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How to get lady's attention without sounding like a dick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest with you the best way to get someones attention i think is by sending good pics
If i like the pics they have my attention not matter how crap the message is
You can send the best message in the world if theres no attraction people wont be interested
So its just pot luck on if they fancy you or not basically  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just common sence really, would you message someone you dont fancy?
Best you can do is make sure you send good clear pics, i get 50+ messages a day so unless they send a pic that shows what they look like and not just their cock i dont even reply
when you get dozens on messages a day your not going to reply to one that simply asks how your doing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site is a lot easier for women I would say . Common Sense doesn't work on here there all fucking mental . Fact  xxxx"
im not mental 
i only come on here cause it makes me realise how normal i really am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you feel you have to get "the womans" attention? Don't put that kind of pressure on yourself.
Be yourself Mr Chef. If people don't like it, then big fat hairy bollocks to em. There will be people that do like the none attention seeking you. They are the ones you'll have a better time with.
HEED MY ADVICE ON PAIN OF DEATH. I am actually always right. Proven fact good luck xx |
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By *ander_XMan
over a year ago
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Personally, I rarely bother sending messages, I tend to just post new pictures.
I'll usually get a few fabs and maybe a wink or two. I check out the profiles of the fabs / winks have come from and if I like the profile, I'll get in touch.
I pretty much always get chatting that way because I've already caught their attention before sending the first message.
I'd recommend taking some good pics and posting them when the site is busiest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site is a lot easier for women I would say . Common Sense doesn't work on here there all fucking mental . Fact xxxx"
Common sense and RESPECT go a long way with ladies on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am always nice and polite never say anything dirty or offencive . Just asked how she was had been chatting and she just went off on 1 . There has been a few xxxx |
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I think getting their attention is easy, getting their interest is hard, and keeping it even harder. Its the number of women to men on here, if it was 50/50 it wouldn't be too bad but its more like 80/20 men to women. They get so inundated with messages and friend requests you have to stand out, but moods change and you could be their ideal guy but if someones just annoyed them you're out of luck. I would say be nice, send a nice pic or 2 and a decent message and your chances would improve, thats what I'm getting told by the women on here anyway.x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Took all ur advice last nyt people and Went on fab been as nice as possible got talking to woman and then she just went of on 1 . The forums are better than the actual site . In my opinion anyway x |
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