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Another slant on Bi-Males
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By *umour OP Couple
over a year ago
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I have been reading the thread about some on here not meeting Bi-Males with interest. It is, of course a preference that everyone is entitled to. Just to expand it out a little, we have noticed quite a few profiles where that also will not meet anyone who has met a Bi-Male, has a Bi-Male on their friends list and I presume if you have even passed one in the street!
But anyway, it is of course a preference that each of us is entitled to, but I have friends, who we have never and would never play with who are Bi and have some on our friends list. Whereas I (have to) accept that preference, can anyone explain the thinking behind it? Especially anyone who has it on their profile.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my sexuality listed as bi-curious and I accept that that means a whole section of the Fab population will not be interested as its their preference. To the OP, if people don't wish to meet you because you have friends who are Bi on your profile then maybe they aren't who you would want to meet. Plenty of people here on Fab don't have a problem with it so easy come easy go.
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Actually its more likely the ....wits that are bi but pretend to be straight to get a shag that sends people to do it. Also the massive number of bi men that insist that there is no such thing as a straight man "all men are gagging for cock, he wants it really" yes been said to us on many many occassion. now if thats how the messages go wtf is he gonna be like in person.. nfw would we meet. sadly been so many like that we decided easier to say no bi men at all.
So its the ignorant bi men that made the decision for us.
No one has the right to force their sexuality on anyone else no matter who or what your preferences.
As for not meeting if you are friends with bi me well have to say that has probably come about by so many bi men saying they are straight to get a shag. quite often you can catch them out that not always but hey we have to do what we can. if in doubt we dont meet.
What really pisses us off is people shouting names around because people have preferences. we do not hate bi men can have a great evening with them just we dont want to play with them.
Really any need to be rude and agressivr with people... i think not.. forums and at the end of the day this site is supposed to be fun for everyone.
FUN !!! Not a place to be calling people names because of their preferences.
No point meeting or playing with anyone who doesnt float your boat now is there.. that wouldnt be fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some reasons I have heard (no doubt people have others)
Bi men aren't Alpha-male enough.
Bi men are more likely to have a disease
Bi men might touch my Willy, you can't turn it off.
The thought of two men together turns me off. (this is the only one that comes across proper reason to me)
But people have their choices and you can't question them no matter how prejudiced and idiotic. It's best to just let it lie.
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"I wouldn't know. I'm not bi. 
If this was Just A Minute you'd never make it to 10 seconds because of repetition  "
It's people like you that make me change my mind....I've decided to be bi after all. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I have always said I admire the honesty of the couples/females that say up front that they will not play with bi guys... saves time being wasted for all parties and more time being spent chatting to people who will play with us.
Hey, it is all good.
If people want to search back and look for a 'bi' connection, that is their choice.
There was a thread a few weeks back on this subject, I knew before I looked at the verifications of the OP that I would know a guy they will have played with..
yup, there he was... playing straight with a couple who were adamant they never play with bi guys. I felt sorry for them as he had played them for fools. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always said I admire the honesty of the couples/females that say up front that they will not play with bi guys... saves time being wasted for all parties and more time being spent chatting to people who will play with us.
Hey, it is all good.
If people want to search back and look for a 'bi' connection, that is their choice.
There was a thread a few weeks back on this subject, I knew before I looked at the verifications of the OP that I would know a guy they will have played with..
yup, there he was... playing straight with a couple who were adamant they never play with bi guys. I felt sorry for them as he had played them for fools."
 oooh that makes me mad the shisters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always said I admire the honesty of the couples/females that say up front that they will not play with bi guys... saves time being wasted for all parties and more time being spent chatting to people who will play with us.
Hey, it is all good.
If people want to search back and look for a 'bi' connection, that is their choice.
There was a thread a few weeks back on this subject, I knew before I looked at the verifications of the OP that I would know a guy they will have played with..
yup, there he was... playing straight with a couple who were adamant they never play with bi guys. I felt sorry for them as he had played them for fools."
