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So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men are attracted to femininity, you dres as a girl and they treat you like one then they do not have to be gay. I am more baffled by girls who say they are gay but want to meet men. |
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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. "
They are bi but dont want to admit to it
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Don’t really suppose it matters.
People get too hung up on labels.
I’ll only play with women in group fun situations. No interested in dating or meeting 1:1 with women. But will play together in a group situation as it’s a hot vibe and go with the flow.
I wouldn’t say I’m bi.
Straight women say I’m wrong for saying I’m straight.
Bi women say I should be straight cos I’m not “bi” like them… can’t win. |
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Dont care if guys like other men but be honest about it if your gay your gay, if your bi your bi. Dont be telling the world you're straight but like sucking on next man tings because you making yourself look silly |
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It really comes down to what you define as sexuality.
If you close you wear a VR headset and watch a woman sucking your cock but it's actually a man doing it, does that make your bi? Honestly I don't know, and I have stopped trying to work this stuff out.
I love playing with cock, but I don't find men/males attractive. However interestingly I find TVs even less attractive than men. Go figure.
I don't like to identify as bi in normal life because I'd not have a relationship with a guy, and I don't view men and women sexually equal so I'd feel a fraud saying I was bi, however I am definitely not straight, because I do enjoy playing with cock which ultimately means playing with men.
It's a complex spectrum and I think the reality is that there's a gap in sexuality between straight and bi, and for the purposes of Fab, bi-curious seems to fill that void. |
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Men who verify other men have not necessarily had a gay / bi encounter together, they could have been at socials, parties, MFMs and gangbangs… or a married couple profile changes to a single male profile - the veri changes too. |
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It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not |
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I didn't say all men. But I have read some men's verifications and they have played with a number of guys . But I guess saying bi curious is just easier for them. I'm not judging anyone as it's a free country. |
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"I don't see why it should be thought. As a bi man I always thing that it's just double the fun. . This is a sex site after all. "
Some people won't meet bi men. Best to just tick Straight. |
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"I don't see why it should be thought. As a bi man I always thing that it's just double the fun. . This is a sex site after all.
Some people won't meet bi men. Best to just tick Straight. "
For whatever reason some people won't meet Bi Men, So what you're saying is its best to lie to them ?
I don't see the issue calling them Bi or Gay if they like to meet Men or suck cock etc Why get up tight about other people saying you're Bi or gay, You're on a site looking to meet up and you probably keep it private that you're on here, its 2023 not the 50s |
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This again, firstly it’s no one else’s business how someone defines themselves.
Secondly many people are perfectly capable of having sex with someone they’re not attracted to, whichever way round it goes. Gay people have been settling down into straight relationships and having kids since forever and plenty of straight people have had same sex sex just to enjoy the physical act. |
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"You know what people are missing the point so will longer repeat myself"
No one’s missing the point, it’s just not that black and white.
I’ve had sex with women. I don’t find them attractive. Only in situations where I know men like it. I’d never date a woman, or even have sex with one alone.
Bi women say I’m not bi. Straight women say I’m probably bi.
Couldn’t care less which it is, it was fun at the time cos the guys loved it.
Sex and attraction can be very separate. |
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Does it matter?
If they're not attracted to men, but fuck someone in the arse from behind who looks like a girl, but wouldn't be interested in a penis or anyone male presenting, it would be pointless to say they're bi.
People can define themselves however they want. |
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"Does it matter?
If they're not attracted to men, but fuck someone in the arse from behind who looks like a girl, but wouldn't be interested in a penis or anyone male presenting, it would be pointless to say they're bi.
People can define themselves however they want."
Can I be a rotten cabbage? |
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Gay man has sex with a woman is he bisexual or can he still claim to be homosexual ?
Does the gay community insist he’s bisexual and he should stop labelling himself gay ?
Or does he get a say in who’s he’s attracted to and how he should label himself ?
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"Does it matter?
If they're not attracted to men, but fuck someone in the arse from behind who looks like a girl, but wouldn't be interested in a penis or anyone male presenting, it would be pointless to say they're bi.
People can define themselves however they want."
2 straight men can fuck each other and still be straight.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Meh it’s just straight up double standards, seen a lot of it over the years.
Women are almost expected/presumed to be at least bi-curious. That’s celebrated.
While men, even being honest about being a bit bi-curious will get their sexuality questioned.
Just like in these kind of threads lol
How people choose to identify is up to them, but I’ve more and more understood why men ‘hide’ their bi side on here. Some awful bigots about.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Being curious isn’t being gay or being bi isn’t what defines as gay is you openly telling people your gay u mite think
Want to be gay untill had s cock up the arse lol I’ve been told it hurts really bad but the still love it lol |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
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My comment above isn’t a theory. On one of the recent bi party I licked a pussy with a gay guy (married to a man). Is he now bi curious or bisexual because he really loved it? Or is he still gay?
