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Neither can accomodate - what do you do?
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So if you can't accommodate, and the person you want to meet can't accommodate what do you do?
Although I have an empty 'spare' house for sale - it is overlooked by a very nosey Aunt who is toxic beyond belief so can't use it for 'happy times'.
Is so annoying  |
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I think this is increasingly going to be a problem with the housing crisis/ cost of living crisis.
My arrangements are comprised by caring responsibilities and just rationality (don’t want to pay extortionate rents after a divorce, not by an overpriced house with a payday loan rate mortgage).
I think hotels are the way forward TBH. Even if I still had my own place, I would still be hesitant to ask someone over unless I was very sure of them. |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish? "
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion! |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish? "
EXACTLY THIS, If the other party bails then so what? There may be other interesting/ interested parties present. |
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over a year ago
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish? "
tha6s a good idea actually
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies! "
Hi
Meet for a social first and say that see how this goes before moving forward to a hotel. I'm sure you'll still be able to book a room on the day if available |
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"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies! "
The one way around that is to meet first at a bar etc then book the hotel once they've appeared and are happy to go further. Downside is you’ll be paying the higher rates for same day booking. |
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"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies!
The one way around that is to meet first at a bar etc then book the hotel once they've appeared and are happy to go further. Downside is you’ll be paying the higher rates for same day booking. "
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"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies!
Hi
Meet for a social first and say that see how this goes before moving forward to a hotel. I'm sure you'll still be able to book a room on the day if available "
Thank you! x |
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"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies!
Could you drug the mad aunty  "
Lol - she will get her karma. |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion!"
There is a sauna In Portsmouth from memory. Liberation Swingers does an event there. Or go to the Liberation night. While I don’t like their nights, there is definitely a club In Portsmouth. |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion!
There is a sauna In Portsmouth from memory. Liberation Swingers does an event there. Or go to the Liberation night. While I don’t like their nights, there is definitely a club In Portsmouth. "
Thank you ... they do and the next event is this Saturday. Didn't know about this. Thank you. Can't go this month - one for the future! |
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over a year ago
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"outdoors/car meet/clubs
Bit chilly - an option. Will be buying a heated camper in a year or so. Also not classy lol!"
being naughty is all part of it, alot of fun!! |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion!"
Temptations in Bournemouth |
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By *ister_EMan
over a year ago
Hayling Island |
Many hotels offer dayroom options for ridiculously cheap prices Where you can book rooms for layovers, a shower and a change for a party, rest in between meetings etc. Great option if you're on a budget! |
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It's very common in clubs to see a couple arrive, change, straight to private room, lock the door, fuck and then leave, we assumed its people having an affair but would work just as well as a private meet location. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"outdoors/car meet/clubs
Bit chilly - an option. Will be buying a heated camper in a year or so. Also not classy lol!"
You could always rent an allotment and build a mancave with heating few chairs even a sofa bed  |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
Just not meet seems to be my go to option on this. It annoys me how many men who can't accomodate message me and expect me to either capitulate on not accomodating or think solving the problem is entirely my responsibility. |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion!
Temptations in Bournemouth "
Oh thank you! |
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"outdoors/car meet/clubs
Bit chilly - an option. Will be buying a heated camper in a year or so. Also not classy lol!
You could always rent an allotment and build a mancave with heating few chairs even a sofa bed "
I have a large garden man-cave, no loo or washbasin. Guess I could get a porta potty, it's just the 'noise' |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
I don't think there are any clubs near me - seems to be club free! Thank you for the suggestion!"
Choose one that's refundable up until the day/time of check in. |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Hotels is an option but living in London dayuse are more expensive than a travelodge. I also use Rios spa as it’s only £32 entrance fee for a couple you get to use the facilities and they have private rooms where you can have naughty fun.They may not be the best rooms but for £32 I don’t think you can go far wrong. |
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"So if you can't accommodate, and the person you want to meet can't accommodate what do you do?
