Hi all
Current partner and I have been discussing a small group meet, first time for her.
We have discussed 2 scenarios, first one the usual meet, greet and play in a hotel room with her seeing everything
Second one being she is blindfolded and cuffed awaiting in the middle of the room to greet my choice only of guests and she at least stays blindfolded for the whole meet.
It would be a little bit play by ear meet with it being first time.
So my question to you ladies it which scenario would you think would suit best
Any tips from you would be handy |
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In my experience I would say stick to the first one. Once she feels comfortable she may regret being blindfolded and wish she had experienced more. Sometimes starting with guys massaging her is a good way to break the ice and feel comfortable. That’s my opinion haha |
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Personally I think both are challenging for a first time swinging experience, especially as you say "small group meet" not threesome.
I would go to a club first to watch and possibly play with my own partner then take it from there. |
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"Personally I think both are challenging for a first time swinging experience, especially as you say "small group meet" not threesome.
I would go to a club first to watch and possibly play with my own partner then take it from there. "
We were thinking of probably 2 guys plus myself.
We did discuss the club visit but she prefers the privacy |
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By *nj6969Couple
over a year ago
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Wouldn't start with a foursome.
Depending who you invite can get a little intense for a first meet.
Our advice would be meet one guy with great verification, meet for a social and chat about limits and what you want from the meet.
He is getting to play so should totally respect your wishes and if not move on.
First time you want a steady slow meet not a full on session with three guys you may out her off it permanently.
That's our view anyway.
And like other lady said don't over think it, it's just sex but make sure your rules are followed etc xx mnj
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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago
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"Hi all
Current partner and I have been discussing a small group meet, first time for her.
We have discussed 2 scenarios, first one the usual meet, greet and play in a hotel room with her seeing everything
Second one being she is blindfolded and cuffed awaiting in the middle of the room to greet my choice only of guests and she at least stays blindfolded for the whole meet.
It would be a little bit play by ear meet with it being first time.
So my question to you ladies it which scenario would you think would suit best
Any tips from you would be handy"
Getting people to turn up would be a good start, people say many things, but fail when it actually come to the day of the meet. Make 100% sure the people you speak to are actually genuine. When you’ve vetted the time wasters out, our advice is to break her in gently, or it could backfire on you big time. Make sure that you both understand what is about to happen. Jealous intentions may appear during this and if you’ve not had a indepth conversation about it, it may be a problem later. We know this from experience how much it affected us until we sat down and went through everything together. Hope you choose wisely. XxxkarenandmartinxxX |
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"Wouldn't start with a foursome.
Depending who you invite can get a little intense for a first meet.
Our advice would be meet one guy with great verification, meet for a social and chat about limits and what you want from the meet.
He is getting to play so should totally respect your wishes and if not move on.
First time you want a steady slow meet not a full on session with three guys you may out her off it permanently.
That's our view anyway.
And like other lady said don't over think it, it's just sex but make sure your rules are followed etc xx mnj
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"Wouldn't start with a foursome.
Depending who you invite can get a little intense for a first meet.
Our advice would be meet one guy with great verification, meet for a social and chat about limits and what you want from the meet.
He is getting to play so should totally respect your wishes and if not move on.
First time you want a steady slow meet not a full on session with three guys you may out her off it permanently.
That's our view anyway.
And like other lady said don't over think it, it's just sex but make sure your rules are followed etc xx mnj
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Thank you advise noted, it may be the way forward |
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"Hi all
Current partner and I have been discussing a small group meet, first time for her.
We have discussed 2 scenarios, first one the usual meet, greet and play in a hotel room with her seeing everything
Second one being she is blindfolded and cuffed awaiting in the middle of the room to greet my choice only of guests and she at least stays blindfolded for the whole meet.
It would be a little bit play by ear meet with it being first time.
So my question to you ladies it which scenario would you think would suit best
Any tips from you would be handy
Getting people to turn up would be a good start, people say many things, but fail when it actually come to the day of the meet. Make 100% sure the people you speak to are actually genuine. When you’ve vetted the time wasters out, our advice is to break her in gently, or it could backfire on you big time. Make sure that you both understand what is about to happen. Jealous intentions may appear during this and if you’ve not had a indepth conversation about it, it may be a problem later. We know this from experience how much it affected us until we sat down and went through everything together. Hope you choose wisely. XxxkarenandmartinxxX "
We’ll do the homework for sure, we’re not going to let a first experience get ruined. Thank you |
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Not sure if this is her first ‘group meet’ or first time in the swinging scene…
What I can say is that if my husband had suggested this out of the gate a few years ago it would probably have shut the entire swinging conversation down for good.
Giving up control in that kind of situation without a strong foundation of playing together already in place, is a recipe for emotional damage |
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"Hi all
Current partner and I have been discussing a small group meet, first time for her.
We have discussed 2 scenarios, first one the usual meet, greet and play in a hotel room with her seeing everything
Second one being she is blindfolded and cuffed awaiting in the middle of the room to greet my choice only of guests and she at least stays blindfolded for the whole meet.
It would be a little bit play by ear meet with it being first time.
So my question to you ladies it which scenario would you think would suit best
Any tips from you would be handy"
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I'd stick with the one where she can see who she plays with.
I'd find it daunting to not be able to see the other people, so for a newbie it may be overwhelming first time.
What has she said she'd like? |
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"Wouldn't start with a foursome.
Depending who you invite can get a little intense for a first meet.
Our advice would be meet one guy with great verification, meet for a social and chat about limits and what you want from the meet.
He is getting to play so should totally respect your wishes and if not move on.
First time you want a steady slow meet not a full on session with three guys you may out her off it permanently.
That's our view anyway.
And like other lady said don't over think it, it's just sex but make sure your rules are followed etc xx mnj
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This is good advice  |
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