Always best to be honest and up front about it I think |
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"The number of UK men who have sex with men having intercourse without a condom rose by 26 per cent between 1990 and 2010, the study by the Health Protection Agency (HPA) and University College London (UCL) showed."
Why expose yourself to a risk group of people that you have no interest in taking advantage of their "bi" ness ie Mr Cherry is straight so would get nothing out of a bi male meet so why bother to expose us to the extra risk ?
We roll the dice everytime we meet anyone and anything we do sexually with strangers in the world, isnt it wiser to load the "die" in your favour as much as possible ?
aside from that its just personal preference which is all the reason you ever need.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always said I admire the honesty of the couples/females that say up front that they will not play with bi guys... saves time being wasted for all parties and more time being spent chatting to people who will play with us.
Hey, it is all good.
If people want to search back and look for a 'bi' connection, that is their choice.
There was a thread a few weeks back on this subject, I knew before I looked at the verifications of the OP that I would know a guy they will have played with..
yup, there he was... playing straight with a couple who were adamant they never play with bi guys. I felt sorry for them as he had played them for fools."
Why? They'd just not been able to tell the difference, as for all intents and purposes he was just like a straight guy physically and in the sack. Obviously he'd been able to turn it off and resist the urge to touch the male half's dick.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The number of UK men who have sex with men having intercourse without a condom rose by 26 per cent between 1990 and 2010, the study by the Health Protection Agency (HPA) and University College London (UCL) showed.
Why expose yourself to a risk group of people that you have no interest in taking advantage of their "bi" ness ie Mr Cherry is straight so would get nothing out of a bi male meet so why bother to expose us to the extra risk ?
We roll the dice everytime we meet anyone and anything we do sexually with strangers in the world, isnt it wiser to load the "die" in your favour as much as possible ?
aside from that its just personal preference which is all the reason you ever need.
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I don't care what your reasons are to be honest. If that's your opinion, we are happy to respect that. Not into hoodwinking anyone into a meet here - but as _iew points out - there is a worrying number of so called straight guys that message us daily telling us they're really bi. I feel for guys like you, trying to filter out who actually IS straight. |
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"I don't care what your reasons are to be honest. If that's your opinion, we are happy to respect that. Not into hoodwinking anyone into a meet here - but as _iew points out - there is a worrying number of so called straight guys that message us daily telling us they're really bi. I feel for guys like you, trying to filter out who actually IS straight. "
Yep I have no doubt, much like the couples that are just a "guy" or the guys who are single but really have a wife or anything else all you can do is take people on face value and do a bit of research on them, but at the end of the day EVERYBODY lies about something to some degree at some point so who really knows ?
I see it as minimising risk as much as you can, risk never goes away but just because there is an inherant risk doesn't mean you cant try to cut down on it ? I dont jut walk across the street without looking ill look left and right.
However even after looking left and right (trying my best to minimise risk) it doesnt mean I cant get run over by someone speeding, or trip and fall.
If you gain nothing sexually from welcoming a bisexual man into your bed then why invite the extra risk ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care what your reasons are to be honest. If that's your opinion, we are happy to respect that. Not into hoodwinking anyone into a meet here - but as _iew points out - there is a worrying number of so called straight guys that message us daily telling us they're really bi. I feel for guys like you, trying to filter out who actually IS straight.
Yep I have no doubt, much like the couples that are just a "guy" or the guys who are single but really have a wife or anything else all you can do is take people on face value and do a bit of research on them, but at the end of the day EVERYBODY lies about something to some degree at some point so who really knows ?
I see it as minimising risk as much as you can, risk never goes away but just because there is an inherant risk doesn't mean you cant try to cut down on it ? I dont jut walk across the street without looking ill look left and right.
However even after looking left and right (trying my best to minimise risk) it doesnt mean I cant get run over by someone speeding, or trip and fall.
If you gain nothing sexually from welcoming a bisexual man into your bed then why invite the extra risk ?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would you care to quote any statistics for disease in hetero people to bring balance to your argument that bi men are more unsafe.
As I think you'll find its arse gravy. If you have straight unprotected sex with strangers you're at just as much risk as with bi men.
