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Can you see if our profile is good?
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Hey,
We’re both new to this (6 weeks In) We have adjusted our profile description and pictures over that time as we were getting a lot of wasted messages and having to ask single males to actually read the profile before messaging but we still get bombarded with irrelevant messages all the time. Genuinely feels like a part time job lol.
Any tips on how to actually get people to read the description before messaging?
Also we get called fake a lot because apparently our pictures don’t look legit lol… Help! (We are 100% verified too)
Thanks I’m advanced for any tips xx |
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Block single men and search for the ones you think are suitable you should be able to tell from reading their profile if they might fit the bill.
I think you need to add in what anyone meeting you can expect to get from the encounter at the moment it seems your profile is all about what you expect from them.
Good luck. |
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When you find out the answer let me know 
I've been here years and people still don't read my profile.
I think your profile is very eye catching and appealing but I don't think you'll ever be able to get everyone to read it. People just see the photos and that's as far as they go before pinging a message across. |
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"Hey,
We’re both new to this (6 weeks In) We have adjusted our profile description and pictures over that time as we were getting a lot of wasted messages and having to ask single males to actually read the profile before messaging but we still get bombarded with irrelevant messages all the time. Genuinely feels like a part time job lol.
Any tips on how to actually get people to read the description before messaging?
Also we get called fake a lot because apparently our pictures don’t look legit lol… Help! (We are 100% verified too)
Thanks I’m advanced for any tips xx"
Looks great to me nice mixture of pics definitely does not look fake some people get jealous just carry on as you are you have some good verifications hopefully it will settle down x |
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We do like it when men message first to be fair, we rarely search ourselves… but yes you’re right we should probably add in more for what we want from the guy but we also want it to be quite a natural meet, which is why we’ve only said if you think you can build a connection with us (hoping this would mean we’d get more messages that just aren’t ‘Hi’ or ‘Like my cock pictures’) lol |
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"Block single men and search for the ones you think are suitable you should be able to tell from reading their profile if they might fit the bill.
I think you need to add in what anyone meeting you can expect to get from the encounter at the moment it seems your profile is all about what you expect from them.
Good luck. "
Does this look better? X
Hey,
We are looking for more of a long term FWB rather than random hookups so Please include face pictures and any other pictures you think we may like in your first message if you’d like to get to know us more. Please include something interesting in your message as we tend to receive a lot of the same old same old. Here to connect before meeting remember
Our world is very positive and we keep a positive vibe all the time so if you feel like you can throw yourself into us and build a connection get in touch. In return we will make you feel comfortable in our presence and make you feel like you’re part of our relationship whilst we’re together. This will show in the bedroom too
We do try to reply to everyone, if you aren’t our type we will tell you to save us all time and effort.
Oh, and we only meet in posh/nice hotels on our first meet. A social before and then back to the room for the fun.
Happy fabbing x |
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"Hey,
We’re both new to this (6 weeks In) We have adjusted our profile description and pictures over that time as we were getting a lot of wasted messages and having to ask single males to actually read the profile before messaging but we still get bombarded with irrelevant messages all the time. Genuinely feels like a part time job lol.
Any tips on how to actually get people to read the description before messaging?
Also we get called fake a lot because apparently our pictures don’t look legit lol… Help! (We are 100% verified too)
Thanks I’m advanced for any tips xx"
I thought the account was pretty good. Your public pics show enough and still leave stuff to the fun imagination. Your bio is clear about what you want. Only thing I’d say is maybe list a few things you are both into doing and that might attract people in to talk about them or maybe lead onto a road of discovery
But overall nice profile  |
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"Block single men and search for the ones you think are suitable you should be able to tell from reading their profile if they might fit the bill.
I think you need to add in what anyone meeting you can expect to get from the encounter at the moment it seems your profile is all about what you expect from them.
Good luck.
