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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Recently had a meet with a Fab guy. They were a few hours of fabulous fun and he came 3 times! As I only play safe he had a condom on at all times throughout penetrative sex.
However, whenever he was about to come, he withdrew and came outside me. When I finally asked him why he did that he said that most women he met on Fab preferred he did so, so he assumed the same with me.
Even using a condom?!!!
Is this usual? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Recently had a meet with a Fab guy. They were a few hours of fabulous fun and he came 3 times! As I only play safe he had a condom on at all times throughout penetrative sex.
However, whenever he was about to come, he withdrew and came outside me. When I finally asked him why he did that he said that most women he met on Fab preferred he did so, so he assumed the same with me.
Even using a condom?!!!
Is this usual?"
Btw hot body there girl! Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I can't have them cum in me, I like it when they cum on me. I've been quite surprised at the speed some men can get the condom off so they can do it in time."
ok im being a nosey fooker now but why cant you have a guy cum inside you if hes got a condom on?  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"As I can't have them cum in me, I like it when they cum on me. I've been quite surprised at the speed some men can get the condom off so they can do it in time.
ok im being a nosey fooker now but why cant you have a guy cum inside you if hes got a condom on? "
Because technically he's cumming in the condom, not me.
I don't mind a good mutual orgasm at all, but if I've already peaked I like to see proof that he's enjoyed it too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would go mad if I guy came inside me in a condom. It's an utter waste. And very risky for spillage. As I often pull them off.
So I would make it clear to a guy not to cum in the condom. It would leave me feeling all miserable if it was wasted. As I can't have it where it should go. Then over me or in my mouth is a must. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From a fellas perspective, don't think I'd like doing that. I'd have to be whipping the condom off and spreading the love over whatever part the lovely lady desired why would you leave it on to cum if your not shagging? How bizzare  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Prefer to cum in a condom in a woman to be fair... Love the grip of a woman on my cock as I cum... I do tend to get thicker as I cum lol.... But that said if I'm get a blow job I will cum on the lady if they want that then snowball them |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Recently had a meet with a Fab guy. They were a few hours of fabulous fun and he came 3 times! As I only play safe he had a condom on at all times throughout penetrative sex.
However, whenever he was about to come, he withdrew and came outside me. When I finally asked him why he did that he said that most women he met on Fab preferred he did so, so he assumed the same with me.
Even using a condom?!!!
Is this usual?"
i dont get it, you wore protection and he still wouldn't cum in you 
Maybe he doesn't trust condoms or doesn't want to risk one his soldiers escaping and impregnating you
Personally if i play i'd prefer to cum inside my partner so she felt me finally let go & hopefully enjoy it as much as me |
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"Been watching far too much porn...."
Tell me about it!
Had one playmate whip off the condom then proceeded to spray his cum around my room! I...was...FURIOUS!!!
Asked him wtf and asked him to leave, wouldn't let him use my shower, lucky I let him get dressed!
I had to do a forensic clean and change the bedding as my youngest always jumped on my bed to tell me about her day. Didn't want her lying in cum!  |
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"This may seem naive, but, does an orgasm feel better inside a woman, or on? Or is it just the same?"
Much better inside.
Also, i find some of the responses bizzare. If i'm wearing a condom, i'm cumming inside the condom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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..to me that sounds a bit strange (no offence to whom you met) but its always feels nicer to cum inside and then cum again outside (if you havent finished cumming fully) wherever she is comfortable.
But, of course. Each to their own.
Hope you both had a good time regardless
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Prefer to cum in a condom in a woman to be fair... Love the grip of a woman on my cock as I cum... I do tend to get thicker as I cum lol.... But that said if I'm get a blow job I will cum on the lady if they want that then snowball them "
I tried that. She went feckin apeshit cos i got snow down her back!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Recently had a meet with a Fab guy. They were a few hours of fabulous fun and he came 3 times! As I only play safe he had a condom on at all times throughout penetrative sex.
However, whenever he was about to come, he withdrew and came outside me. When I finally asked him why he did that he said that most women he met on Fab preferred he did so, so he assumed the same with me.
Even using a condom?!!!
Is this usual?"
Odd as hell if you ask me!
The final thrust and cum (condoms on) is the satisfaction and Mmmmmm, maybe he had watched too many porn films, thus the cumming over the fem?!
I prefer to cum whilst inside (condom on), and then leave my cock in, to hold, kiss and feel as one whist I have the satisfaction (and the lady), to hold, feel as one, wow! Why waste this and cum in a condom outside!
I could almost understand if he withdrew and pulled condom off and cum over you, this can also be great fun if you both like to see cum shoot out and over her.
Odd man!! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to agree it is a little odd.
Myself personally prefer the guy to cum in the condom inside me.. Its much more pleasurable for me, and after all. I am on here for my kinks and pleasure.
Each to their own as long as its safe sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ow yes!
When I fuck, I want to cum inside (condom), that moment, of done right, fore play being very important, then to cum together, wow! No other feeling like it
Why pull out, I for onme certainly wouldn't, I want to feel my partner in my arms, the sound of her breath, the smell of her, to kiss the nape of her neck, the togetherness, that perfect moment.
Why rob yourself of that or for that the other person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This may seem naive, but, does an orgasm feel better inside a woman, or on? Or is it just the same?
Much better inside.
