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How many single guys actually get to meet someone from fab?
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As a couple we receive ALOT of messages and it’s hard to keep up, but we just wondered what’s the percentage of guys who actually get to meet people from Fab because there must be 200 guys to every Girl or Couple who are looking for single guys.
Guys how many people have you met from fab and how long have you been active?
It would be interesting to know if it’s a struggle! Because there’s so many single guys on here.
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Not your target audience but here goes. We have had two successful (more than just a social of you catch our drift) meets from Fab in 4 months. We receive about 30 messages a day from single guys. It’s too late in the day to do the maths but it’s a small percentage. Both guys we met were awesome by the way, it just takes some serious filtering V&K x |
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I've been here 7 years across 4 different profiles and met 60+ people in that time.
More than 90 percent of those were either at group socials or one to one coffee meets.
Actual play meets are in single figures by choice because I'm fussy.
I've turned down more one to one meets than I've accepted.
I've never found it difficult on here to have conversations with people. |
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By *man91Man
over a year ago
Manchester |
From my own experience, parties and events both private and at swinger clubs, fabs has been great for arranging meet ups, specially as I built up more connections with similar minded people. However, for one to one meet ups with couples and single ladies outside those scenarios have been limited over the years. I have been on fabs for around 8 years. |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
I have been fortunate in my swing life over the years and Fab has been a big help. It's best not to give to much emphasis to messaging but to get involved with socials and parties.I would also suggest establishing yourself with a woman friend and visiting togather is a great help as not only do you have each other but it also opens doors which may be less open to single men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Despite the huge numbers of single men on here and the ridiculous number of messages we receive every day we have found that a large percentage don’t get what it’s all about and how to approach (hey/fancy a fuck/you’re hot/cock in inbox) and so it doesn’t go anywhere, and if they do have a way with words then they often don’t fit what we look for (100% our issue not theirs) or they are just here for the kicks and don’t intend/do not have the balls to meet at all (picture collectors/wank bank chats).
I do realise that this is horribly generalistic but this has been our experience over the last few years.
There are some great single gents and we have been lucky enough to meet some real gems but they are few and far between. So I think the single gent/couples stats are a bit skewed compared to how it appears on the surface because there’s not that many active meeting men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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7 meets in 5 months. Luckily I’ve found my regular FWB in August and we’re exercising together on a regular basis. Hard work initially to get a foot in the door. Weight of numbers against you on FAB as a single bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great advice here regarding getting a woman friend
"I have been fortunate in my swing life over the years and Fab has been a big help. It's best not to give to much emphasis to messaging but to get involved with socials and parties.I would also suggest establishing yourself with a woman friend and visiting togather is a great help as not only do you have each other but it also opens doors which may be less open to single men. "
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I have been on Fab for some 10 years now, on and off, and have met some lovely people in couples, single ladies and in gangbangs. However, I have noticed the timewasters have increased significantly in recent years.
They appear to be mostly pathetic men pretending to be a woman or couple. Their questions and comments however show they are not who they say they are.
These days I don't trust any offer of a potential meet until I have spoken to the lady. (I am not interested in men) It is usually at that time they ghost me or disappear with some pathetic excuse. But such is life and all is good when a real meet takes place and I am happy to say that is reasonably often and frequently involve repeat visits. |
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"I have been fortunate in my swing life over the years and Fab has been a big help. It's best not to give to much emphasis to messaging but to get involved with socials and parties.I would also suggest establishing yourself with a woman friend and visiting togather is a great help as not only do you have each other but it also opens doors which may be less open to single men. "
Agreed totally, Similar experience. Going to socials or clubs really does help. And I can say I've met 8 people of fab and we still keep in contact. |
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"Despite the huge numbers of single men on here and the ridiculous number of messages we receive every day we have found that a large percentage don’t get what it’s all about and how to approach (hey/fancy a fuck/you’re hot/cock in inbox) and so it doesn’t go anywhere, and if they do have a way with words then they often don’t fit what we look for (100% our issue not theirs) or they are just here for the kicks and don’t intend/do not have the balls to meet at all (picture collectors/wank bank chats).
I do realise that this is horribly generalistic but this has been our experience over the last few years.
There are some great single gents and we have been lucky enough to meet some real gems but they are few and far between. So I think the single gent/couples stats are a bit skewed compared to how it appears on the surface because there’s not that many active meeting men. "
Yeah we’ve only been on 6 weeks and we get turned off by the same things as you! The amount of people who don’t read our profile and send a message saying something like I’d love to fuck your Mrs is unreal, it’s just an instant block every time lol. Then when you do get a good message you reply showing you’re interested and they reply with something like, when do ya wanna meet den?
Hahaha it’s like a part time job filtering! |
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Been on here at least 12 years, met around 200 people or couples over the years, a few have become close friends.
I'd say 90% of meets from here the other 10% clubs and socials.
I know people say it, but it was a much better place pre covid!
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By *sacambsMan
over a year ago
Huntingdon |
"As a couple we receive ALOT of messages and it’s hard to keep up, but we just wondered what’s the percentage of guys who actually get to meet people from Fab because there must be 200 guys to every Girl or Couple who are looking for single guys.