The disease reason is a prejudiced one. You have a prejudice against bi men and then you look for information that enforces and strengthens that belief. Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am bisexual and have declared that from day one on FAB.... it as not stopped me meeting and making some lovely new Female and MF couples - so people hide/pretend/lie god only knows....are they ashamed of being Bi or is it just down to then "edging thier bets" lol  |
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Yeah well, I'm bi, it says so on my profile and always has done. I get messages from guys described on their profiles as straight but want to suck my cock. Always, they get a no from me. Sometimes nicely, sometimes with a little ascerbic wit.
For the record, I'm extremely clean and healthy, unlike my heterosexual mate who has had to go to the gum clinic twice in 6 months cos of infections. |
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"Yeah well, I'm bi, it says so on my profile and always has done. I get messages from guys described on their profiles as straight but want to suck my cock. Always, they get a no from me. Sometimes nicely, sometimes with a little ascerbic wit.
For the record, I'm extremely clean and healthy, unlike my heterosexual mate who has had to go to the gum clinic twice in 6 months cos of infections. "
Pretty much the same here, except I *always* reply with acerbic wit |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
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It always amazes me the amount of profiles I see that declare over and over they are straight and for men not to try and turn them bi/gay etc... then when you look at their veris is a bunch of guys thanking them for a good meet, good fuck, great sucker etc etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah well, I'm bi, it says so on my profile and always has done. I get messages from guys described on their profiles as straight but want to suck my cock. Always, they get a no from me. Sometimes nicely, sometimes with a little ascerbic wit.
For the record, I'm extremely clean and healthy, unlike my heterosexual mate who has had to go to the gum clinic twice in 6 months cos of infections.
Pretty much the same here, except I *always* reply with acerbic wit "
No wit from me.....I just report them to admin for lying in their profile, which is against site rules. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah. Your profile must be accurate and not misleading, so bi-men pretending to be straight or in fact gay men pretending to be bi who contact me get reported.
5.3 You must ensure that your profile and any other Content is and remains complete, accurate and is not misleading in any way and that you will update it so that it remains so. |
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This reminds me of the couple a few years back that didn't meet black people. They also didn't play with anyone who had played with a black person and checked through their verifications to make sure they hadn't met any blacks either! It kicked off that night,
I don't play with bi men, nothing to do with disease, homophobia etc, the ones I've played with enjoy anal and dressing up but it does nothing for me. A straight man being made to dress up and indulge in anal play and embarrassed by it is another matter!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And for BlackCherry's info I've just looked at the 2011 STI report from the health protection agency, and it states that "Young heterosexual adults under 25 years experience the highest rates of STI's"
Interesting. Particularly if you meet people who've met younger people. Do you screen for that too?
You missed the part in your choice quote where it said that part of the 26% rise of infections in men who have sex with men is due to increased testing in that category. But hey, choice soundbites are the main weapon in propaganda. |
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From avert.org - "In the UK young people aged 16-24 years are most at risk of being diagnosed with an STD. Chlamydia is the most common bacterial sexually transmitted disease and genital warts is the most common viral STD."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And for BlackCherry's info I've just looked at the 2011 STI report from the health protection agency, and it states that "Young heterosexual adults under 25 years experience the highest rates of STI's"
Interesting. Particularly if you meet people who've met younger people. Do you screen for that too?
You missed the part in your choice quote where it said that part of the 26% rise of infections in men who have sex with men is due to increased testing in that category. But hey, choice soundbites are the main weapon in propaganda. "
Fuck it. That's cubs of the menu then |
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By *ikkiBWoman
over a year ago
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"5.3 You must ensure that your profile and any other Content is and remains complete, accurate and is not misleading in any way and that you will update it so that it remains so."