Also, i find some of the responses bizzare. If i'm wearing a condom, i'm cumming inside the condom. "
I've actually not met guys again for cummin in the condom. I see no point in doing so. I get no satisfaction from it. I actually when playing make it quite clear that cum is not to be wasted in a condom.
But then I wouldn't be laying back being held or kissed either. I just like to turn around and get my mouth around.
It's just for me an utter waste in a condom. You get no feeling from it like you do when filled. And I find it disappointing. Much better if he let's me taste him or feel it all over me. |
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My wife likes both,if we are at a club wife will play with guys they can cum inside with condom,and if they are good enough to go again she and I like them to slip out and cum over her,we do have one guy who is allowed to shoot his load in her or she will swallow.but we would not do this at the club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been watching far too much porn....
Tell me about it!
Had one playmate whip off the condom then proceeded to spray his cum around my room! I...was...FURIOUS!!!
Asked him wtf and asked him to leave, wouldn't let him use my shower, lucky I let him get dressed!
I had to do a forensic clean and change the bedding as my youngest always jumped on my bed to tell me about her day. Didn't want her lying in cum! "
Really made me chuckle... Have a comedy image in my head of this guy pumping it all over you room!  |
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Dunno how it is for other guys, but if i'm about to cum, and have to stop to remove a condom, get in position and cum all over a lady (or in their mouth, etc) it utterly destroys the feeling of my orgasm. It is as much a mental thing for some of us as it is for members of the opposite sex.
Which leads back to my original response. I'm already wearing a condom at that point, i'd rather get the most pleasure i can out of that all things considered. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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ive been asked to pull out and empty on her face or chest - thing is even though they/she has asked .. you can see the fait disappointment at it.
Only had a few women who in the moment get off with guns blazing at it. Its quite horny though off putting if they are just assuming youd like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Without up setting flow (if you pardon the pun) -
Form a Bi male perspective; if a man is fucking me and wants to come over me rather than in with condom; i let them; but always feel is that not a possible waste of a climax...although some men have good control all that fumbling about etc; sure takes some felling out of it ????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ten to twenty hard thrusts is normally enough for me to shoot my baby gravy..where it lands is pot luck.. My biggest worry is skid marks in my boxers if I'm getting a blow job! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ten to twenty hard thrusts is normally enough for me to shoot my baby gravy..where it lands is pot luck.. My biggest worry is skid marks in my boxers if I'm getting a blow job! "
a man of many a nice word we see lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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perhaps a lack of communication is the only aspect
lots of people have different wants, I dont see anything strange in how he wanted to come and it isnt about watching too many porn movies..thats a shitty remark
some like cum inside them(safe or bare) some like it orally or on the body
cUmmunication is the key thats all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been asked to pull out and empty on her face or chest - thing is even though they/she has asked .. you can see the fait disappointment at it.
Only had a few women who in the moment get off with guns blazing at it. Its quite horny though off putting if they are just assuming youd like it "
I do ask that they cum over my face or boobs simply because I love it. It's horny to watch, makes me feel so dirty in a good kind of way and the look on their face as they cum and subsequently look at me covered in their spunk is totally incredible!
So I do prefer them to cum over me rather than in the condom in me...... |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"ive been asked to pull out and empty on her face or chest - thing is even though they/she has asked .. you can see the fait disappointment at it.
Only had a few women who in the moment get off with guns blazing at it. Its quite horny though off putting if they are just assuming youd like it
I do ask that they cum over my face or boobs simply because I love it. It's horny to watch, makes me feel so dirty in a good kind of way and the look on their face as they cum and subsequently look at me covered in their spunk is totally incredible!
So I do prefer them to cum over me rather than in the condom in me......"
lol - fancy a meet? haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been asked to pull out and empty on her face or chest - thing is even though they/she has asked .. you can see the fait disappointment at it.
Only had a few women who in the moment get off with guns blazing at it. Its quite horny though off putting if they are just assuming youd like it
I do ask that they cum over my face or boobs simply because I love it. It's horny to watch, makes me feel so dirty in a good kind of way and the look on their face as they cum and subsequently look at me covered in their spunk is totally incredible!
So I do prefer them to cum over me rather than in the condom in me......
lol - fancy a meet? haha "
Lol I only meet chimneys sorry! |
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"Been watching far too much porn....
Tell me about it!
Had one playmate whip off the condom then proceeded to spray his cum around my room! I...was...FURIOUS!!!
Asked him wtf and asked him to leave, wouldn't let him use my shower, lucky I let him get dressed!
I had to do a forensic clean and change the bedding as my youngest always jumped on my bed to tell me about her day. Didn't want her lying in cum! "
please tell me you change the sheets both before and after play?
as far as the OP and yourself, it just goes to show you should never assume anything and that if you've a rule for condom and cum play you need to say, as despite the commonly held belief we men in general are not psychic.
It seems a waste to empty into a condom but thats safe play. i've heard that some ladies will happily dispose of the cum from within a condom?
So please take into account there are some guys that would prefer to see their cum put to other uses lol and that may have been his experience to date.
So communicate!
Still cant believe you dont change your bedding after play! there's always a chance of damp spots caused by yourself!
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"Ten to twenty hard thrusts is normally enough for me to shoot my baby gravy..where it lands is pot luck.. My biggest worry is skid marks in my boxers if I'm getting a blow job! "
Baby gravy! skid marks! pot luck!
JHC! how do some manage to find this site let alone be allowed to join beggars belief!
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Safer yes, but I tend to orgasm at same time so would be very VERY frustrating !!
