What's the point of interests on your profile when nobody seems to read them, we get messages all the time asking for meets with sub or dom guys or cuckold they are not on our interests list so wouldn't you assume we aren't interested, same goes for bi preference its clear on our profile we are searching for bi guys but straight guys still message. T |
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It's an epidemic of people not been able to read. I don't understand the logic of people either. I think part of the problem is it's so easy to be anonymous on here and waste people's time, which is incredibly unfortunate.
Looking at your profile it's pretty obvious what you are looking for 
Would hate to see your mailbox.
Hope you eventually find what you are looking for. |
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Drives us nuts, you get the ridiculous messages of "what you looking for?"
Read the damn profile!
We make a point of looking over people's interests and their blurb before we write to anyone, surely that's the point of the profile (not just the title pictures) |
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"What's the point of interests on your profile when nobody seems to read them, we get messages all the time asking for meets with sub or dom guys or cuckold they are not on our interests list so wouldn't you assume we aren't interested, same goes for bi preference its clear on our profile we are searching for bi guys but straight guys still message. T"
People don’t bother reading anything on a profile just get cluster bombed with messages. |
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"What's the point of interests on your profile when nobody seems to read them, we get messages all the time asking for meets with sub or dom guys or cuckold they are not on our interests list so wouldn't you assume we aren't interested, same goes for bi preference its clear on our profile we are searching for bi guys but straight guys still message. T"
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"Glad we are not the only ones. Please read profiles before messaging guys that's the point of a profile. Our profile starts to get negative if we have to spell it out to people."
It's almost like people need to have feedback or get flagged as a time waster but I presume there is also the danger that will get abused as well.
It seems that a lot of men are spoiling things for everyone else.
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By *ORBCouple
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We actually have it written in our bio that we have zero interest in camming, exchanging numbers for sexting or jumping to external chat apps.
We don't get many messages, probably less than 40 in total and the profile is a year old but too many of those lead off with how they would like to cam with us or go dogging.
We both have single profiles as well and know how to approach people but it's hard to understand anyone sending the same message a number of times despite having been told they aren't what we are looking for. |
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It's an excellent filtering support add-on, for free  . Obviously there are very diverse people here. Some of them will be extremely far-removed from what you want, including those who want chat with sexual content to help them get off. I generally identify such deadbeats as deadbeats that aren't compatible.
Many men, in particular, don't recognise the level of effort required to get good matches and meets. All genders need to work hard and if they make it harder for anyone, they are not welcome. |
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On our profile we explicitly say we do not wish to engage with bi sexual men or those with an interest in dogging. What do we get? We get inundated with messages from bi sexual men and doggers. We'd say that out of ten messages received only 1 has had the courtesy to have read our profile. |
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