Does anyone ever get banned due to it though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like you said it's a preference, but never seen one saying no bi fems funny that, and how many guys say straight on there profile but are bi and have bi meets with other 'straight' couple guys and not put verifications up,
So how would a 'no bi guys' couple know if they have met a bi guy without knowing and would that make them bi??? lol,
Have probably opened a can of worms here but while i respect peoples preferences felt that had have my say.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like bi men. I prefer straight men who are willing to play with cock. It's more kinky. Either way as long as people are all practicing safe sex the risks are the same. We are all at risk on this site. We all need to be safe and careful. |
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"Yeah. Your profile must be accurate and not misleading, so bi-men pretending to be straight or in fact gay men pretending to be bi who contact me get reported.
Wow didnt know that.. will remember that next time we get the straight bi guy.
Had one told us he was bi. Said no thanks as dont meet bi men. 2 days later hes back insisting hes straight. yes changed profile but we still had his message that said he was bi. so we explained and said no and he didnt havr veris anyway. again another 2 days latrr he came back to us to say hes straight would we meet as he now had two veris.. yep .. one from a bloke saying how wonderful he was at their meets.
Its people like him that make people make such decisions.
5.3 You must ensure that your profile and any other Content is and remains complete, accurate and is not misleading in any way and that you will update it so that it remains so."
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"The number of UK men who have sex with men having intercourse without a condom rose by 26 per cent between 1990 and 2010, the study by the Health Protection Agency (HPA) and University College London (UCL) showed.
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Which means what unless you also have the figures for everyone else.
After all if the figures for straight men are up by 50% then bi-men are less of a risk.
Unless you twist the statistics further of course |
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By *azzaahhWoman
over a year ago
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I know of a couple who's profile is defo no Bi guys yet they have played with two straight guys whos profiles say straight but are actualy Bi ...there prob not even aware of it ..hey ho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have always said I admire the honesty of the couples/females that say up front that they will not play with bi guys... saves time being wasted for all parties and more time being spent chatting to people who will play with us.
Hey, it is all good.
If people want to search back and look for a 'bi' connection, that is their choice.
There was a thread a few weeks back on this subject, I knew before I looked at the verifications of the OP that I would know a guy they will have played with..
yup, there he was... playing straight with a couple who were adamant they never play with bi guys. I felt sorry for them as he had played them for fools.
Always best to be honest and up front about it I think"
If they are bi though, being up 'front' is not their only option is it? |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"This reminds me of the couple a few years back that didn't meet black people. They also didn't play with anyone who had played with a black person and checked through their verifications to make sure they hadn't met any blacks either! It kicked off that night....
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It did cause it was one of my most memorable nights on here... funny enough I seem to find myself in the middle of a lot of the controversial thread.... Still on here, still have them blocked by the way.. I don't think anyone could believe, however sad the opinion I am glad they said it though....
"The number of UK men who have sex with men having intercourse without a condom rose by 26 per cent between 1990 and 2010, the study by the Health Protection Agency (HPA) and University College London (UCL) showed.
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"From avert.org - "In the UK young people aged 16-24 years are most at risk of being diagnosed with an STD. Chlamydia is the most common bacterial sexually transmitted disease and genital warts is the most common viral STD."
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can I give some advice from an old man on here, with a degree in "statistics"... if people look long enough and hard enough at them, they can be skewed to reflect any persons opinion...
lies.... damn lies.... and statistics...
I have seen them being used as to justify why people wont play with bi people..... and with young people..... and with black people.... and I am sure other categories will come along.....
hide behind the numbers......
in the end how many times do we say a preference is a preference is a preference and no one should have to justify those......
in the end it is way that people practically apply them is what causes the frictions and the arguements, not the actual preference itself.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am bisexual and have declared that from day one on FAB.... it as not stopped me meeting and making some lovely new Female and MF couples - so people hide/pretend/lie god only knows....are they ashamed of being Bi or is it just down to then "edging thier bets" lol "
I've seen as many profiles on here from mf couples saying "bareback only" as I have bi or gay guys.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah well, I'm bi, it says so on my profile and always has done. I get messages from guys described on their profiles as straight but want to suck my cock. Always, they get a no from me. Sometimes nicely, sometimes with a little ascerbic wit.