Guys how many people have you met from fab and how long have you been active?
It would be interesting to know if it’s a struggle! Because there’s so many single guys on here.
Xx "
I didn't used to be. I have been on and off here for quite a while now and I have had a high degree of success. Lately that has diminished and the success rate has taken a serious downturn since Covid... |
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I'm quite old these days..so there's not much demand the the more mature guy lol but there are like minded people here but they take some searching out, so think I've had about 5 meets in the past year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple we receive ALOT of messages and it’s hard to keep up, but we just wondered what’s the percentage of guys who actually get to meet people from Fab because there must be 200 guys to every Girl or Couple who are looking for single guys.
Guys how many people have you met from fab and how long have you been active?
It would be interesting to know if it’s a struggle! Because there’s so many single guys on here.
Xx "
I've been on the site over 10 yrs in variius incarnations..when I first joined I did meet couples at a guess 30 plus different couples  .. single ladies would be more than that number
What percentage that is I have no clue..sorry  |
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I feel as if I’m one of the lucky ones
I don’t do too bad on here
It’s always a privilege to meet with cpls.
Made some good friends along the way.
Some days/weeks it’s Shit and then out of nowhere it goes crazy. |
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"Despite the huge numbers of single men on here and the ridiculous number of messages we receive every day we have found that a large percentage don’t get what it’s all about and how to approach (hey/fancy a fuck/you’re hot/cock in inbox) and so it doesn’t go anywhere, and if they do have a way with words then they often don’t fit what we look for (100% our issue not theirs) or they are just here for the kicks and don’t intend/do not have the balls to meet at all (picture collectors/wank bank chats).
I do realise that this is horribly generalistic but this has been our experience over the last few years.
There are some great single gents and we have been lucky enough to meet some real gems but they are few and far between. So I think the single gent/couples stats are a bit skewed compared to how it appears on the surface because there’s not that many active meeting men. "
This has been our experience recently (last couple of years). We've been doing this for over a decade and the 'quality' of guys has declined massively, whilst the quantity has increased.
If we get a 100 messages from guys, then only about 2-3 have read the profile and actually understand what this all about. The rest are just bored guys from tinder wanting a quick and easy pump and dump right now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do fab socials count?
If not...
Still no issues.
While there may be hundreds of men... Once you get rid of the shadow heads, carfishes, cheaters who will never meet, and those who have more words in their alphabeti spaghetti than their profile... It's about 10 gals to every guy. |
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As a male finding a local female is impossible as without a verification most women won’t look twice but without a meet you can’t get a verification even though I’ve been here before and met a few before it’s difficult because of the fakes |
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I meet couples and singles making contact via Fab and from going to clubs and parties / hotel takeovers. Sometimes I make contact first because I like their profile, or chatting over stuff going on in the forums, other times they get in touch first, it’s about 50/ 50. I’ve been to a couple of socials as well and had a great time. I’m specific and care about who I message and do it for a reason - because they look fun, interesting, sexy and attractive. Anybody I contact about meeting I ensure that I read their profile and that I’m what they’re looking for. Not all messages are answered, some message back to say they’re not interested, some just remain social contacts. I’ve also had people get in touch because I’ve been recommend by their friends or they’ve noticed me from the verification network. For me it’s been about having a decent profile, no dick pics, building verifications, going to clubs and parties and making some amazing friends, the bonus being I’m able to have fantastic sex with them. |
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By *eeGee13Woman
over a year ago
SW London |
"As a couple we receive ALOT of messages and it’s hard to keep up, but we just wondered what’s the percentage of guys who actually get to meet people from Fab because there must be 200 guys to every Girl or Couple who are looking for single guys.
Guys how many people have you met from fab and how long have you been active?
It would be interesting to know if it’s a struggle! Because there’s so many single guys on here.
Xx "
From talking male friends on here the number is very low….you stand more chance as a female or TV …..I think |
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By *eeGee13Woman
over a year ago
SW London |
"Been on here at least 12 years, met around 200 people or couples over the years, a few have become close friends.
I'd say 90% of meets from here the other 10% clubs and socials.
I know people say it, but it was a much better place pre covid!
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Oh wow! You must be one of the lucky ones, most men I speak to say they don’t know why they bother being on here…but I guess 12yrs will stack give you better statistics |
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By *eeGee13Woman
over a year ago
SW London |
"Do fab socials count?
If not...
Still no issues.
While there may be hundreds of men... Once you get rid of the shadow heads, carfishes, cheaters who will never meet, and those who have more words in their alphabeti spaghetti than their profile... It's about 10 gals to every guy. "
Hahaha you sound like someone who does ok on here x |
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Can be a challenge, fab has changed quite a but over the years..
I'm prepared to get to know people, not demand immediate meets.
I know the ratio is stacked against me, but there are some people here.
Then there are the dome folk who complain on their profile about the site.. When a pleasant message is sent, abuse is sent back..
You the wonder why you bother being pleasant in the first place.. |
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