If you can answer this question to yourself OP, you’d understand the point |
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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. "
Why does it actually matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone knows that you're only really gay when you can't resist coming on a public forum to define when people should and shouldn't declare they are bi.
Insecure? I'm open to come suck anyone's dick that needs to confirm they don't like it and they aren't gay  |
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Labels are useful to sort through the hundreds of people on this site.
But a label is not the person.
I've ticked bi, because I am attracted to people who appear feminine, whatever they have inside their underwear.
So women, mtf transsexuals and transvestites.
Not particularly interested in manly men. |
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"Meh it’s just straight up double standards, seen a lot of it over the years.
Women are almost expected/presumed to be at least bi-curious. That’s celebrated.
While men, even being honest about being a bit bi-curious will get their sexuality questioned.
Just like in these kind of threads lol
How people choose to identify is up to them, but I’ve more and more understood why men ‘hide’ their bi side on here. Some awful bigots about.
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You're right there women are encouraged to be bi, because so many men get off on it.
It doesn't matter how people choose to see themselves, but what does matter is that they are honest with potential meets.
If you want bi play be upfront, I say this because I'm straight and half a couple. We've spoken to couples where the fem has been listed as straight & we've discussed we only do full/soft swap of opposite partners.
They've agreed that's fine, then later tried to bring up fem to fem play. That's not on offer and was a total waste of our time.
I can see why men hide it, as they are more looked down on by some couples and ladies. |
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"Being curious isn’t being gay or being bi isn’t what defines as gay is you openly telling people your gay u mite think
Want to be gay untill had s cock up the arse lol I’ve been told it hurts really bad but the still love it lol "
Whoever told you it's hurts real bad to have a cock up your arse, isn't doing it properly..
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" So having been on here for a little while now as looking at plenty of profiles . How can men say they are straight, but are willing to meet TV/TS. Or the ones that say Bi curious. But they have many verifications from guys. Surely they are Bi , and not curious any more. What's every ones thoughts. "
In a world where people can identify as penguins I wouldn’t worry about it mate you’re in a losing battle   |
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not"
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them. "
Stupid...
Bi curious... Thinking about it
Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more ..
Simple... |
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them.
Stupid...
Bi curious... Thinking about it
Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more ..
Simple..."
this right here, I tend to explore and if it feels good why the hell not. |
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them.
Stupid...
Bi curious... Thinking about it
Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more ..
Simple..."
If you say so |
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By *arl17Man
over a year ago
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them.
Stupid...
Bi curious... Thinking about it
Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more ..
Simple...
If you say so "
Yup... Not a snowflake and don't need numerous labels to describe simple stuff...
Pretty simple really x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesnt matter but people should be honest on who they are. Because when men claim that they straight but like men on the Down Low then it it gives an expression that other straight men must be like that too which believe me they're not
It can be the same for straight women too, because so many say they're straight untill wet or don't see themselves as bi when they regularly play with women , many assume we are all a bit bi curious.
Fab needs to update the options I think, to include bi friendly or bi playful, it's very out dated and sexuality is on a spectrum, from hetero right up to gay.
Some will fall rigidly on one end and many seem to be inbetween somewhere.
People may be more inclined to be upfront if there were other options available to them.
Stupid...
Bi curious... Thinking about it
Bisexual... Done it and liked it.. and want more ..
Simple...
If you say so
Yup... Not a snowflake and don't need numerous labels to describe simple stuff...
Pretty simple really x"
Watch out everyone - Karl has just sorted out decades of scientific study in one moment of brilliance.
There’s definitely only 3 types of sexualities across people now. Karl’s logic is just that irrefutable, can’t believe I didn’t see it sooner!
We should get him in to sort out Palestine/Isreal too |
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It topic of conversation is equal parts boring as it funny, particularly as we move on as a society and sexuality becomes less and less of an issue.
How you define yourself is… your business.
What is funny to me is the limitations people put on them shelves and the naivety that surrounds that.
For example a couple that states ‘absolutely no bi couples or bi males.’
Again, that’s fine and your business. But it’s… a bit naive to think just because these men have ‘straight’ on their profiles doesn’t mean aren’t their meeting men on the side. Believe me. |
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Three categories is never going to be enough to describe the spectrum of different sexualities on here.
A lot of people commenting are really saying that they'd like people to use categories that would make their personal search easier. Sorry, but it's not all about you. |
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