For the record, I'm extremely clean and healthy, unlike my heterosexual mate who has had to go to the gum clinic twice in 6 months cos of infections. "
Had one yesterday. Said he wanted a feel. Asked him what else was he lying about and blocked him |
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By *umour OP Couple
over a year ago
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I think that most of the posts on this thread have missed the point. I am not complaining or saying that anyone is wrong. I just wondered what reason others had for not only not playing with people who have friends who are bi!
As I said, we have at least one friend on our profile who is bi and because of that, some won't meet us and they also won't meet our friends! Yes I know it is their choice and not let it worry me, well it doesn't. I was just asking the question! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I don't think I've seen anything written against you 
Anyway we verified a straight male friend of ours a while back, but he removed the veri in the end because of people jumping to wrong conclusions....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it proves that in 90% of the cases here the male is the one who writes the profile and pilots the couples path through who they will and will not meet .
Hence the appreciation of bi females and the anti bi male stance .
Just a bunch of hypocrites . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it proves that in 90% of the cases here the male is the one who writes the profile and pilots the couples path through who they will and will not meet .
Hence the appreciation of bi females and the anti bi male stance .
Just a bunch of hypocrites ."
Ha I laugh in the face of that last comment
Mr Notts write a profile 
Mr Notts communicate in written form effectively |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that most of the posts on this thread have missed the point. I am not complaining or saying that anyone is wrong. I just wondered what reason others had for not only not playing with people who have friends who are bi!
As I said, we have at least one friend on our profile who is bi and because of that, some won't meet us and they also won't meet our friends! Yes I know it is their choice and not let it worry me, well it doesn't. I was just asking the question! "
It probably comes down to people who don't meet bi males seeing those with bi friends as - for want of a better phrase - "Guilty by association".
Similar to all the so called Straight guys having bi, gay or TV/TS friends.
Well that's the way we'd see it. 
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have abit of a problem with the preference part having to swap & change it between straight & bi... I consider myself straight as ive no interest in men... My reason for putting bi is im happy to be naked in front of guys when playing with couples & if that guy is bi and wants to play with my cock only then i dont mind but ive never or will i return the favour... You may start to wonder if i am bi?!!! That would be your opinion but i do consider myself straight.
I recently got in touch with a couple and we got on fine but they didnt want to meet as my profile said "straight" and they wanted "bi" male but no matter how i explained they pretty much thought id say owt for a shag and got blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think anyone who likes bi guys should all get naked in a large paddling pool of warm strawberry flavoured jelly and discuss it sensibly there. "
Please may we have ice cream and sprinkles as well?
Oh and those little silver gay balls |
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"I think anyone who likes bi guys should all get naked in a large paddling pool of warm strawberry flavoured jelly and discuss it sensibly there.
Please may we have ice cream and sprinkles as well?
Oh and those little silver gay balls "
Ice cream yes
Sprinkles maybe
Gay balls hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It always amazes me the amount of profiles I see that declare over and over they are straight and for men not to try and turn them bi/gay etc... then when you look at their veris is a bunch of guys thanking them for a good meet, good fuck, great sucker etc etc"
Which is why we think that the ability for people to hide their Verifications is wrong, in as much as it makes lying and deception so much easier for bi guys pretending to be straight.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been reading the thread about some on here not meeting Bi-Males with interest. It is, of course a preference that everyone is entitled to. Just to expand it out a little, we have noticed quite a few profiles where that also will not meet anyone who has met a Bi-Male, has a Bi-Male on their friends list and I presume if you have even passed one in the street!
But anyway, it is of course a preference that each of us is entitled to, but I have friends, who we have never and would never play with who are Bi and have some on our friends list. Whereas I (have to) accept that preference, can anyone explain the thinking behind it? Especially anyone who has it on their profile.
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The thinking behind it is limited...they assume that because you have bi friends you must either play with them or in fact both be bi and just want to get the single guy from the couple in a corner and have your wicked way with him!
