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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Apart from dick pics, I get put off by a super serious profile that displays no personality. Another thing is for profiles that display a ranty attitude. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I consider all of the above a fair reason to be put off. I mean, any answer will be a personal preference. But still nice to hear. Thanks guys and girls |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
BB with different people (not judging just my preference)
Silhouette avatar
No pics and entirely old pics
Lack of bio
Poorly written
Unexplained gaps
Rants about how Fab is rubbish and women are up themselves
I could go on... |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
Not that would put me off but always find strange couples that start saying that they are very much in love, that they have an amazing sex life together and that they are not looking for a replacement, all of which is most most likely true, but totally pointless and irrelevant.
Find annoying profiles that use the disclaimer, despite the gazillion times that Fab admin has said that it is totally useless and unnecessary.
Have a laugh when people declare that they smell amazing. Unless there's a universal eau de toilette scientifically proven to attract all humanity, let me be the judge of smells I like it I don't, please.
Puts us both totally off: no kissing singles/couples. Not for us. If I (Mr.) was forced to choose, I would choose kissing the lady to a blowjob from her. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Verifications
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LOL. I was waiting for you to say that, Gertie.  
I aim to please.  "
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You definitely do, in the Forum. We know verís are your kryptonite. Surprised you have not blocked us yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really a put off but it’s hard to search couple profiles when there’s only one of the couple in the pictures , or just a ass nothing wrong with a ass but how you suppose to get a feel for the profile seems ours is one of the only ones showing our selfs lol |
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By *archelCouple
over a year ago
A field somewhere |
Dick pics. Biggest pet peeve is talking smutty early doors of conversation when you've not met yet...yes I know it's a sex site, we all know what we're here for...but can't stand randoms talking like that, switches me straight off.
No photos, and or photos a million miles away wearing sunglasses...then demanding we send face pics lol
Men in women's underwear. No veris.
Shit conversation ie one line replies.
Mrs M |
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"Oh and please look at our profile and tell us how we can make it better as we don’t seem to get much luck haha we are new here ."
Get your fella to crack a smile.....he's a scary looking dude
Dont tell him I said that  |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Oh and please look at our profile and tell us how we can make it better as we don’t seem to get much luck haha we are new here ."
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Doesn't seem fair to the OP to hijack this thread by giving you advice here, so I won't. You are an attractive couple and new to Fab (be patient), but there's a couple ref flags in your profile from a couple point of view looking for other couples. Private message and will give you feedback. Otherwise you can open a thread/post in the Support and Advice section, where many ask for advice to their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and please look at our profile and tell us how we can make it better as we don’t seem to get much luck haha we are new here .
Get your fella to crack a smile.....he's a scary looking dude
Dont tell him I said that "
Lmao if he smiles he looks more dodgy with his gold teeth. haha |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
No public pics and one line of text, instant delete.
Single profiles full of action shots, where you can see more of everyone else than them.
Single male profiles where they post that they have a Fb who is looking for a man or woman to meet them, make a joint one if she exists.
Those who say they're non smokers and post pics of them with cigs in hand or mouth.
Hiding their sexuality or marital status.
In messages telling me their on a hotel 30 miles away for a night & asking to meet with no other conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile where thay are looking for friendship or FWB I am here for a fuck not for friends or socials.
Couples profile where there are no pictures of the male half.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and please look at our profile and tell us how we can make it better as we don’t seem to get much luck haha we are new here .
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Doesn't seem fair to the OP to hijack this thread by giving you advice here, so I won't. You are an attractive couple and new to Fab (be patient), but there's a couple ref flags in your profile from a couple point of view looking for other couples. Private message and will give you feedback. Otherwise you can open a thread/post in the Support and Advice section, where many ask for advice to their profile. "
Thanks, our apologies we didn’t intend on hijacking their post!. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what is your main 'put off' when viewing a profile or talking to someone.. I hear alot about dick pics being a culprit, but what else??"
When you can tell they are a beg |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"I get put off by anyone who mentions age. Especially when they ruin a compliment by ending it "for your age".
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True, totally agree, well said (for your age)
LOL, Could not help to crack this joke  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and please look at our profile and tell us how we can make it better as we don’t seem to get much luck haha we are new here .
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Doesn't seem fair to the OP to hijack this thread by giving you advice here, so I won't. You are an attractive couple and new to Fab (be patient), but there's a couple ref flags in your profile from a couple point of view looking for other couples. Private message and will give you feedback. Otherwise you can open a thread/post in the Support and Advice section, where many ask for advice to their profile. "
Please feel free to give advice. I don't take anything personally on this site. And I'd like to thankyou for your contribution. I can't really comment on all of these. But like I said previously to someone else. Each has their own personal reasons for being 'put off' and appreciate all of them.
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what is your main 'put off' when viewing a profile or talking to someone.. I hear alot about dick pics being a culprit, but what else??"
Piercings, gaping, 200 verifications, wall to wall tattoos, no bi men. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"To be fair, not everyone wants to show their face to the world on here. Especially if they have an important or high profile job.
It's pretty easy to send a friend request or ask for a pic."
Totally get not having face pics up, I don't, but we can all add some sort of pic that won't identify you to others ie dressed with head cropped off.
I won't add someone to see their pics. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
these post get started so those who ask the question can avoid the pitfall by learning what puts people off ... but heres the thing its pointless info .../for exsample for every woman who dont like cock pics there will be 4 or 5 who do like ...
you asking about put offs to the forums thats tiny 1% or less of fab as a whole and where alot dont even meet...
just be you that way people can deciede correctly if they want to meet you or not the opinion of the few could cost you the opinion of alot |
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"To be fair, not everyone wants to show their face to the world on here. Especially if they have an important or high profile job.