Does this look better? X
Hey,
We are looking for more of a long term FWB rather than random hookups so Please include face pictures and any other pictures you think we may like in your first message if you’d like to get to know us more. Please include something interesting in your message as we tend to receive a lot of the same old same old. Here to connect before meeting remember
Our world is very positive and we keep a positive vibe all the time so if you feel like you can throw yourself into us and build a connection get in touch. In return we will make you feel comfortable in our presence and make you feel like you’re part of our relationship whilst we’re together. This will show in the bedroom too
We do try to reply to everyone, if you aren’t our type we will tell you to save us all time and effort.
Oh, and we only meet in posh/nice hotels on our first meet. A social before and then back to the room for the fun.
Happy fabbing x "
The thing is I'm not a single guy but if I was the type who was willing to be a long term FWB I'd be wondering how many times I could afford half a nice hotel, would you expect me to be available once a week, once a month...that sort of thing. A lot of the men on here will try to appeal to everyone hence me advising you to look for the men that directly appeal to you via their profile. |
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You’ll be fake to the people that you say no to…it’s a standard response on here!
Don’t waste your time on FAB going through messages that aren’t for you.
Look for people instead of waiting to see what’s in your inbox - start developing connections - they take time to build up.
You both look good but it’s also about getting your personalities across too.
Good luck 
K |
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"Block single men and search for the ones you think are suitable you should be able to tell from reading their profile if they might fit the bill.
I think you need to add in what anyone meeting you can expect to get from the encounter at the moment it seems your profile is all about what you expect from them.
Good luck.
Does this look better? X
Hey,
We are looking for more of a long term FWB rather than random hookups so Please include face pictures and any other pictures you think we may like in your first message if you’d like to get to know us more. Please include something interesting in your message as we tend to receive a lot of the same old same old. Here to connect before meeting remember
Our world is very positive and we keep a positive vibe all the time so if you feel like you can throw yourself into us and build a connection get in touch. In return we will make you feel comfortable in our presence and make you feel like you’re part of our relationship whilst we’re together. This will show in the bedroom too
We do try to reply to everyone, if you aren’t our type we will tell you to save us all time and effort.
Oh, and we only meet in posh/nice hotels on our first meet. A social before and then back to the room for the fun.
Happy fabbing x
The thing is I'm not a single guy but if I was the type who was willing to be a long term FWB I'd be wondering how many times I could afford half a nice hotel, would you expect me to be available once a week, once a month...that sort of thing. A lot of the men on here will try to appeal to everyone hence me advising you to look for the men that directly appeal to you via their profile. "
Sorry I got distracted by a cup of tea. I should have added to that. It looks much better. If I was a single man I'd find it very attractive and feel that you respected me as an individual.
I hope you both find what you're looking for. |
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We treat ourselves to a nice hotel stay once a month in-between having holidays away, work, normal life ect… We’d never ask anyone to pay half to be fair as it’s our treat if that makes sense?
Yes I think we’ll add some stuff that we like to do, just don’t want to set anything in stone as we like to go with the flow abit rather than having certain things planned I guess, we’re spontaneous in life lol x
Thank you for your feedback! |
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"We treat ourselves to a nice hotel stay once a month in-between having holidays away, work, normal life ect… We’d never ask anyone to pay half to be fair as it’s our treat if that makes sense?
Yes I think we’ll add some stuff that we like to do, just don’t want to set anything in stone as we like to go with the flow abit rather than having certain things planned I guess, we’re spontaneous in life lol x
Thank you for your feedback! "
My pleasure have a amazingly sinful time xx |
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"We treat ourselves to a nice hotel stay once a month in-between having holidays away, work, normal life ect… We’d never ask anyone to pay half to be fair as it’s our treat if that makes sense?
Yes I think we’ll add some stuff that we like to do, just don’t want to set anything in stone as we like to go with the flow abit rather than having certain things planned I guess, we’re spontaneous in life lol x
Thank you for your feedback! "
I think the two of you are exactly what a lot of men are looking for. Be prepared for an in box explosion .
Good luck to you both, enjoy your adventures |
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