Although I have an empty 'spare' house for sale - it is overlooked by a very nosey Aunt who is toxic beyond belief so can't use it for 'happy times'.
Is so annoying "
Too complicated.. Next |
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I live on the Isle of Wight. You have temptations. Untamed nights. And mischief parties all in Bournemouth. Or liberations in Portsmouth. The holiday inn in Gunwarf does day rooms too. If you want to find somewhere you will. Plus travel lodge on the outskirts of Pompey do rooms for )34 if you book in advance. Good luck. |
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"So if you can't accommodate, and the person you want to meet can't accommodate what do you do?
Although I have an empty 'spare' house for sale - it is overlooked by a very nosey Aunt who is toxic beyond belief so can't use it for 'happy times'.
Is so annoying "
Both be honest with your parents
Alternatively book a hotel, pay in cash and give a fake Monica. |
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"How about club? Most have private lockable rooms so you can still have privacy, but you can also use other facilities if you wish?
EXACTLY THIS, If the other party bails then so what? There may be other interesting/ interested parties present."
This is a good idea! Just be aware that some clubs give guys the boot if they come as a couple with a woman but then split up once inside. |
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A situation I was in a lot as a single parent when so many of the women I was meeting were in the same boat too (too be fair still a simular situation as couple). Simply book a room (ideally last minute or with free cancellation as life can sometimes get in the way). Either that or meet at club. Obviously the weather isn't the best at this time to be creative outdoors.
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"Sell your spare house then you'll have loads of money for clubs or hotels. Most people would love your problems "
Housing market has died for expensive homes, not the worst problem to have is it lol. It will sell eventually.
Do have a tent in the meantime - though would be a bit chilly!  |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
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"A situation I was in a lot as a single parent when so many of the women I was meeting were in the same boat too (too be fair still a simular situation as couple). Simply book a room (ideally last minute or with free cancellation as life can sometimes get in the way). Either that or meet at club. Obviously the weather isn't the best at this time to be creative outdoors.
Mr"
This is my issue too . Being a single parent (dad) means I can't accommodate easily. Therefore I must be married etc.. many people refuse to consider hotels but I found them to be ideal. |
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"Sell your spare house then you'll have loads of money for clubs or hotels. Most people would love your problems
Housing market has died for expensive homes, not the worst problem to have is it lol. It will sell eventually.
Do have a tent in the meantime - though would be a bit chilly! "
Why can't you accommodate? The wife could go stay in the spare house, and you do the same when it's her time for fun. |
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Look at day use hotels on Google if you can meet during day it's cheaper and if you want nighttime meet then you can often find hotels where you can pay at property if booking online I'd book hotel meet for coffee first if it doesn't pan out cancel booking
Otherwise as others have said private room at club
"Thank you for advice for AirBNB or Hotel.
Any tips to ensure that I don't end up paying for it - and the other person bails?
Thank you lovelies! "
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"So if you can't accommodate, and the person you want to meet can't accommodate what do you do?
Although I have an empty 'spare' house for sale - it is overlooked by a very nosey Aunt who is toxic beyond belief so can't use it for 'happy times'.
Is so annoying "
Hotel room, you must book, young Jedi. |
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"So if you can't accommodate, and the person you want to meet can't accommodate what do you do?
Although I have an empty 'spare' house for sale - it is overlooked by a very nosey Aunt who is toxic beyond belief so can't use it for 'happy times'.
Is so annoying "
I wouuld just use the empty house if I was you. Who cares if your aunt disapproves? I'm pretty sure that a man in his 50s can fuck anyone he wants. |
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"Why can't you accommodate? The wife could go stay in the spare house, and you do the same when it's her time for fun."
Her fun is getting me out of the house so she gets to watch her weird documentaries
One bonk a week is enough for her! |
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If you haven't used a hotel for a meet, what are you even doing here, lol.
Serious now, use a hotel, it's a great neutral venue for a first meet, or for any meetings for that matter, even do a day room meet if it's easier.
Or you can hire some of the usual club venues or parts of venues to add something different to your fun.
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