Statistics can be manipulated to say whatever you want them to - like the moisturiser ads where 89% of women tested loved the product...although only 72 tested the product and all had perfect skin initially so the product has barely been tested and those that tried it never really needed it! The stats on bi men being having more STI's etc could also be something as simple as men being more comfortable ticking the bi-box than those previously tested who were bi but ticked straight instead.
I've met a couple of Bi Guys and am looking to arrange a Bi MMF...if some choose not to meet me because of it then so be it...I'll just keep on enjoying the more open minded x |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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Bi men are more likely to have a disease....."
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erm aren't we all just as likely to pick up a disease the more partners we have? & what about guys who practice safe sex?
I don't have a problem with bi guys, some of my friends are bi and i'd still meet them & if people have issues with bi guys thats their problem not mine. I'm not going to alienate friends cause someone i haven't met doesn't like bi people |
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"And for BlackCherry's info I've just looked at the 2011 STI report from the health protection agency, and it states that "Young heterosexual adults under 25 years experience the highest rates of STI's"
Interesting. Particularly if you meet people who've met younger people. Do you screen for that too?
You missed the part in your choice quote where it said that part of the 26% rise of infections in men who have sex with men is due to increased testing in that category. But hey, choice soundbites are the main weapon in propaganda. "
hmmm soundbites huh
"The HPA said one in 20 men who have sex with men in the UK now had HIV, with the figure rising to nearly one in 12 in London."
Quite high figures, as we dont get any sexual gratification from adding a bisexual man why prey tell should we invite the added risk ?
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"I have abit of a problem with the preference part having to swap & change it between straight & bi... I consider myself straight as ive no interest in men... My reason for putting bi is im happy to be naked in front of guys when playing with couples & if that guy is bi and wants to play with my cock only then i dont mind but ive never or will i return the favour... You may start to wonder if i am bi?!!! That would be your opinion but i do consider myself straight.
I recently got in touch with a couple and we got on fine but they didnt want to meet as my profile said "straight" and they wanted "bi" male but no matter how i explained they pretty much thought id say owt for a shag and got blocked "
Don't quote me on this but I *think* the term is 'bi-selfish', could be wrong, I'll need to check |
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The disease reason is a prejudiced one. You have a prejudice against bi men and then you look for information that enforces and strengthens that belief. Simple. "
thankfully in the realms of who you invite into your bed you can be as prejudiced and peti as you want
Just like I'm sure you have probably turned people down for being to old, fat, short, not your type.
The reality is the sooner bi guys stop having this massive chip on their shoulder about those who dont want to meet them and get on with the many who do want to meet them everyone will be happier, unless you think forum posts are going to change everyone's attitudes and preferences ? |
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"I think it proves that in 90% of the cases here the male is the one who writes the profile and pilots the couples path through who they will and will not meet .
Hence the appreciation of bi females and the anti bi male stance .
Just a bunch of hypocrites ."
Sorry but Mrs Cherry wrote our entire profile, if your attempting to beat "ignorance" with worse ignorance then you might be succeeding there |
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"I think anyone who likes bi guys should all get naked in a large paddling pool of warm strawberry flavoured jelly and discuss it sensibly there. "
Surely marble bath with roman opulence, sorry got a jupiters cock, sparticus buzz on at the moment |
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"I think anyone who likes bi guys should all get naked in a large paddling pool of warm strawberry flavoured jelly and discuss it sensibly there.
Surely marble bath with roman opulence, sorry got a jupiters cock, sparticus buzz on at the moment"
Ah.... That I think would be 'sexus in balneo' = sex in bath |
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Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board. |
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"Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board."
Interesting point. But of course not all bi guys or gay ( I believe) are having anal sex. Please feel free to correct me... |
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"I have abit of a problem with the preference part having to swap & change it between straight & bi... I consider myself straight as ive no interest in men... My reason for putting bi is im happy to be naked in front of guys when playing with couples & if that guy is bi and wants to play with my cock only then i dont mind but ive never or will i return the favour... You may start to wonder if i am bi?!!! That would be your opinion but i do consider myself straight.
