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Couples..ever regret swinging?
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It was a mutual thing. Neither got the other into it.
However, not yet but there is always the potential in the future I suppose.
In the short term as above I personally regret we cannot put more time to it around family life etc. |
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"She started it by playing with a swinger couple whilst visiting her best friend, after making a teary confession to me, I thought ‘why not’
Never looked back since, that was 40 years ago!"
Wow interesting |
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"Ever regret getting your wife into this whole…fucking other men thing? Be honest x"
We are a married couple for 20yrs, when we married she was only 16 and I'm the only guy the wife has ever had, couple of year ago I found this website and was interested in the swinging scene so have tried persuading her but never worked. However we go on regular trips abroad for the weekend and enjoy drinking and going out, recently we were aproached buy a black male who was much bigger than me so I kind of let it happen, I must say the morning after we both did feel guilty about it and promised each other it won't happen again. Ever since she has only played once more and with bi woman and this we didn't mind as a woman with another woman wasn't a big deal. We would definitely do it again if a fit woman approached us and things were going good |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Ever regret getting your wife into this whole…fucking other men thing? Be honest x"
My husband never 'got me into swinging', it was something we were equally keen to try. We started soft, but soon moved on to full swinging and then me taking multiple guys. Neither of us have any regrets - we thoroughly enjoy each other's enjoyment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I regretted having one of my first 3way with an ex girlfriend and a mate of mine I didn’t mind them fucking it was wen the went to kiss I thought was way to personal |
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Not at all, we have an immensely strong marriage and when we decide to let guys share our sex life we all (hopefully the guy too) all enjoy it.
I love sharing my wife with others and she enjoys the attention and we have never had any regrets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, we mutually agreed to do this, we both enjoy it and once one of us don't anymore or want to take a break we will do just that
We even learn from the "bad" experiences.
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely not. It has been a wonderful exploration from start to finish. We’ve both had the chance to explore situations and fantasies that we’d never have imagined before we started. "
This |
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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago
London | Belfast |
Not me, but I hooked up with a girl from here a few times. He kinda made her do it, then she ended up liking me (not more, but just, you know, enjoyed meeting me) and he got so overly jealous she broke up with him.
She and I never saw each other after that (just to say that she didn't leave him for me), but he's definition of this thread. |
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By *enuinebiMan
over a year ago
Wellingborough |
We've never known any other lifestyle, We've been together forty years, yes we have our breaks from the scene and preferences change, at the minute she will only meet other women and couples.
I don't think we've ever regretted anything though. |
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"Ever regret getting your wife into this whole…fucking other men thing? Be honest x"
Why the perception of the guy getting the woman into it? Or is that just personal experience?
For me, got no regrets of getting into it. Maybe bout not getting more involved at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes. First wife left me for a hot guy who regularly fucked her. "
I’ve heard a few people talk about something similar. I guess it might not be an uncommon occurrence |
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"Ever regret getting your wife into this whole…fucking other men thing? Be honest x"
Why the assumption that it was the mans idea?
We went to a club initially with the idea of me exploring my bisexuality.
We started with full swap and never looked back
Nita |
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Some real nervous from us as we had our first experience, you don't know how you might feel afterwards (we talked about all this and rules etc)
But as someone said it has given us a different dimension to our relationship
The unknown, getting dressed up, the excitement, your head space all adding to the experience
Talking about it & reliving the experience, maybe a few cheeky photos,
Along with the re-bonding as a couple is awsum and brings you closer together
Early days for us but no regrets & thanks for the comments about not having enough time I though it was just us being weird, but we struggle to find the time.
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Isn’t it unlikely that there will be any couples on fab that regret getting into swinging. If they did they would no longer be on here? Singles that were once part of a couple might have some regrets if it was the reason for their being single. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Nope.
I think it's brought us more experience and in an odd way, closer. It's made our quality as just us more important. And fuck, she's so fucking hot when she's worshipping another cock, that's something I'll never get bored of |
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