaving fab for a while, or you’re back or shaming the opposite sex. If you’re leaving fab or taking a break, do it and we know you still are always logging in lol. The site doesn’t need play by play of your day |
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By *arkRichMan
over a year ago
Manchester City Centre |
I was going to meet someone on here in a hotel nearby… and then she said, “get me some ciggies on your way over, or a vape”
Wasn’t for me… 
I bave dated smokers where you can’t tell… but it’s just a turn off - sorry to offend anyone |
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In my profile I have a note of 3 or 4 things that are just absolute “nos” for me.
If you message me and discuss any of the things that I have implicitly said I don’t like, you’re not even getting a response mate. |
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"Swearing during sex. Literally no need. "
I can understand someone saying something like 'Fuck me hard' or 'Fuck me deep' during sex but what is with the constant use of 'the fuck', 'like fuck', 'as fuck' etc in profile statements or forum correspondence? It's worse than the constant inclusion of 'literally' and equally unnecessary. |
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