It's pretty easy to send a friend request or ask for a pic.
Totally get not having face pics up, I don't, but we can all add some sort of pic that won't identify you to others ie dressed with head cropped off.
I won't add someone to see their pics. "
I 100% agree with this. A silhouette is just lazy. Unless you have 4 arms not many would recognise you by a clothed body pic and it would at least give others some idea about your shape. The majority on here seek to be discrete but still manage a few pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Updates on medical issues, 'I'm leaving fab', black bin bag wardrobe systems, males telling us what their women "want" (because women can't speak for themselves?), photos of the kids in the background  |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" if he smiles he looks more dodgy with his gold teeth. haha "
I was going to say crack a smile too! Lee looks like he's out to do a hit! Can he smile without showing his teeth?
For me, a bit more about what you like in the bio.
Nice pics though.
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"Not that would put me off but always find strange couples that start saying that they are very much in love, that they have an amazing sex life together and that they are not looking for a replacement, all of which is most most likely true, but totally pointless and irrelevant.
Find annoying profiles that use the disclaimer, despite the gazillion times that Fab admin has said that it is totally useless and unnecessary.
Have a laugh when people declare that they smell amazing. Unless there's a universal eau de toilette scientifically proven to attract all humanity, let me be the judge of smells I like it I don't, please.
Puts us both totally off: no kissing singles/couples. Not for us. If I (Mr.) was forced to choose, I would choose kissing the lady to a blowjob from her."
Totally agree |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Bareback play pics on a single guys profile... More often than not, genitals in general, especially close ups... Oohh and pics that take you 10 minutes to figure out wtf they are actually off   |
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All pictures xxx explicit..
The mind is a powerful sexual organ… let it wonder about the delights beneath the clothes in a few, at least… intriguing me, peak my interest…
Then if you do meet, the expectation and wonder of revealing a fabulous pair of boobs for first time for example, just increases the desire…
A pretty face and gorgeous eyes/ smile are very alluring too
Not saying i don’t enjoy most pics though, but sometimes less , is more |
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"Not really a put off but it’s hard to search couple profiles when there’s only one of the couple in the pictures , or just a ass nothing wrong with a ass but how you suppose to get a feel for the profile seems ours is one of the only ones showing our selfs lol "
For us it’s simply so we remain anonymous until we’ve spoken to someone first. We will always swap face pics but we’ve come across so many local people. Some we know some we don’t and we would like to decide wether or not I want those to know who we are.
Mrs G |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pictures just showing a pussy or a cock
Profiles with no personality
‘Fill in later” when the user has been on for months
The demand to send a pic with the first message |
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Pictures that only show him with various women (who I doubt all agree to their photos being posted on his profile). Lines such as "is anyone real on here" or the like. Ranty status updates. Over the toilet cock pics. Pictures with their tongue sticking out. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The looking for anything status or anyone free haha . Dick pics, attitude. the I am horny so you should be too type attitude. Lots of things but they are the main ones. |
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Single guy profile full of pics where he is hanging out of random women.
How can you get an idea of someone from the last inch of their cock in a hole.
Begs the question of consent when they tell you it's an ex. Aye sure pal I let all my exes flaunt photos of me over the Internet!
I'm not likely to be meeting the arse in the pics so what's the point of said pics!
Oh and cocks over a toilet... saw one where they hadn't even flushed. Will leave the description there(boak) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications
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LOL. I was waiting for you to say that, Gertie.
I aim to please.
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You definitely do, in the Forum. We know verís are your kryptonite. Surprised you have not blocked us yet "
I wouldn't do that. |
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"Couple saying they like you then swap photos and saying not for them really annoys us
But you might not find them attractive after seeing the photos?
- bareback pics "
Face pics swapped liked them but they didnt like us but its there loss |
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"Couple saying they like you then swap photos and saying not for them really annoys us
But you might not find them attractive after seeing the photos?
- bareback pics
Face pics swapped liked them but they didnt like us but its there loss"
Least they were honest
No one’s loss, everyone wants different
Each to their own x |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Bareback, long, long and very long profiles with unreasonable demands and clearly punching above their weight (IMHO)."
Do you mean a single woman’s profile? I don’t understand how a single person can be punching above their weight… |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
London/ South West (Devon, Somerset). |
"Bareback, long, long and very long profiles with unreasonable demands and clearly punching above their weight (IMHO).
Do you mean a single woman’s profile? I don’t understand how a single person can be punching above their weight…"
Any profile that is making unreasonable demands and asking for a meet with people that are unlikely to want to meet them. Could be any profile m/f or couples. |
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"Couple saying they like you then swap photos and saying not for them really annoys us
But you might not find them attractive after seeing the photos?
- bareback pics
Face pics swapped liked them but they didnt like us but its there loss
Least they were honest
No one’s loss, everyone wants different
Each to their own x"
I know not saying we r everyones cup of tea but just saying it happens a lot sumtimes |
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Not that men are what we are looking for, but so many guys message that have pictures of them mainly looking like they have stopped caring about their appearance or the space they live in.
Worst offenders football shirts and far too close to the camera on a selfie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not that men are what we are looking for, but so many guys message that have pictures of them mainly looking like they have stopped caring about their appearance or the space they live in.
Worst offenders football shirts and far too close to the camera on a selfie."
Sums it up nicely! |
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