I recently got in touch with a couple and we got on fine but they didnt want to meet as my profile said "straight" and they wanted "bi" male but no matter how i explained they pretty much thought id say owt for a shag and got blocked
Don't quote me on this but I *think* the term is 'bi-selfish', could be wrong, I'll need to check"
Ill take that but i do give lots of attention to the ladies |
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"Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board."
Only thing that gets me with that is can any of us who swing know 100% that we haven't had sex with a man who has had anal sex with another man? Just as someone who goes out on the pull on a Saturday night could never 100% know that. I think the rules have changed slightly in that there is a timeframe for sex with a new partner but I often wonder what is the true risk...it doesn't ask how many partners a heterosexual person has had unprotected sex with. I totally understand the need for blood to be safe but do doubt the real risk imposed and those overlooked |
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"Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board.
Only thing that gets me with that is can any of us who swing know 100% that we haven't had sex with a man who has had anal sex with another man? Just as someone who goes out on the pull on a Saturday night could never 100% know that. I think the rules have changed slightly in that there is a timeframe for sex with a new partner but I often wonder what is the true risk...it doesn't ask how many partners a heterosexual person has had unprotected sex with. I totally understand the need for blood to be safe but do doubt the real risk imposed and those overlooked"
On the other hand maybe the health service still see guys who have sex with other guys as the highest risk.
After all, they do have first hand day to day experience of the results, the same way as smoking and obesity is a contributing factor of heart disease.
No one disputes those facts but when it comes to sexual health its all yeah but no but yeah but no............. 
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""open minded"
"preference"
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I don't really care who you do or do not invite into your bed. It's just hiding your choice behind the word Preference rather than ill informed Prejudice. You've already said it, you don't like bi men because you think they are diseased.
I don't meet overweight or hairy guys because they're a turn off. There's a difference. |
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"Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board.
Only thing that gets me with that is can any of us who swing know 100% that we haven't had sex with a man who has had anal sex with another man? Just as someone who goes out on the pull on a Saturday night could never 100% know that. I think the rules have changed slightly in that there is a timeframe for sex with a new partner but I often wonder what is the true risk...it doesn't ask how many partners a heterosexual person has had unprotected sex with. I totally understand the need for blood to be safe but do doubt the real risk imposed and those overlooked
On the other hand maybe the health service still see guys who have sex with other guys as the highest risk.
After all, they do have first hand day to day experience of the results, the same way as smoking and obesity is a contributing factor of heart disease.
No one disputes those facts but when it comes to sexual health its all yeah but no but yeah but no.............
XXXX"
The rules were changed in a hurry, and actually imply that women who have had sex with a bi man are the highest risk.
If I remember correctly a bi or gay man may give blood if he hasn't had 'sex' (and for their purposes this includes oral only) with another man within the last twelve months.
However a woman who has had sex with a bi man at any time in the past may not give blood.
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"Has anyone mentioned Giving Blood?
I believe (as it used to be) that anyone who has had male same-sex... sex is not permitted to give blood.
That may be one reason some people may not wish contact... just to keep blood donation all above board.
Only thing that gets me with that is can any of us who swing know 100% that we haven't had sex with a man who has had anal sex with another man? Just as someone who goes out on the pull on a Saturday night could never 100% know that. I think the rules have changed slightly in that there is a timeframe for sex with a new partner but I often wonder what is the true risk...it doesn't ask how many partners a heterosexual person has had unprotected sex with. I totally understand the need for blood to be safe but do doubt the real risk imposed and those overlooked
On the other hand maybe the health service still see guys who have sex with other guys as the highest risk.
After all, they do have first hand day to day experience of the results, the same way as smoking and obesity is a contributing factor of heart disease.
No one disputes those facts but when it comes to sexual health its all yeah but no but yeah but no.............
XXXX
The rules were changed in a hurry, and actually imply that women who have had sex with a bi man are the highest risk.
If I remember correctly a bi or gay man may give blood if he hasn't had 'sex' (and for their purposes this includes oral only) with another man within the last twelve months.
However a woman who has had sex with a bi man at any time in the past may not give blood.
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So take me as an example then. Mr notts is orally bi only. Can I give blood? |
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