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Are you aware of how your partner acts on Fab?
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Noticing a trend where I’ll chat away with the female half of a couple for a day or 2, maybe get up to some sexting or planning where they seem super excited and sending pictures, then I’ll wake up one day to a message from the male half saying this and that or things like “you can’t handle her” and 10 minutes later I’m blocked
So I’m curious, for shared accounts, do you discuss what you get up to on Fab with your partner? Do you think these scenarios are jealousy or insecurity? Or am I just being let down in a nice way lol |
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By *mpishMan
over a year ago
Lincoln |
I started on this site a long while ago on a shared account with my then fiancée. It started out where we would only go on the site together in the evenings after work, that way we could decide who to chat to together. It kinda drifted from that where a lot of the meets ended up just being her decision. So I wouldn't take anything said to you personally, couples disagree about everything all the time for a variety of reasons. |
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We both have access to the account so yes, we're aware.
I guess if it's happening to you a lot the couple probably have no intention of meeting and when they've had their fun he steps in to put an end to yours. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
our couples account his single account and my single account we both have passwords and access a proper swinging couple will have nothing to hide and we hide nothing its just not who we are no one is stronger than us 2 in our eyes thats why we swing ie one rock solid loving couple live life how we want to live life
i even have access to his fab guys account and all our other accounts on other platforms hell we even know each other bank details n pass words  we hide nothing there no reason too |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
like many many couples we avoid the male lead ones like the plague .. where the women dont seem to want or being bullied into it its normally men who cant stand seeing there mrs with someone better than themslves between the sheets or rule who they meet or not totally avoid and if you dont see it before you meet and it happens at a meet we walk away .... swinging is decided by both not a bully
and yes its shocking how many bullied halfs swing due to pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can find a couple dynamic tricky to establish online.
I much prefer to come across them in a club, that way I can talk to both and see how they interact with each other and myself.
Just easier. |
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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago
Dundalk |
We've had less then 30 messages in total since creating this account but we both have full access to it and have our own single accounts also.
We take turns replying to the messages we do receive.
On my single account 90 percent of the conversations I've had with couples over the years have been female led.
Just like the op I've chatted pleasantly for days or even weeks and suddenly the tone changes and I've been given lists of instructions and demands when the male half decides to measure his dick.
I don't send messages so all these conversations were started by the couples and the 10 percent who were male led weren't interested in chatting.
Their opening messages just told me what I had to do to have any chance of meeting them.
As a direct result I'm no longer interested in meeting couples as a single.
RB
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both use the account and aware of all messages been sent what's the point in hiding any of it. Mr does tend to be online more often through the day because he has more chance to pop on and off while at work but we tend to discuss everything |
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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago
Alton |
I've messaged (and the latest couple I had an awesome meet with) a few couples who put with m, f or mf at the bottom of the message. So you know who you're talking to.
I've found its often the couple who both have access to the account at different times. Maybe due to one being able to check at work. But it also shows they are both open and honest.
Definitely a green flag for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our schedules are so different, we can't make it a tradition to do it together very often. We are aware of everything the other half is doing of course. |
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We both read the messages. I usually reply to messages and tell John everything that is said in said messages. We never hid anything from each other ever. If we meet anyone it's always a joint decision and never just mine alone
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We both log in at different times mainly. Sometime together.
Both have access so no secrets at all.
Becky likes that I do most of the Fabmin and keep up with people.
We also both have singles accounts that occasionally get used.
The male led couples profiles where the female partner is oblivious to its existence are the ones who annoy us. |
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Mr acts as moron filter and Mrs gets final say on everything. Our main focus is spoiling Mrs with extra when she wants it.
Mr just deleted the unverified, rude, clearly lying about ages ones and let's Mrs choose from there.
Then duties include the inevitable "can't find the house" guiding due to the estate we are on. Followed by a photography and finally joining in
Almost a second job!
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